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"Swingers are no more open minded or free of judgement than anyone else in society. Some people here will respect your kinks, others won’t." I agree. In fact I think that quite a few people are less accepting of the way others play and feel more able to say so. There seems to be an element of 'our way is the right way' | |||
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"E.g 'Rolecall for the lovers of bareback' has far less negative views in it than 'Who likes bareback?' which opens the thread for opinions both negative and positive. " | |||
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"I think when discussing anything, you can't state only people who like it can comment. Any opinion, good or bad is valid. If someone thinks it's disgusting then they think it's disgusting. " Although there’s a strong argument that if you do think it’s disgusting, the nicer thing to do would be not to comment at all. | |||
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"To be honest they have fabguys they could do well with fabkinks as fl is terrible to navigate " What a brilliant idea … FL is hard hard work… Fkinks for those who are double naughty | |||
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"To be honest they have fabguys they could do well with fabkinks as fl is terrible to navigate " Oh God. The amount of alpha doms and do me subs would be even more overwhelming than here. Out I like the other site. It's good for seeing what events are on and keeping up with the people I meet along the way, and my inbox there isn't perpetually filled with fuckboys | |||
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"Not sure we agree at all. If someone posts a open forum topic such as "who likes fisting?" it's perfectly reasonable that those who don't should be able to say so. More often than not this isn't judgemental, but simply a choice. Personally male on male sex is a turn off for us, but we don't think it's wrong, it's just not for us. However there are some things that we do think are wrong. Exhibitionism with non consenting members of the public appears to be a turn on for many, but it is the antithesis of swinging, which should always involve consent. It's also illegal. Are we wrong to criticize those who do it." | |||
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"I think I just expected this site to have members that are more sexually liberated and open-minded than the general public." I think in comparison to the general public, most people on here are MUCH more open-minded. But not as open-minded as people on a kink site. On a kink site, you're unlikely to get people who aren't into kinks, because they wouldn't bother signing up, and if they did, they'd pretty soon get banned. But here the unifying thing is ENM, and people are no more likely to be into kinks than the general public. So the forum is much more likely to reflect a range of views on how attractive certain kinks are. I think perhaps you're making an unstated assumption that the general public aren't into kinks simply because they're not open-minded enough. There is no evidence for that. In fact most kinks are exciting because they're transgressive of social norms. If everyone spent all day dressed in latex gimp suits, it wouldn't be sexy any more. | |||
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