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" So having been on here for a little while now as looking at plenty of profiles . How can men say they are straight, but are willing to meet TV/TS. Or the ones that say Bi curious. But they have many verifications from guys. Surely they are Bi , and not curious any more. What's every ones thoughts. " They are bi but dont want to admit to it | |||
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"I don't see why it should be thought. As a bi man I always thing that it's just double the fun. . This is a sex site after all. " Some people won't meet bi men. Best to just tick Straight. | |||
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"I don't see why it should be thought. As a bi man I always thing that it's just double the fun. . This is a sex site after all. Some people won't meet bi men. Best to just tick Straight. " For whatever reason some people won't meet Bi Men, So what you're saying is its best to lie to them ? I don't see the issue calling them Bi or Gay if they like to meet Men or suck cock etc Why get up tight about other people saying you're Bi or gay, You're on a site looking to meet up and you probably keep it private that you're on here, its 2023 not the 50s | |||
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"2 straight men fucking each other is ok. " thats gay not sorry | |||
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"You know what people are missing the point so will longer repeat myself" No one’s missing the point, it’s just not that black and white. I’ve had sex with women. I don’t find them attractive. Only in situations where I know men like it. I’d never date a woman, or even have sex with one alone. Bi women say I’m not bi. Straight women say I’m probably bi. Couldn’t care less which it is, it was fun at the time cos the guys loved it. Sex and attraction can be very separate. | |||
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"Does it matter? If they're not attracted to men, but fuck someone in the arse from behind who looks like a girl, but wouldn't be interested in a penis or anyone male presenting, it would be pointless to say they're bi. People can define themselves however they want." Can I be a rotten cabbage? | |||
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"Biphobia abounds on this site unfortunately" It sure does. I'm bi but understand why some describe as straight. | |||
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"Does it matter? If they're not attracted to men, but fuck someone in the arse from behind who looks like a girl, but wouldn't be interested in a penis or anyone male presenting, it would be pointless to say they're bi. People can define themselves however they want." 2 straight men can fuck each other and still be straight. | |||
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"Gay man has sex with a woman is he bisexual or can he still claim to be homosexual ? Does the gay community insist he’s bisexual and he should stop labelling himself gay ? " Exactly this | |||
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" So having been on here for a little while now as looking at plenty of profiles . How can men say they are straight, but are willing to meet TV/TS. Or the ones that say Bi curious. But they have many verifications from guys. Surely they are Bi , and not curious any more. What's every ones thoughts. " Why does it actually matter? | |||
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"Meh it’s just straight up double standards, seen a lot of it over the years. Women are almost expected/presumed to be at least bi-curious. That’s celebrated. While men, even being honest about being a bit bi-curious will get their sexuality questioned. Just like in these kind of threads lol How people choose to identify is up to them, but I’ve more and more understood why men ‘hide’ their bi side on here. Some awful bigots about. " You're right there women are encouraged to be bi, because so many men get off on it. It doesn't matter how people choose to see themselves, but what does matter is that they are honest with potential meets. If you want bi play be upfront, I say this because I'm straight and half a couple. We've spoken to couples where the fem has been listed as straight & we've discussed we only do full/soft swap of opposite partners. They've agreed that's fine, then later tried to bring up fem to fem play. That's not on offer and was a total waste of our time. I can see why men hide it, as they are more looked down on by some couples and ladies. | |||
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"Being curious isn’t being gay or being bi isn’t what defines as gay is you openly telling people your gay u mite think Want to be gay untill had s cock up the arse lol I’ve been told it hurts really bad but the still love it lol " Whoever told you it's hurts real bad to have a cock up your arse, isn't doing it properly.. | |||
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" So having been on here for a little while now as looking at plenty of profiles . How can men say they are straight, but are willing to meet TV/TS. Or the ones that say Bi curious. But they have many verifications from guys. Surely they are Bi , and not curious any more. What's every ones thoughts. " In a world where people can identify as penguins I wouldn’t worry about it mate you’re in a losing battle | |||
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not" It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious. Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay. Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere. People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them. | |||
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious. Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay. Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere. People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them. " Stupid... Bi curious... Thinking about it Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more .. Simple... | |||
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious. Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay. Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere. People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them. Stupid... Bi curious... Thinking about it Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more .. Simple..." this right here, I tend to explore and if it feels good why the hell not. | |||
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious. Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay. Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere. People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them. Stupid... Bi curious... Thinking about it Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more .. Simple..." If you say so | |||
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious. Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay. Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere. People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them. Stupid... Bi curious... Thinking about it Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more .. Simple... If you say so " Yup... Not a snowflake and don't need numerous labels to describe simple stuff... Pretty simple really x | |||
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious. Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay. Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere. People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them. Stupid... Bi curious... Thinking about it Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more .. Simple... If you say so Yup... Not a snowflake and don't need numerous labels to describe simple stuff... Pretty simple really x" Watch out everyone - Karl has just sorted out decades of scientific study in one moment of brilliance. There’s definitely only 3 types of sexualities across people now. Karl’s logic is just that irrefutable, can’t believe I didn’t see it sooner! We should get him in to sort out Palestine/Isreal too | |||
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