FabSwingers.com forum: 3sum with friends ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here we go whos done it whats best advice navigating through it both male friends and female friends

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By *NV14INVCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

We’re Still looking for it but definitely heading in the right direction.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Done it and it’s fun at the time. My advice would be don’t have fun with friends, especially close ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t mind being the third to join two male friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Creates an awkwardness?

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

"Creates an awkwardness? "

Not at time but defo can escalate into awkwardness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The friend are you still close?

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By *drian52Man
over a year ago

Derby

Agreed not with close friends, there needs to be a connection and all participating need to be in the same page and open about it. Be relaxed and go with the flow.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

My advice would be, never invite close friends into your bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was thinking it would make friendship closer

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

"I was thinking it would make friendship closer "

Don’t do it with friends.

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By *hermogloveMan
over a year ago

Lakes

I was fucking a girl, my mate walked in, got his cock out and she started sucking him off, does that count?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Noted

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By *NV14INVCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

We guess it depends on how close you are as friends and how you met to start your friendship.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Strangers all the way

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By *teve691000Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

My now x wife and I had a 3sum with my best friend. Was amazing at the time. But he wasn’t happy with just that and had a long affair with her. Ended my marriage. My advice is stick with strangers

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By *irAndBalayageExpertCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Here we go whos done it whats best advice navigating through it both male friends and female friends "

Mr did it with his ex and best friend lots

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By *irAndBalayageExpertCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"We’re Still looking for it but definitely heading in the right direction. "

It’s hot

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By *istydustyCouple
over a year ago

newbury

Not with really close friends but just friends is ok . We did with male 3 sum and was great fun

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I’ve done it previously, I would not do it again. Friends I’ve made off fab yes but not in the vanilla world. Luckily we still speak but it could of so easily ruined our frienship

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By *avchaseCouple
over a year ago

Calne

Started as strangers, been close friends with benefits for 15+ years

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By *alfback09Man
over a year ago

Peterboro

A close friend had joined us many times over the years lucky that it hasn’t ruined a friendship but we are very careful how we let it play out,

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"A close friend had joined us many times over the years lucky that it hasn’t ruined a friendship but we are very careful how we let it play out,"

Simple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a MMF threesome several times with a couple I know. Was a lot of fun and was easy to navigate.

She loved having both us guys at the same time

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

LHR

No experience personally, that said, a very close friend of mine invited one of his close friends to join him and his wife……

It’s haunted their marriage ever since, completely destroyed trust, planted seeds of doubt in her mind and later in his mind; she also ‘used’ the experience as her rationale for a side dude!

All in all, a fucking mess!

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london

"Creates an awkwardness? "
not if your real friends it won’t. We only do it when we’re d*unk and horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would with hubby's friends but not with mine

Mrs C

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Couldn't do it with close friends personally.

Mrs

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By *ew ChapterCouple
over a year ago

Redruth

We've done it with 3 of ours.. hot as fuck..Mff and mfff,it's just sex end of the day and we're all still good friends x

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

We said no friends or colleagues

Strangers only

I could never drink with a friend who’s fucked my wife

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By *icky3Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’ve had lots of mmf with couples off here and made them friends. They have all moved on in different directions and off here now. Stick to strangers don’t risk the worlds colliding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only time we have had a threesome was with a friend. Must have been ok as we did it again a few years later.

Best thing we did. Better than a stranger in our opinion

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By *irAndBalayageExpertCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Only time we have had a threesome was with a friend. Must have been ok as we did it again a few years later.

Best thing we did. Better than a stranger in our opinion "

Better with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it and it is great. Just need to be sure that your all on the same page.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"My advice would be, never invite close friends into your bedroom. "

I agree, friendship is worth more than sex to me & if it all goes wrong it could get very awkward.

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By *inkycouple692023Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

We have involved friends on a handful of occasions, always d*unken hot tub or just inviting friends back for a drink

Including best friends

Five different friends including a couple

Single women and two male friends

We have trusted them with our secrets of a swingers lifestyle

Only problem is they only ask the details when everyone is d*unk and it turns into fun with friends

3 of them more than once

Luckily enough we are still friends and never mention anything about it and just carry on until as normal as nothing had ever happened

Trust them all especially the married ones

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

Had 3sums and 4sums with good friends. Never impacted the friendships.

Only issue was with a girl we had several 3sums with that we met on a site. I got close with her and began meeting socially My wife wasn't happy and thought we were playing without her (we weren't)

We broke contact with her

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

My best friend and i work as bouncers...we meet some really nice ladys and every once in a while we both organise wild partys we share the same girl. We have a reguler meets with 2 ladys and they become a right fuck fest.

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By *et and WillingCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

No but met some ladies of here over the years who become very good freinds and often met them just socially between naughty meets

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By *ighting 50Man
over a year ago

Retford

Have been with friends made on here

I feel that is better if done with non lifestyle friends can cause awkwardness

Only my opinion everyone is different

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Had a threesome with two female friends who are a bicouple. I was there play thing and loved it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some really interesting points made here

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By *bflirtyCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Had good and bad experiences of this. We can separate the emotion from it but not everyone you play with can and then it gets tricky. Be prepared for emotional fallout.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We’ve done it with one of his friends and on another occasion one of mine. Years later we’re still friends with both and no issues at all

Even had one friend turn us down and we’re still friends with him

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

With close friends (outside of fab)

D*unk nights

Have got oral at the same time from 2 female friends.

One of them is now in a relationship, Every so often if I am round she likes to watch me & her partner wanking.

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Always said we wouldn't swing with friends although if the situation rose we might talk and think about it If it felt like the right move. X

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

We've had a threesome with a couple of our mates ( women) and been lucky as it's not caused any awkwardness up to now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had soft swing with friends it was great fun

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Our 1st venture into this lifestyle was a MFM with one of my best friends - an on/off thing that lasted the best part of 20 years.

Actually became a MMF on occasion after a while.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"My best friend and i work as bouncers...we meet some really nice ladys and every once in a while we both organise wild partys we share the same girl. We have a reguler meets with 2 ladys and they become a right fuck fest. "

Lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Forgive my ignorance but whats soft swing?

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