FabSwingers.com forum: racial preference

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it right to state your racial preference? We have seen profiles that state BBC only or no black or asians, in a world of equality should this be allowed or should it be approached differently?

We are interested to here peoples views on this

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Sorry can't see what point you're trying to raise.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, it's allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would save people contacting you, only to be rebuffed because you are not into them.

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

ya you should be wife only plays with black guys so why not state that

white guys can search else where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem? It's my pussy, I'm in charge alone of who I let in

If my preference is BBCs that's surely my prerogative?

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

"I don't see the problem? It's my pussy, I'm in charge alone of who I let in

If my preference is BBCs that's surely my prerogative?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Is it right to state your racial preference? We have seen profiles that state BBC only or no black or asians, in a world of equality should this be allowed or should it be approached differently?

We are interested to here peoples views on this"

but in your profile you say you are not interested in BBW's..... so the same question could be asked of you......

for me a preference is a preference is a preference..

However... I'm the only person who gets to "define" me.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see a problem with putting a racial preference on the profile to be honest.

As a couple we are happy to meet a couple of any race but if L wants to meet up with single guys she is only interested in a BBC, its just her preference and it stops too many people she isn't interested in from messaging.

Not that you don't get those who obviously can't read lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it right to state your racial preference? We have seen profiles that state BBC only or no black or asians, in a world of equality should this be allowed or should it be approached differently?

We are interested to here peoples views on this

but in your profile you say you are not interested in BBW's..... so the same question could be asked of you......

for me a preference is a preference is a preference..

However... I'm the only person who gets to "define" me.......

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

"I don't see the problem? It's my pussy, I'm in charge alone of who I let in

If my preference is BBCs that's surely my prerogative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with it if i see profiles with black only or whatever then i don't contact them simples

I however like black,white and asain pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see the problem? It's my pussy, I'm in charge alone of who I let in

If my preference is BBCs that's surely my prerogative?

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..Well said love it.xx

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Equality in swinging?

....so as a Bi after i played with 2 fems i've got to play with 2 guys....hang on if i include race than thats a lot of playing

(susie)

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"I don't see the problem? It's my pussy, I'm in charge alone of who I let in

If my preference is BBCs that's surely my prerogative?

Nailed it beautifully. Well said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your thoughts! As we stated we were just wondering what people thought, it was a simple question that some seemed to get and others clearly didn't!

Thanks again to all xx

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"Is it right to state your racial preference? We have seen profiles that state BBC only or no black or asians, in a world of equality should this be allowed or should it be approached differently?

We are interested to here peoples views on this"

I think some statments are in danger of mixing preference with prejudice.

It is fine to have a preference based on what you find sexually attractive.

Saying that you like BBC etc is not derogatory to other ethnicities, it is not insulting or degrading anyone to fancy BBC, just stating a preference. The same as age, sexuality or height.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Yes it's okay. Just do it in a respectful way just as yoy would with stating other preferences.

For example 'No shortarses' is not respectful .... but 'I prefer my men taller than me' is...

*quietly weeps into his hands* cruel word

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yes it's okay. Just do it in a respectful way just as yoy would with stating other preferences.

For example 'No shortarses' is not respectful .... but 'I prefer my men taller than me' is...

*quietly weeps into his hands* cruel word

I'm gonna put 'no crybabies'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction.

If they are interested in me different conversation.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction.

If they are interested in me different conversation.

WOW a BBC with a body attached, and a brain, Im impressed

(great comment)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when it comes to giving out your body to someone, equality doesnt exsist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not have any preference, there are pretty ladies from all races...

This although does not take away the choice of preference. It's a free world. It wouldn't make sense that you'd meet someone and you don't get your cock stand or your pussy to produce those lovely juice...

I think "we" who don't have preferences are as lucky as those who are

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction."

Have you been looking at my prof

To the OP it's preference the same way you choose to not meet BBW's. This question has been asked before and if someone chooses to only meet a specific colour then that's thier perogative.

Personally i wouldn't meet someone who singled me out for my colour cause my colour doesn't make me who i am.

Seeing a few profiles where it's stated "no asians/blacks it's our preference" does make me wonder whether it genuinely is preference or just dislike (i wont use the R word) for other ethnicities but who am i to question someones choice.

Think i may update my profile to say my preference is people who bleed red and are colour blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's down to personal preference and my preferences are in the following:

Age

Location

Looks

Build

Ethnic origin

I'm well within my rights to have my preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, yeah I guess it's safe to say it's all pretty much down to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your thoughts! As we stated we were just wondering what people thought, it was a simple question that some seemed to get and others clearly didn't!

Thanks again to all xx"

And I think that is exactly what you got.....people's thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is particular about a race that they would like to meet, then let them do so. They are here to fulfill their own fantasies and desires, not ours.

So, i say, yeah! if theres something particular they want, let them ask for it

..it may mean some of us aren't in their category but there may be others who are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as they are not derogatory or rude about it, don't see the problem.

You read, you don't like ... move on

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Is it right to state your racial preference? We have seen profiles that state BBC only or no black or asians, in a world of equality should this be allowed or should it be approached differently?

We are interested to here peoples views on this"

How else would you approach gay, bi, tv, ts, too skinny, too fat, too tall, too short, too well educated, dim?

How are we to communicate our tastes if its not for words that let people know them?

Personally I think SOFT SWING should be banned but im not going to have a have a go at them for liking it.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

but in your profile you say you are not interested in BBW's.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as its said with tact, then everyone is entitled to put what they want on their profile. Then its the choice of the reader if they want to contact them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No the laws of attraction aren't blind - people have preferences be they gender , ethnic (racial or race is a bit of a non-sense term considering we're all apart of the same race!) weight , height ect.

Where that might be questionable though is in what terms members express those preferences eg no (insert ethnic slur here) or no (insert heightest /weightest /sexist slur here) vs not interested in (insert appropriate noun here) but thanks for the interest ect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant see the problem with stating whats your looking for

be that men only, slim only or white only

Surely its better to read it on someones profile so you dont waste your time mailing someone who has no interest in you

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

"My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction.

If they are interested in me different conversation.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

There has to be a level of common sense applied on any site designed to bring people together, just like the sites where uniform is a preference.

Derogatory terms or slurs clearly cannot be used.

on this site we already have a list of choices to select from so maybe some more could be added (bbw, bbc,) as far as other choices relating to ethnic origins, well those are on the census doc so I suppose could be added but it starts to get even more complicated, especially when you have so many here who won't or can't use the current selections.

One that springs to mind is the rant around single guys not to contact but they refuse or just don't read how to set up their profile and simply selecting "not looking for single males".

Just think how many profiles wouldn't need to start with a rant; which is often in caps.

Probably just leave us with:

Time wasters

Married men

No face pics

Fake profiles

Not reading profile

Text speak

No verifications

Bare back

Have I missed anything? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction.

If they are interested in me different conversation.

WOW a BBC with a body attached, and a brain, Im impressed

(great comment)"

I find this comment to be a little rude, and I don't think it was intentional. The gentleman who made the original comment is obviously not happy about being defined by a set of initials and yet that is bypassed.

I don't see a problem with people stating a preference, as was pointed out to the OP who has included no BBWs in his profile. Some people think that just because race is mentioned then its automatically taboo, an over reaction to political correctness.

As long as people are respectful in how things are worded on their profile, and some don't have the communication skills to be able to do so, but all is well if people are not rude and insulting in relation to any preference. And respect what people wish to be referred to if speaking to them ie, do not assume that all black guys like to be referred to as BBC or all bigger ladies BBWs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but is there a point to this post

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction.

If they are interested in me different conversation.

WOW a BBC with a body attached, and a brain, Im impressed

(great comment)"

I'm sure it wasn't your intention but your comment comes across as condescending at best, and downright rude at worst!

Op, you are entitled to a preference but you question others for having one, or did you have a specific agenda in mind picking on "race?"

Not that I'm cynical...

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

"Sorry but is there a point to this post

Yes it shows that people are becoming brainwashed into thinking that the equality laws apply to everthing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction.

If they are interested in me different conversation.

WOW a BBC with a body attached, and a brain, Im impressed

(great comment)"

Hmm. No need for that. Could've been worded better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry but is there a point to this post

Yes it shows that people are becoming brainwashed into thinking that the equality laws apply to everthing."

All it was, was a general question to see people's opinions that's the only point. Nothing mentioned about equality or anything else. Some great opinions and also some people reading far too much into it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There has to be a level of common sense applied on any site designed to bring people together, just like the sites where uniform is a preference.

Derogatory terms or slurs clearly cannot be used.

One that springs to mind is the rant around single guys not to contact but they refuse or just don't read how to set up their profile and simply selecting "not looking for single males".

Just think how many profiles wouldn't need to start with a rant; which is often in caps.

Probably just leave us with:

Time wasters

Married men

No face pics

Fake profiles

Not reading profile

Text speak

No verifications

Bare back

Have I missed anything? lol

Good answer! Thanks for that

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By *HAEDRUS2013Man
over a year ago

LONDON

"Is it right to state your racial preference? We have seen profiles that state BBC only or no black or asians, in a world of equality should this be allowed or should it be approached differently?

We are interested to here peoples views on this"

Yes! Of course its right to state your preference, as it your body. You should be afraid of seeming racist because you don't prefer a particular racial group. The disappointing part is those feel the need to apologise for this. The other point about those who make their preferences know is that you know clearly not to waste their time (and your own!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it right to state your racial preference? We have seen profiles that state BBC only or no black or asians, in a world of equality should this be allowed or should it be approached differently?

We are interested to here peoples views on this"
save a lot of time and everyone has a preference and has the right to state it so of with the heads of the do gooders

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Is it right to state your racial preference? We have seen profiles that state BBC only or no black or asians, in a world of equality should this be allowed or should it be approached differently?

We are interested to here peoples views on this"

might be a world of equality, but we arent prepared to play with anyone that doesnt float our boat so why not make it clear so people we wont play with do not waste their time messaging us.

Doesnt matter what is said we play with who we want to only. might as well be honest and if people dont like it doesnt really bother us tbh.

We are here for fun. why should we not put it on our profile and thrn get loads of messages from guys we would never consider meeting with.

Tbh on a site like this people need a much thicker skin, learn to accept rejection and respect other peoples preferences without taking offence or throwing names around.

We are all here for fun only in an adult environment where we should all be allowed to look for and find exactly what we are looking for with people that want to meet us as well and have our fun. but this should be without concerns that others are taking offence to what we like and or dont like.

Look at profiles of people you are interested in and leave the ones you dont. if people cant get meets look at themselves and their profile first as chances are the reason is there somewhere.

So yes it is allowed and should be used if thats your preference.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction.

If they are interested in me different conversation.

WOW a BBC with a body attached, and a brain, Im impressed

(great comment)

Hmm. No need for that. Could've been worded better. "

No need for what??? I was applauding the black guy for stating that he isnt just a BBC, he has a body and brain, and just refering to someone by the size of their cock is not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it right to state your racial preference? We have seen profiles that state BBC only or no black or asians, in a world of equality should this be allowed or should it be approached differently?

We are interested to here peoples views on this"

Some people only find asian or blacks attractive, some only white, so if you fancy a type, then why not, saves time!

Some like blondes or redheads, not racist, just personal preference for a sexual enccounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it must annoy a lot of people when they see that people don't want them simple because of race, we all have preferences personally I like white and asian women ^^, and dislike black but that dosent mean I won't swing with black women, so on the whole a racial preference is fine but deny people on race I think that's wrong

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction.

If they are interested in me different conversation.

WOW a BBC with a body attached, and a brain, Im impressed

(great comment)

I'm sure it wasn't your intention but your comment comes across as condescending at best, and downright rude at worst!

Op, you are entitled to a preference but you question others for having one, or did you have a specific agenda in mind picking on "race?"

Not that I'm cynical..."

The guy's comment above mine was saying that he is more than a BBC, he is a person. I was merely agreeing with him and applauding the fact that he does not see himself as merely a cock.

It was not my intention to be condesending or rude.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"My view is BBC is a television company so is someone is looking for that I will point them in that direction.

If they are interested in me different conversation.

WOW a BBC with a body attached, and a brain, Im impressed

(great comment)

Once again, I will explain, I was answering the black guy who said that he was more than just a cock, I was applauding the fact that he states in his profile that he is NOT a BBC but a person. Thats why i said 'great comment' to him.

For goodness sake,

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By *axwellTattMan
over a year ago

knutsford

I am kind of wondering what the problem is here? Are we all not human beings?

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"I think it must annoy a lot of people when they see that people don't want them simple because of race, we all have preferences personally I like white and asian women ^^, and dislike black but that dosent mean I won't swing with black women, so on the whole a racial preference is fine but deny people on race I think that's wrong"

you make it sound like because we ate on here if people want to play with us they have a right and if they dont appeal for whatever reason ie colour its wrong for us to say no we should just put up with it and meet because they want to.. get a grip..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not keen on abbreviations, esp when they reinforce stereotypes. Correct me if I'm wrong, BBC means big black cock right? This implies that black cocks are big, presumably white cocks are small then! And don't start me on BBW, an oxymoron surely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see the problem? It's my pussy, I'm in charge alone of who I let in

If my preference is BBCs that's surely my prerogative?

im knocking at your door let me in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There has to be a level of common sense applied on any site designed to bring people together, just like the sites where uniform is a preference.

Derogatory terms or slurs clearly cannot be used.

One that springs to mind is the rant around single guys not to contact but they refuse or just don't read how to set up their profile and simply selecting "not looking for single males".

Just think how many profiles wouldn't need to start with a rant; which is often in caps.

Probably just leave us with:

Time wasters

Married men

No face pics

Fake profiles

Not reading profile

Text speak

No verifications

Bare back

Have I missed anything? lol

I concur wholeheartedly! Supposed BBW and BBC and ethnic selection insults generated by a statement of personal preference pale into insignificance against the profiles that include single men in their list of wants and then spend paragraphs saying NO SINGLE MEN!

These profiles are frequently arrogant, offensive, condescending and downright bloody rude. But worse of all, as stated above, totally unnecessary if they sorted their profile selection at the start

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

"I'm not keen on abbreviations, esp when they reinforce stereotypes. Correct me if I'm wrong, BBC means big black cock right? This implies that black cocks are big, presumably white cocks are small then! And don't start me on BBW, an oxymoron surely!"

I agree on this, I have no problem with the 'big' and 'woman' part of BBW, however the 'beautiful' part is in the eye of the beholder.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought it was big bouncy woman lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see the problem? It's my pussy, I'm in charge alone of who I let in

If my preference is BBCs that's surely my prerogative?

im knocking at your door let me in?

I'm at capacity at the moment in afraid, please join my mailing list...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see the problem? It's my pussy, I'm in charge alone of who I let in

If my preference is BBCs that's surely my prerogative?

im knocking at your door let me in?

I'm at capacity at the moment in afraid, please join my mailing list...

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