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"Lots of us do a d lots of us won't trust a random claiming to be a Dom to tie them and do what they like "There must be trust for sure | |||
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"Lots of us do a d lots of us won't trust a random claiming to be a Dom to tie them and do what they like There must be trust for sure "Without a doubt its something that needs to be discussed at length and lots of meets before anything like this happens | |||
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"Ewww no, why would anyone want to hurt someone, that's mean. "   lovely ropework | |||
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"Lots of us do a d lots of us won't trust a random claiming to be a Dom to tie them and do what they like There must be trust for sure
Without a doubt its something that needs to be discussed at length and lots of meets before anything like this happens "I am always puzzled by what appears to me to be the belief that dangerous people cannot hold the pose of being reliable for any length of time. I must be missing something. So a genuine query here, how many meetings? what happens at all these meetings? | |||
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"Lots of us do a d lots of us won't trust a random claiming to be a Dom to tie them and do what they like There must be trust for sure
Without a doubt its something that needs to be discussed at length and lots of meets before anything like this happens
I am always puzzled by what appears to me to be the belief that dangerous people cannot hold the pose of being reliable for any length of time.
I must be missing something. So a genuine query here, how many meetings? what happens at all these meetings?"I don't know why you are puzzled women get messages off men on the daily about men wanting to be their Dom and often want to play in that dynamic from the first meet As for how.many meets that depends on the individual It would take me quite a few of I was looking for that kind of thing as trust would need to be built I've been in an abusive relationship in the past so trust is an issue, but another lady may or may not need many meet ups | |||
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"Lots of us do a d lots of us won't trust a random claiming to be a Dom to tie them and do what they like There must be trust for sure
Without a doubt its something that needs to be discussed at length and lots of meets before anything like this happens
I am always puzzled by what appears to me to be the belief that dangerous people cannot hold the pose of being reliable for any length of time.
I must be missing something. So a genuine query here, how many meetings? what happens at all these meetings?
I don't know why you are puzzled women get messages off men on the daily about men wanting to be their Dom and often want to play in that dynamic from the first meet
As for how.many meets that depends on the individual
It would take me quite a few of I was looking for that kind of thing as trust would need to be built I've been in an abusive relationship in the past so trust is an issue, but another lady may or may not need many meet ups"If* I was looking for Terrible typing  | |||
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"Lots of us do a d lots of us won't trust a random claiming to be a Dom to tie them and do what they like There must be trust for sure
Without a doubt its something that needs to be discussed at length and lots of meets before anything like this happens
I am always puzzled by what appears to me to be the belief that dangerous people cannot hold the pose of being reliable for any length of time.
I must be missing something. So a genuine query here, how many meetings? what happens at all these meetings?
I don't know why you are puzzled women get messages off men on the daily about men wanting to be their Dom and often want to play in that dynamic from the first meet
As for how.many meets that depends on the individual
It would take me quite a few of I was looking for that kind of thing as trust would need to be built I've been in an abusive relationship in the past so trust is an issue, but another lady may or may not need many meet ups
If* I was looking for
Terrible typing "We all make typos, a hazard of contributing to the forum. The point I had an issue with is the sweeping statement of many meetings. My view is the same as your second post, the number of meetings is a personal decision. In my process, I have a minimum of two pre-play meetings, and possibly more. But each meeting has and will be for a specific purpose. I think any request for immediate BDSM play or submission on a random message is red flag. I completely agree that time should be taken on both sides to feel comfortable with each other and confident (I don't like the "t" word) that each will keep their word on the essentials of the interaction and will be respectful. But before that, any new person (on both sides of the /) wanting to dip their toe in the BDSM scene or have any play interaction, before doing anything potentially life changing need to be educated about consent, negotiation and what constitutes a safe play. YouTube and Vordormortlife are newbies' friends on this.  | |||
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