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Dom / sub what are your limits

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

I had an ex years ago really into pain she set a safe word but only used it once and asked me to do some really rough stuff to her which l have to say l really enjoyed and the harder l was with her the louder and more intense her orgasms were.

Anyone else like it really rough? What makes you use the safe word?

Whats the most painful think you have enjoyed

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Had a Thai massage yesterday, that’s probably my pain limit

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

With a happy ending?


"Had a Thai massage yesterday, that’s probably my pain limit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a dominant man but that doesn't mean I'm into pain....

I like a tall strong fit good looking younger man man to take control of me sexually untill I decide to take control him taking control maybe him putting me in positions he wants to take me in....I'm petite & flexible so I can easily be lifted & taken in many positions

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I've been with a few girls that like it tougher than I'd ever thought of .. each to their own

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

What's the most extreme thing thru have asked you to do and once you knew they enjoyed it did you?


"I've been with a few girls that like it tougher than I'd ever thought of .. each to their own "

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By *ulcanriderMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Im Dom and i have virtually no limits but always respect the limits of any sub I play with.

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

That's how l was with her but she had virtually no limits she loved pain

What's the most extreme thing you have done to a girl


"Im Dom and i have virtually no limits but always respect the limits of any sub I play with."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I love pain it tips me over the edge and makes everything more intense.

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

What's the most intens sexual pain you have enjoyed


"Yes. I love pain it tips me over the edge and makes everything more intense. "

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By *ulcanriderMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Yes. I love pain it tips me over the edge and makes everything more intense. "

What ashame we are so far apart

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By *ulcanriderMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"That's how l was with her but she had virtually no limits she loved pain

What's the most extreme thing you have done to a girl

Im Dom and i have virtually no limits but always respect the limits of any sub I play with."

Blood play is one of the most extreme things ive done to a girl. That and breath play via hanging. But these are very extreme and very rare to find someone whos that extreme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have actually become more sensitive the older I've gotten.

I am definitely not a pain slut but love a dominant man.

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By *ylonlickMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love being dominanted and humiliated, the more and harder the better the orgasim.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

Pain releases very similar pleasure endorphins to the brain that sexual stimulation does.

There is a bit of research on it out there.

Our experience it was definitely M who brought it to our relationship, I (R) have fully accepted the role as Dom, but it is not the inflicting pain that is enjoyable rather that enjoyment of M receiving the spank, hot wax, tied etc.

As for extremes, well the only time I’ve heard amber was when we were doing some wax play….there is a video that captures the moment on our profile.

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By *ulcanriderMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I have actually become more sensitive the older I've gotten.

I am definitely not a pain slut but love a dominant man. "

How do you like to be dommed ? Whats your limit ?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I really enjoy pain sexually but I’m not a sub.

I avoid anyone who says they don’t have limits as it usually means they aren’t experienced- everyone has limits lol.

Definitely more suitable conversation on the kink specific sites rather than swingers ones

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By *osie89Woman
over a year ago

Anglesey

I love pain and my tolerance is usually quite high, although it can vary depending on mood, hormones, the scene, etc.

Some people seem to think that dishing it out means always having to go extreme, but sometimes less is more.

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

I wish l had seen your profile when l was working down in Norfolk those videos are amazing. Just what l enjoy


"Pain releases very similar pleasure endorphins to the brain that sexual stimulation does.

There is a bit of research on it out there.

Our experience it was definitely M who brought it to our relationship, I (R) have fully accepted the role as Dom, but it is not the inflicting pain that is enjoyable rather that enjoyment of M receiving the spank, hot wax, tied etc.

As for extremes, well the only time I’ve heard amber was when we were doing some wax play….there is a video that captures the moment on our profile."

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had an ex years ago really into pain she set a safe word but only used it once and asked me to do some really rough stuff to her which l have to say l really enjoyed and the harder l was with her the louder and more intense her orgasms were.

Anyone else like it really rough? What makes you use the safe word?

Whats the most painful think you have enjoyed "

I think you misunderstand the dynamic of dom/sub

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

Limits are weird, in terms they should be obeyed. My main concern with the bdsm lifestyle is that some of the participants rub off on each other to the point of trying to out do each other on limits which is risky. Not all and sadly I see this with younger bdsm players who meet up at munches and at the bbb. It should be your enjoyment and torment and not a game of top trumps on who should do the most. Of course push your limits but push them because you want to not to keep up with your fellow subs or doms in a weird game of keep up with the Joneses.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I have a friend who was playing at a club and although she has a high tolerance the person did something without asking permission. She used the safe word but couldn't be heard above the loud music and she jumped up at an unnatural angle and hurt her back badly.

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

That's bad Alway respect limits and make sure safe word or maybe action in noisy environments is respected
"I have a friend who was playing at a club and although she has a high tolerance the person did something without asking permission. She used the safe word but couldn't be heard above the loud music and she jumped up at an unnatural angle and hurt her back badly. "

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish


"I have a friend who was playing at a club and although she has a high tolerance the person did something without asking permission. She used the safe word but couldn't be heard above the loud music and she jumped up at an unnatural angle and hurt her back badly. "

That is not good at all and why even though asked on occasion we would never share in a D/s scene. As the Dom I wouldn’t know the cues of the sub which me and M have been built up over a period of time, also as the Sub you have to have total trust that the Dom understands your limits.

After we play it always ends in aftercare where as Don you have to look after your sub, cuddle, comfort etc/

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By *ess007Woman
over a year ago

Blackpool

I’m

Not into pain at all

Like spanking and light pain but nothing that’s going to intentionally hurt.

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By *hatsthisMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

As a man with sub desires , im more about doing chores, body worship , foot rubs as a Mistress chats with real men .

Not into pain though id expect some punishment .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (S) love to be pushed to the edge, but not to the point it really hurts so always play with safe words, one to ease up and one to stop…… for me it’s about being the tease that’s then out of control

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

Blood

Scat

Sharps

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By *mie subCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Doncaster

I like pain just don’t like can and marks being left, choking ect I do like too

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By *ansduoCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was recently bending over to put a light switch off and felt a sudden pain across my lower back. Backs can be funny and we should all careful.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I did a ball busting session last week. The guy was rock hard all the way through but his cock was black and blue at the end of the session.

I've also left some bums in a state after a severe caning but thats the day job lol x

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