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Can't accommodate, and can't travel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always wonder about people who wont accommodate, and wont travel.. how do you meet people? is it a case of come pick me up, take me to yours and then bring me back? its not fabswingers, not uberswingers

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Meet at a club. Meet at a local hotel. Meet locally at your place within public transport distance. Travel locally for max 15 minutes, but not willing to travel for 2 hours or spend the night away. That's how we interpret profiles like that.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Maybe they don’t want to meet people from here.

Maybe they only do clubs.

Maybe they only do webcams.

Maybe they aren’t looking to meet people at that moment in time (read the first line in my profile)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet at a club. Meet at a local hotel. Meet locally at your place within public transport distance. Travel locally for max 15 minutes, but not willing to travel for 2 hours or spend the night away. That's how we interpret profiles like that."

Exactly this ..

but also they might not have a Vehicle.. You've got to ask rather than assume

(But I have driven 37 miles to collect someone and drop her home -- and driven 28 miles just to meet a Lady for Socials)

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

The possiblities are endless...hotel/bar/pub...

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

all the above may be true but its useful to put some detail on the profile about how you intend to have fun rather than just tick cant travel & cant accom

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"all the above may be true but its useful to put some detail on the profile about how you intend to have fun rather than just tick cant travel & cant accom "

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That's what chat and messages are for, so don't see why people need to explain that in their profile. If you want to meet, and they want, surely the details can be sorted out, right?

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By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER


"I always wonder about people who wont accommodate, and wont travel.. how do you meet people? is it a case of come pick me up, take me to yours and then bring me back? its not fabswingers, not uberswingers"

I don't host or travel...

I am looking for meets in my home town.

Your comment about "Uberswingers" is ridiculous. I don't get picked up and fetched back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" The possiblities are endless...hotel/bar/pub... "

But they have to travel to visit those places .??

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's a melon scratcher, eh

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"It's a melon scratcher, eh "

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Yes. Totally a head scratcher, LOL. If you and us were going to meet, I would guess we would meet at a cafe or pub that's local to you and we would be the ones having to travel to meet you at your local town. Am I wrong? Can't understand why others have trouble to get it.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I always wonder about people who wont accommodate, and wont travel.. how do you meet people? is it a case of come pick me up, take me to yours and then bring me back? its not fabswingers, not uberswingers"

Speaking as someone who can't accommodate. This is because I don't own or rent my own home. Travel is Difficult sometimes because I can't drive.

I hope this may explaine why some may choose local options.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"I always wonder about people who wont accommodate, and wont travel.. how do you meet people? is it a case of come pick me up, take me to yours and then bring me back? its not fabswingers, not uberswingers

Speaking as someone who can't accommodate. This is because I don't own or rent my own home. Travel is Difficult sometimes because I can't drive.

I hope this may explaine why some may choose local options."

Mobility Scooter riders, still living with mummy and daddy. How do they manage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder about people who wont accommodate, and wont travel.. how do you meet people? is it a case of come pick me up, take me to yours and then bring me back? its not fabswingers, not uberswingers"

I don't give it a moments thought...only folk who can answer are those folk

I see it as their profile their choice(s)

If it doesn't fit your needs op, swipe on to next profile

Trying to figure outothers motives is a waste of time and energy, I try and use mine more productively

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...


"Meet at a club. Meet at a local hotel. Meet locally at your place within public transport distance. Travel locally for max 15 minutes, but not willing to travel for 2 hours or spend the night away. That's how we interpret profiles like that."

Yep, same here. Usually a bit of a red flag tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't accommodate but can travel within reason

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Club, online, local only (many people think "travel" means "will go to the other side of the country for me"), hotels. or read their profile.

If in doubt, if there's any reason why a profile doesn't sit right with you, just don't worry about it and move on.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"It's a melon scratcher, eh

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Yes. Totally a head scratcher, LOL. If you and us were going to meet, I would guess we would meet at a cafe or pub that's local to you and we would be the ones having to travel to meet you at your local town. Am I wrong? Can't understand why others have trouble to get it."

You're not exactly right...sometimes I venture out of my local town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many people think that 'travel' means I will travel from London to Edinburgh to meet them. Or 'accommodate' means they can turn up at my house any time, day or night.

Hence nothing is ticked.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Club, online, local only (many people think "travel" means "will go to the other side of the country for me"), hotels. or read their profile.

If in doubt, if there's any reason why a profile doesn't sit right with you, just don't worry about it and move on."

Quite right when in doubt run out. Follow your head and not your privates.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Club, online, local only (many people think "travel" means "will go to the other side of the country for me"), hotels. or read their profile.

If in doubt, if there's any reason why a profile doesn't sit right with you, just don't worry about it and move on."

Quite right when in doubt run out. Follow your head and not your privates.

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