FabSwingers.com forum: Again.... Why why why.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same problem.. There no real harm in it though I don't think ?

What does annoy me is when men message you when its clear if they read your profile your straight..

These no excuse for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have fabbed my pictures to, it's just a complement. Your pictures are very nice btw.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Think it's meant as a compliment. They are rather delicious pictures!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be that your pics look gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very strange isnt it?

I have had several messages from "straight" guys interested in bi fun.

To be honest it puts me off meeting them as they are obviously playing the odds - they must think that couples or ladies are less likely to meet a guy who says he is bi.

The straights who are fabbing your pics are presumably closet bi guys and they are hoping you are too!

Great pics by the way!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me. "

Does it really matter?

If they are on display then anyone can Fab them. Half the people who do probably don't even look at your profile.

I occasionally l look through the ladies new pictures and Fab the ones I like - I don't look at the profiles, for all I know half of them could be lesbians or not looking for single men. It's just a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus, it gives you a good excuse to start a thread on here and get more women looking at your pics!

It's the same for me, the off fab from the ladies but more from men, even though my prof clearly says I'm straight. As others have said, it's just a compliment so chill and take it for that, nothing more. And as for guys messaging you even though you say you're straight, I don't think it helps that apparently a lot of guys on here who say they're straight are actually open to a bit of MM on the quiet. Personally I can't blame for chancing their arm with a message - after all, it's what I'm doing every time I contact a woman!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

John gets his pics fabbed by lots of guys and even though he is 100% straight it don't bother him in the slightest, relax chill out and enjoy the attention... nice pics by the way xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there are so many closet guy men/women what's the point in stating on her if your gay or straight?

I think there are some people on here that get so desperate for sexual contact they throw out messages left right and centre.. Very sad lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me. "

I fabbed a ladies pic of her tattoo....I am straight....I just liked her pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is such a taboo on guys being bi that they don't openly display it.

Just the way things are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me at all that straight guys fab my pictures, it just baffles me why they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There maybe some stigma regarding being bi but gay and bi me should respect what's on your profile.. If it says straight then they should take it as that person is straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't bother me at all that straight guys fab my pictures, it just baffles me why they do. "

Errr id guess that they aren't really straight and that maybe fabbing your pics is a way of intiating contact, similar to a wink.

My _iew anyway which I think is logical. Otherwise like you already said, why would they bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me. "

I am female and not at all bisexual but i fab female pics if they are what I call really lovely nowt to do with being bi or not we can all appreciate the same form as ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me at all that straight guys fab my pictures, it just baffles me why they do.

Errr id guess that they aren't really straight and that maybe fabbing your pics is a way of intiating contact, similar to a wink.

My _iew anyway which I think is logical. Otherwise like you already said, why would they bother

And after looking at your profile (maybe I should have dine that first) I reckon its to test the water with you. There are people that put straight on their profile for various reasons when they are bi. I wiuld say by fabbing your pics they are seeing if you are a closet bi. If you are and you liked there profile then youd message back. That way they aren't winking messaging loads of straight guys trying to find the closset bi's.

Maybe im wrong but seems logicsl to me. I get tv's and guys fabbing my pics all the time. A bit dissapointing when you realise its not a woman but hey ho just ignore and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It could be that your pics look gay "

Do my pics look gay then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the only way a picture can look "gay" is if there is gay content.

There is nothing wrong with being gay or bi if that floats some peoples boat then good luck to them. I just think people should respect profiles and read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me. "

why does it baffle you ?

You got nearly 40 really nice comments about your profile, your pics the last time you asked, 5 weeks ago...

You have taken time to take nice pics to portray yourself on the site as an attractive looking guy. People are appreciating the picture. Now sone bi/gay guys will be thinking 'I wish he was batting for our team', but you are not, you seem to be very comfortable with your sexuality.... embrace it, enjoy yourself, accept the appreciation and don't give it another thought.

If next time you approach your front door and there are 3 hard cocks poking through the letter box.... time to concern yourself.

all the best

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha ^^^^^ very true!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

So to fab someones pics you have to fancy them?

Is that a new rule?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me.

why does it baffle you ?

You got nearly 40 really nice comments about your profile, your pics the last time you asked, 5 weeks ago...

If next time you approach your front door and there are 3 hard cocks poking through the letter box.... time to concern yourself.

all the best

like I said, it doesn't bother me at all. I was just wondering if I was giving out the wrong signals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm liking the signals your giving out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the only way a picture can look "gay" is if there is gay content.

There is nothing wrong with being gay or bi if that floats some peoples boat then good luck to them. I just think people should respect profiles and read them."

Yh but with so many guys on here down as straight and aren't then they don't take much notice really..

Is it that hard to ignore them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one said it was hard to ignore them .. But if it says STRAIGHT on a profile people should respect that ! Don't you think? Even just out of politeness if nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its your own fault J ... we Bi guys are trying to turn you to the "dark side" and get out hands on your body lol

In all seriousness; i only normally FAB pics for like minded men or sexy looking couples/fems..... only did it in your case as a wind up lol

Why do Bi/Gay men fab Straight men....wishfull thinking i guess lol

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Does this mean I am not allowed to look at pictures of lesbians?

Mr new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jon makes a good point .. I think a gay or bi man fabbing a pic is a good way of testing the water!

That way its down to the person if they contact the person who's fabbing the pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say what I always say when this regular question comes up.

If you have pictures showing cock and ass, then you will have interest from people who are turned on by cock and ass - these people will not always be women.

I have had my pics fabbed by women, men, TVs and anything else inbetween. It doesnt really matter does it. Your not being forced to have anal sex with these fabbers, so why is it such a big problem.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It could be that your pics look gay

Do my pics look gay then....

Hmmm...not gay per se, perhaps a little homoerotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me. "

I too get messages etc from straight guys wanting my willy just fail to see why not be open with it. Unless i have super powers that turn straight into cocksuckers

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"people should respect that ! Don't you think? Even just out of politeness if nothing else. "

***Sniggers***...yeah, like the married, short, bi, Dom, black guys are that message me, when I'm looking for single, tall, straight, sub, white men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people should respect that ! Don't you think? Even just out of politeness if nothing else.

***Sniggers***...yeah, like the married, short, bi, Dom, black guys are that message me, when I'm looking for single, tall, straight, sub, white men.

I agree totally people should read profiles ! The first thing you think if someone totally off your radar messages you is.. "Didn't they read my profile" ..

I have been guilty of this in the past .. And I'm glad to say I've learned my lesson and always read profiles now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i really dont see why people are bothered about who fabs them, it dont mean you have to shag them just means they like your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could be that your pics look gay

Do my pics look gay then....

Go onto Google and look up gay magazines. Have a look in the gallery, what kind of pics will be showing.

There will be pics of naked guys with their back turned to the camera, there will be pics of guys standing with their jeans undone showing a bit of pubic hair, there will be pics of guys laying down fully naked, pics of guys holding their cocks - all of these pictures are exactly the type of pic that will be found on the majority of mens pics on this site.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

A tiny bit of very mild homophobia floating about here I think...

Gay people looking at you isn't like a zombie bite... I think you're safe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A tiny bit of very mild homophobia floating about here I think...

Gay people looking at you isn't like a zombie bite... I think you're safe

not once have I moaned about gay or bi guys looking at or fabbing my pictures. It's the straight guys that keep doing it. That's what I'm on about. So I'm not being homophobic at all.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

You were worried about giving off the wrong signals as straight guys keep fabbing you

The initial statement doesn't make sense, I could understand it if you said

Why are straight guys fabbing me

But to prefix it with "wrong signals" has caused some confusion in your statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw if any men want to fab my pictures please feel free, it doesn't threaten my sexuality and makes me smile!

PS sorry your pictures do look like something out of gay porn but I bet you already know that!

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me. "

I'm not surprised mmm (funsize) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me. "

Listen mate grow a pair of ball and man up! People fab your picture because its a good picture! Take it on the chin wipe your eye and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had my pictures fabbed by guys and got the messages too...no harm in it

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

"Btw if any men want to fab my pictures please feel free, it doesn't threaten my sexuality and makes me smile!

PS sorry your pictures do look like something out of gay porn but I bet you already know that!"

Same here if any straight men want to fab my "laying in bed on a Sunday morning trying to get my cock hard pic" go ahead make my day, and if you do fab them I will mince up to your house and demand cocktails

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By *TUDLY_GOOD_FUCKMan
over a year ago

mansfield

Someone fabed my pic once.... Honest!!!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me. "

now I'm not saying your body in particular may be a work of art as I've not looked but to think that people can't just because of the sexual proclivity appreciate a well honed physique is a little naive on your part..

I'm sure there is more than a few a bodybuilder types here that understand and appreciate the work involved in achieving a sculptured form and I doubt they're all gay/bi.

it may be you have some interesting tatts the are again appreciated and they feel worthy of fabbing them..

appreciate the compliment and move on to worrying about just how long they will continue to fab your pics..

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Btw if any men want to fab my pictures please feel free, it doesn't threaten my sexuality and makes me smile!

PS sorry your pictures do look like something out of gay porn but I bet you already know that!"

not checked them out personally just trusting the posters _iew about the pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Btw if any men want to fab my pictures please feel free, it doesn't threaten my sexuality and makes me smile!

PS sorry your pictures do look like something out of gay porn but I bet you already know that!

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

Tbh the amount of "straight" profiles I see yet verified by bi/gay guys after meets is laughable. So straight gets getting messages from bi guys doesn't surprise me since of the ones that lie in their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh the amount of "straight" profiles I see yet verified by bi/gay guys after meets is laughable. So straight gets getting messages from bi guys doesn't surprise me since of the ones that lie in their profile."

so many guys have STRAIGHT on their profile but they BI but they still in closet dunno why but they are daft innit in this day and age xxxx

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Maybe just be happy that people are taking time out to fab your pics? Doesn't particularly matter their sexuality. As has been already stated, a compliment is exactly that.

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By *erendipityWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Are these straight men fabbing you of 'a certain age'? if so, it may be the sepia tone that's attracting them. It's like catnip for mature gents you know!

Of course, if it's a burning issue for you, you can easily control who sees your pics in future - make them private - no more pesky fabbing from the straighties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens to me all the time. Given up now let um get on with it :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it ok for Single fems to fab them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yet again I'm having my pictures fabbed by straight guys. Please tell me, am I giving out the wrong signals or something. it's really baffling me. "

Why is it a problem? Be happy that people appreciate your pics, life's too short to worry about such things....

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