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Feeling very down and insecure with myself

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By *uvft OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Feeling very down and insecure with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi mate.. I hope you are ok..if you need someone to chat with then feel free to message. Big hugs

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Chin up mate, I get down too. Hope you’re ok

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

Sorry to hear you’re feeling down. I hope things improve for you. X

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By *uvft OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Aww thanks inbox me

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Sorry to hear mate. Been through it myself this week, as been off work and had lots of time to think about things while everyone's busy.

Feel free to message if needed as I know it helps to just vent at times. Chin up bro !

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Is there anything in particular that brought this feeling? Also, we've all been there. Try something that makes you happy or feel good about yourself.

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"Feeling very down and insecure with myself"

Keep your chin up mate.. The sun always shines again, even after a storm.

Just imagine how down and useless those lifeguards feel at the swimming pools in the Olympics.. Or the guys that put indicators on BMWs.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

OP, I am sorry you feel down and insecure but please keep to the forum. Just because I posted on your thread, it does not mean I want you to message me. Did you message the men, too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling very down and insecure with myself"

Dude, I've been there. Fab has a way of taking the wind out of your sails that very little else can compare to.

Take it easy, indulge yourself and just make yourself your number 1 priority. Maybe take a break from Fab too? I've found that it helps me to no end when I'm feeling that way.

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"OP, I am sorry you feel down and insecure but please keep to the forum. Just because I posted on your thread, it does not mean I want you to message me. Did you message the men, too? "

Absolutely no need to write that response publicly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up bro, nothings ever as bad as it first seems

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"OP, I am sorry you feel down and insecure but please keep to the forum. Just because I posted on your thread, it does not mean I want you to message me. Did you message the men, too?

Absolutely no need to write that response publicly "

There absolutely was! He has been offered a chat from at least one man yet he did not message them (he told me). As I said in that reply, just because I posted on the thread, it is NOT an open invitation to DMs. He needs to message those who offered a chat, if he genuinely needs help.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Sorry you're feeling this way OP, if its fab making you feel this way or making it worse maybe have a fab break for a while, hope things get better for you soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, I am sorry you feel down and insecure but please keep to the forum. Just because I posted on your thread, it does not mean I want you to message me. Did you message the men, too?

Absolutely no need to write that response publicly

There absolutely was! He has been offered a chat from at least one man yet he did not message them (he told me). As I said in that reply, just because I posted on the thread, it is NOT an open invitation to DMs. He needs to message those who offered a chat, if he genuinely needs help. "

Nah I'm with the other guy no need to publicly embarrass the lad

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm sorry you feel that way, OP. See if you can find people in your life to reach out to, or do things that lift you up (singing and walking help me)

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By *obert.Man
over a year ago

wigan

I hope you feel better op. Is it the change of seasons? Shorter days and darker. It effects alot of us (Seasonal disorder) Try and keep busy and surround yourself with fun upbeat people who make you laugh your tits off x

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"OP, I am sorry you feel down and insecure but please keep to the forum. Just because I posted on your thread, it does not mean I want you to message me. Did you message the men, too?

Absolutely no need to write that response publicly

There absolutely was! He has been offered a chat from at least one man yet he did not message them (he told me). As I said in that reply, just because I posted on the thread, it is NOT an open invitation to DMs. He needs to message those who offered a chat, if he genuinely needs help. "

I agree with this. If a man messaged you without invite and you reply then it just encourages conversation. The OP posted in the public forum, all responses should be posted in the forum unless invited/agreed to send DMs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OP, I am sorry you feel down and insecure but please keep to the forum. Just because I posted on your thread, it does not mean I want you to message me. Did you message the men, too?

Absolutely no need to write that response publicly

There absolutely was! He has been offered a chat from at least one man yet he did not message them (he told me). As I said in that reply, just because I posted on the thread, it is NOT an open invitation to DMs. He needs to message those who offered a chat, if he genuinely needs help.

I agree with this. If a man messaged you without invite and you reply then it just encourages conversation. The OP posted in the public forum, all responses should be posted in the forum unless invited/agreed to send DMs"

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By *uddleWithCraigMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton or Travels

Reach out if you need to talk or vent as plenty of people will offer up including myself as best to talk

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By *uvft OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Thanks babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, I am sorry you feel down and insecure but please keep to the forum. Just because I posted on your thread, it does not mean I want you to message me. Did you message the men, too?

Absolutely no need to write that response publicly

There absolutely was! He has been offered a chat from at least one man yet he did not message them (he told me). As I said in that reply, just because I posted on the thread, it is NOT an open invitation to DMs. He needs to message those who offered a chat, if he genuinely needs help.

I agree with this. If a man messaged you without invite and you reply then it just encourages conversation. The OP posted in the public forum, all responses should be posted in the forum unless invited/agreed to send DMs"

So the guy reaches out and then gets publicly shamed, wasn't it just easier to delete the message?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Let's keep on topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling very down and insecure with myself"

Healthy body, healthy mind. Never underestimate the power of endorphins (from a healthy source)

Also like any form of social media, avoid the pitfalls of comparing yourself to others.

It won't make you feel any better when you see the profiles of

perfect looking 6ft3 super ripped blocked with tons of veris saying how they're literally perfect haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you feel better soon op, keep busy and positive

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