FabSwingers.com forum: Were is all the love/bdsm/Hug

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Messaged lots if not most of the Dom women that I think are attractive I've found/seen on fab and they haven't wrote back and said no thank's let alone are you alive . they've just blanked me ! I know that they must get lots of mail but A no thanks would be a result at this rate ! Anyone else get women on here falling at their feet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaged lots if not most of the Dom women that I think are attractive I've found/seen on fab and they haven't wrote back and said no thank's let alone are you alive . they've just blanked me ! I know that they must get lots of mail but A no thanks would be a result at this rate ! Anyone else get women on here falling at their feet ?

I do ...but its not fault they trip over me crutches

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I keep tripping over the lazy buggers. A couple of them shouted obscenities at me. Maybe they were dommes

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I keep tripping over the lazy buggers. A couple of them shouted obscenities at me. Maybe they were dommes"

Ryan, it's Dommes (capital D) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing there are a lot of moaners on this site (and I don't mean in a good way) geez, if ppl don't reply, get over it and move on !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm guessing there are a lot of moaners on this site (and I don't mean in a good way) geez, if ppl don't reply, get over it and move on !!"

What that lovely lady said

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Yeah, loads of them. Sometimes I can barely being myself to open my mail box

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Freedom of speech she had her rant now go and be herrendus to someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't ranting. I stated my opinion just like yourself. If you start a thread be prepared for constructive feedback.. As individuals, we all have different views and takes on things. Its how we reply to others comments that define us as ppl !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wasn't ranting. I stated my opinion just like yourself. If you start a thread be prepared for constructive feedback.. As individuals, we all have different views and takes on things. Its how we reply to others comments that define us as ppl !!!"
yes your defining reply has to me come across as It was a fatal day when the public discovered that the pen is mightier than the paving-stone, and can be made as offensive as the brickbat.

THE SOUL OF MAN UNDER SOCIALISM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a public photo or two And a less condescending attitude may do the trick !!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I keep tripping over the lazy buggers. A couple of them shouted obscenities at me. Maybe they were dommes

Ryan, it's Dommes (capital D) lol

Doh what a Dummer !

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over a year ago

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Why not try a site specifically for bdsm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe a public photo or two And a less condescending attitude may do the trick !!"
thanks for your advice but can't go public and was expecting that word attitude to appear ! That has been tossed on the pile often and something that is saved up for me along with a few others !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not try a site specifically for bdsm?"
thanks will try others

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By *axwellTattMan
over a year ago

knutsford

I see we come back to the age old question yet again, about someone being Dom either male or female?

Letts put the record straight, in my time I have met quite a few Dommie’s and they have never been rude to me. I would say as one of the previous people said a pic of your face might be a very good idea, I would also put things in there about yourself, not that you want to be sub? It’s not a good indicator of who a person is.

However if I mailed someone one and they shouted obstinacies at me I think my hand would not get the block button fast enough, your dispossession in play may be sub but your no doormat and I am sure if anyone spoke to you this way in public you would dispatch them right away, it’s the same for this, manners costs nothing

Are we not all adults? Sounds like someone spat their dummy out with you and if their like this now god knows what their like in play, give them a wide berth.

But the other thing is as well I could not get over people have the right to belong to what ever colure of people they chose to, I agree with that and if they can find the balance in a swinging life compared to a BDSM they should have that choice, make no rules enjoy yourself I have seen one or 2 subs on here that are still in BDSM they like to dabble and play so it should be the same for the rest its your choice.

If you want to go into BDSM then so be it but its about what is your commitment levels like could you do it 24/7, could you do as any Dom male or female wanted? You have to ask yourself all these questions before you do go off there?

As for living in the past its about what I learned I also ask a submissive if she is committed to fill in a play partner list, this gives the Dominant one the questions to hard and soft limits it’s a journey taken by the 2 not the one, I do think a lot forget this and that’s why most of it fails. Domming someone its not guess work there has to be a bases at starting point

I think as well a lot of the old ways have gone out the window, I must be living in a box or a card board box as the song goes?

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

You state that you switch during play,thats confusing for some Dommes who prefer their subs to stay in role.

You point out your mental+PHYSICAL strenghts,that could be worrying to some Dommes.

If you can't find what you looking for than may be it's time to think about who you contact + how.You have got competition from guys who have got a clearer written profile+pics+veri's.

Fetish sites inform you of Munches in your area,they great to meet other kinksters + who knows you might just find what you looking for + get put under consideration.

(susie)

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By *axwellTattMan
over a year ago

knutsford

Well the above post is quite right, if you’re a Switch you cant change mind mid stream anyone would get confused you have to inform them about this, you have to also I would suggest don’t look for just Dominies the look for another Switch that would possibly understand your dilemma, al least they know what your going through. Maybe they can offer some advice or help?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Who's that trip trapping over MY bridge.

I believe the OP has been around the forums long enough to know the answered this 'question '

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