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By *arkside2698 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

So, I’ve found the perfect way to catch out a fantasist. A couple of years ago a guy got in touch wanting me to fuck his Mrs. I even met him briefly for a social. It became apparent quite early on that she didn’t have a clue about what went on in his head or that he was on this site. Fast forward 2 years & he’s back, wanting to meet & wanting me to fuck her. Apart from a photo he showed me on his phone when I met him briefly, I’ve never seen or spoken to her. So he wants to meet. I tell him I need to know she exists & has full knowledge & actually wants me to fuck her. Basically I need consent before I even consider leaving my home. I sent this,

Write my fab name on a piece of paper with “I WANT YOU TO FUCK ME” underneath & take a pic of your Mrs holding it up. That’s easy proof for you to do.

Ok was the reply.

I think you can all guess what happened next. Nothing but radio silence ??

So to all you genuine Fabbers out there, I’ve often seen “the females need to speak on the phone first to know you’re genuine “, you don’t even need to do that. Ask for a personalised photo with your FAB name & you fantasist will disappear quicker than a rat up a drainpipe! ??

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot


"So, I’ve found the perfect way to catch out a fantasist. A couple of years ago a guy got in touch wanting me to fuck his Mrs. I even met him briefly for a social. It became apparent quite early on that she didn’t have a clue about what went on in his head or that he was on this site. Fast forward 2 years & he’s back, wanting to meet & wanting me to fuck her. Apart from a photo he showed me on his phone when I met him briefly, I’ve never seen or spoken to her. So he wants to meet. I tell him I need to know she exists & has full knowledge & actually wants me to fuck her. Basically I need consent before I even consider leaving my home. I sent this,

Write my fab name on a piece of paper with “I WANT YOU TO FUCK ME” underneath & take a pic of your Mrs holding it up. That’s easy proof for you to do.

Ok was the reply.

I think you can all guess what happened next. Nothing but radio silence ??

So to all you genuine Fabbers out there, I’ve often seen “the females need to speak on the phone first to know you’re genuine “, you don’t even need to do that. Ask for a personalised photo with your FAB name & you fantasist will disappear quicker than a rat up a drainpipe! ??"

I feel your pain buddy

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

That's a good way to get confirmation that the guy is just a fantasist, but if you got to the stage that you have to ask for such proof, it seems you have figured him out already, LOL.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

If deepfakes can fool most of us I'm sure a photoshopped pic with some writing on could be made up

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"So, I’ve found the perfect way to catch out a fantasist. A couple of years ago a guy got in touch wanting me to fuck his Mrs. I even met him briefly for a social. It became apparent quite early on that she didn’t have a clue about what went on in his head or that he was on this site. Fast forward 2 years & he’s back, wanting to meet & wanting me to fuck her. Apart from a photo he showed me on his phone when I met him briefly, I’ve never seen or spoken to her. So he wants to meet. I tell him I need to know she exists & has full knowledge & actually wants me to fuck her. Basically I need consent before I even consider leaving my home. I sent this,

Write my fab name on a piece of paper with “I WANT YOU TO FUCK ME” underneath & take a pic of your Mrs holding it up. That’s easy proof for you to do.

Ok was the reply.

I think you can all guess what happened next. Nothing but radio silence ??

So to all you genuine Fabbers out there, I’ve often seen “the females need to speak on the phone first to know you’re genuine “, you don’t even need to do that. Ask for a personalised photo with your FAB name & you fantasist will disappear quicker than a rat up a drainpipe! ??"

Now that's a good plan.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are exceptions but almost all men who want to meet you first without their partner are fantasists, no photos holding bits of paper required. We wouldn't have even agreed to a social unless she was present and enthusiastic about it all.

We've had social meets where the woman is clearly not keen, just her body language makes it clear. Husband is either blissfully unaware, deluded or doesn't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I’ve found the perfect way to catch out a fantasist. A couple of years ago a guy got in touch wanting me to fuck his Mrs. I even met him briefly for a social. It became apparent quite early on that she didn’t have a clue about what went on in his head or that he was on this site. Fast forward 2 years & he’s back, wanting to meet & wanting me to fuck her. Apart from a photo he showed me on his phone when I met him briefly, I’ve never seen or spoken to her. So he wants to meet. I tell him I need to know she exists & has full knowledge & actually wants me to fuck her. Basically I need consent before I even consider leaving my home. I sent this,

Write my fab name on a piece of paper with “I WANT YOU TO FUCK ME” underneath & take a pic of your Mrs holding it up. That’s easy proof for you to do.

Ok was the reply.

I think you can all guess what happened next. Nothing but radio silence ??

So to all you genuine Fabbers out there, I’ve often seen “the females need to speak on the phone first to know you’re genuine “, you don’t even need to do that. Ask for a personalised photo with your FAB name & you fantasist will disappear quicker than a rat up a drainpipe! ??"

Erm I think you might find most will say no! We are no fantasists but there is no way I would send a pic of me doing that. Not very discreet imo

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

^^ there is that too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Op did the guy say why his partner couldn't meet you for coffee herself. Quite often when we've been chatting to 'couples' the woman is shopping, in the shower or 'visiting her mother. All code for unaware or non existent in many cases

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By *arkside2698 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton


"Op did the guy say why his partner couldn't meet you for coffee herself. Quite often when we've been chatting to 'couples' the woman is shopping, in the shower or 'visiting her mother. All code for unaware or non existent in many cases "

I don’t recall as it was at least two years ago from initial contact but back then I suspected she had absolutely no idea. I once turned up to a meet where the lady was blindfolded (as arranged) but instantly became clear that she wasn’t a willing participant & I left immediately. I honestly don’t know what goes through these peoples minds?! I like to meet people & have fun but jeez consent is EVERYTHING

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Good thought on how to arrange. I have had this and went to meet guy but “ wife” not with him. She unwell or had to visit someone urgently - but she definitely wants this! Not sure what they get from this and not good to treat others with disrespect

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I mean I'd veto doing the holding up a piece of paper thingy. I'm not a performing seal

I'd ask for a quick phone call, or a facetime though. Easy done at a mutually convenient time.

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