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Do your family know you swing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so like the title says, do your family know you swing? If so how did you tell them?

One member of mine does.

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By *obin444Man
over a year ago

Windsor

Nope. We all deserve a private life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister does but nobody else.

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By *ornyguy666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

No way its private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but a few select friends know

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By *ack201895Man
over a year ago

Manchester

A few close friends but definitely not my family. That'd be an awkward conversation to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh....and the ex wife....

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By *seanameMan
over a year ago

gwhich

Dm and I’ll explain my situation with family ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting answers

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No, our family don't even know we have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh....and the ex wife...."

Who is still swinging too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, private reason

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

A few friends but no immediate family, doubt they'd be surprised tho.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

No one in My family knows as they are miles away.I would say something if the subject got brought up.I know someone in the family used to straight vanilla swing, but believe they stopped.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My dad does after finding us on a fab related social media group, he wanted to join them saw we were admin, he was pretty chilled about it, just the usual "be careful" "look after yourself" type remarks.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family know I’ve been to swinging clubs but the also know I’m a pure filthy fucker so the probs think I’m doing far more Than I am ha ha

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By *udere.Couple
over a year ago

South West

Nobody knows, not that we know of anyway….!

It’s enjoyable having a little secret kept just for ourselves.

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

Most of the answers should no nO = 99.99%

The sad fact is that many sigle guys, their wives/gf's dont know, yet

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By *issB.Woman
over a year ago

Barnsley

No none of our family know. They just think we go to lots of birthday parties/weddings with lots of friends they don’t know lol

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"No, our family don't even know we have sex "

That!!

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By *urvy-blue83Woman
over a year ago

Lichfield

Family doesn’t but close friends do

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"No none of our family know. They just think we go to lots of birthday parties/weddings with lots of friends they don’t know lol "

And that! Lol

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Nope, neither family do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody either friends or family know I swing. Think it makes it more fun somehow.

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Nope! One friend knows and my manager from work. I don’t think I’ll ever tell anyone in my family

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"Okay so like the title says, do your family know you swing? If so how did you tell them?

One member of mine does. "

Nope mine don't know ... im single so not much to tell

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

Nope. They have never asked. If they ask I'm not going to lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, they don't know. Even if I did bring it up to them through conversation one day, I think they'd genuinely be weirded out or even possibly mortified. They're people you could definitely class as more 'traditional'.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Noooooo......

My family all still think I'm a virgin.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

No, and it's none of their business but if I passed away suddenly with all those videos on my laptop, well.......

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By *g and funnyCouple
over a year ago

Clacton

Family no, but it probably wouldn't surprise some of them. Some select friends do though

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

No one knows.

No family or friends and most would be absolutely gobsmacked as I’ve been single for so long I don’t think they have a clue.

They just think I’m not interested in ‘dating’

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By *edDevil5Man
over a year ago

NN4

Hell no

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

If my mum asks what I done at the weekend I have said, we were at a party for the broad minded.

She gets the benidorm reference!

She just says "I don't want to know" and "where did I get you from"

She made a funny once when I said they say when you're dying your life flashes before your eyes.

She said "in your case it would be an x rated movie!"

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

No but few friends know

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Most of the answers should no nO = 99.99%

The sad fact is that many sigle guys, their wives/gf's dont know, yet "

Sad fact is that the female half of many of the couples profiles don’t know because they don’t exist

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

My Mom does.

I assume others do because she tells everyone everything.

For the Mr... probably, we joke about swing stuff openly on social media so I'd be surprised if his family members haven't figured it out yet

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

Sister qnd brother do

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No, absolutely not

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By *ubblecplCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

No for family, no for friends not in the lifestyle….

It’s very much our private life!

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing "

Do you mean that your mother realised you’re into swinging because you didn’t come home one night after a night out as you had a one night stand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not from me but i know old school friends

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing

Do you mean that your mother realised you’re into swinging because you didn’t come home one night after a night out as you had a one night stand? "

Yes this

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

Anyone dm

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing

Do you mean that your mother realised you’re into swinging because you didn’t come home one night after a night out as you had a one night stand? "

But yeah family are aware somewhat of what I do it's not that big a deal.

Just carried on as normal

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

No they don't

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By *ullfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

hull

Yes all our family knows and friends it’s was a bit hard to hard when bbc Tv puts your full face on TV they was supposed to hurt my face but they never did and some of my family was watching the TV programme about swingers at lachamber at the time it was not funny but now I look back and laugh at it the good thing is that they never showed my wife face

So it wasn’t us who told me it was the BBC then my auntie who was watching it told all my family. Luckily my wife, mum and dad do not know.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Never in a million yrs.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

No, they don't need to know what goes on in my bedroom.

Nobody does.

(Currently in bed alone eating biscuits...)

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
over a year ago

Harwich

Single with family abroad, no, they don't know.

Some friends do.

Sometimes if someone asks as to what I am doing on the weekend I will reply,

,"probably go next door and see if the neighbours are up for some swinging " or "might go out Saturday and try my luck on the dogging sites"....

Both answers normally get dismissed with a chuckle...that in turn always makes me smile

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

No they don’t and we have no desire to tell them either.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing

Do you mean that your mother realised you’re into swinging because you didn’t come home one night after a night out as you had a one night stand?

Yes this "

So instead of worrying if something bad had happened to you, or thinking you’d gone back to a mates, or maybe even pulled and had a one night stand, she managed to work out that you’re a swinger just because you didn’t go home after a night out? Very intuitive of her I must say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah my family/friends know. They don't really care and let me live my life.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Yes all our family knows and friends it’s was a bit hard to hard when bbc Tv puts your full face on TV they was supposed to hurt my face but they never did and some of my family was watching the TV programme about swingers at lachamber at the time it was not funny but now I look back and laugh at it the good thing is that they never showed my wife face

So it wasn’t us who told me it was the BBC then my auntie who was watching it told all my family. Luckily my wife, mum and dad do not know. "

That’s absolutely terrible of the BBC to do that, I reckon you had strong grounds to sue them for that. If you didn’t sign a waiver to say you’re happy for them to show your face on tv then they are legally bound to hide your face. That applies to anyone in any situation as well, not just ones that will expose a secret if they’re recognised.

They still have the footage and will have a record of who signed waivers that day so you may be still be able to put a claim in for it. Worth looking into anyway

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing

Do you mean that your mother realised you’re into swinging because you didn’t come home one night after a night out as you had a one night stand?

Yes this

So instead of worrying if something bad had happened to you, or thinking you’d gone back to a mates, or maybe even pulled and had a one night stand, she managed to work out that you’re a swinger just because you didn’t go home after a night out? Very intuitive of her I must say. "

Well she gave me a call while I was on way home and I just said where I'd been

And she was just like okay as long as your okay and then laughed a bit

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing

Do you mean that your mother realised you’re into swinging because you didn’t come home one night after a night out as you had a one night stand?

Yes this

So instead of worrying if something bad had happened to you, or thinking you’d gone back to a mates, or maybe even pulled and had a one night stand, she managed to work out that you’re a swinger just because you didn’t go home after a night out? Very intuitive of her I must say.

Well she gave me a call while I was on way home and I just said where I'd been

And she was just like okay as long as your okay and then laughed a bit "

Oh, I see, when you said ‘she found out when she woke up for work and realised you weren’t home’ I thought you meant she worked it out herself, but you meant she found out you’re a swinger when you told her you’re a swinger?

You agreed with me earlier though when I said that you didn’t go home because you had a one night stand. So did you tell your mom you’d had a one night stand or you’d been out swinging? Or are they the same thing?

I’m confused, sorry.

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing

Do you mean that your mother realised you’re into swinging because you didn’t come home one night after a night out as you had a one night stand?

Yes this

So instead of worrying if something bad had happened to you, or thinking you’d gone back to a mates, or maybe even pulled and had a one night stand, she managed to work out that you’re a swinger just because you didn’t go home after a night out? Very intuitive of her I must say.

Well she gave me a call while I was on way home and I just said where I'd been

And she was just like okay as long as your okay and then laughed a bit

Oh, I see, when you said ‘she found out when she woke up for work and realised you weren’t home’ I thought you meant she worked it out herself, but you meant she found out you’re a swinger when you told her you’re a swinger?

You agreed with me earlier though when I said that you didn’t go home because you had a one night stand. So did you tell your mom you’d had a one night stand or you’d been out swinging? Or are they the same thing?

I’m confused, sorry. "

Basically just said that I'd been swinging - out having fun etc

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing

Do you mean that your mother realised you’re into swinging because you didn’t come home one night after a night out as you had a one night stand?

Yes this

So instead of worrying if something bad had happened to you, or thinking you’d gone back to a mates, or maybe even pulled and had a one night stand, she managed to work out that you’re a swinger just because you didn’t go home after a night out? Very intuitive of her I must say.

Well she gave me a call while I was on way home and I just said where I'd been

And she was just like okay as long as your okay and then laughed a bit

Oh, I see, when you said ‘she found out when she woke up for work and realised you weren’t home’ I thought you meant she worked it out herself, but you meant she found out you’re a swinger when you told her you’re a swinger?

You agreed with me earlier though when I said that you didn’t go home because you had a one night stand. So did you tell your mom you’d had a one night stand or you’d been out swinging? Or are they the same thing?

I’m confused, sorry.

Basically just said that I'd been swinging - out having fun etc

"

Ok, sounds like you have a very open and relaxed relationship with your mom. How old were you when this happened? I’m guessing late teens/early 20’s. Most mom’s would be shocked if their son said that to them at any age but especially so at that age, and most sons at that age would tell their mom a little white lie to cover up the fact they’d been out swinging (or on a one night stand like you initially said).

Fair play for being so honest with your mom and thanks for explaining. Makes perfect sense now.

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By *ortsmout-ukMan
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Okay so like the title says, do your family know you swing? If so how did you tell them?

One member of mine does. "

One member dose about. It tho

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Yes I'm northern I don't really hide stuff. Mother found out when she woke up for work and realised I wasn't home

But yeah I don't find it that embarrassing

Do you mean that your mother realised you’re into swinging because you didn’t come home one night after a night out as you had a one night stand?

Yes this

So instead of worrying if something bad had happened to you, or thinking you’d gone back to a mates, or maybe even pulled and had a one night stand, she managed to work out that you’re a swinger just because you didn’t go home after a night out? Very intuitive of her I must say.

Well she gave me a call while I was on way home and I just said where I'd been

And she was just like okay as long as your okay and then laughed a bit

Oh, I see, when you said ‘she found out when she woke up for work and realised you weren’t home’ I thought you meant she worked it out herself, but you meant she found out you’re a swinger when you told her you’re a swinger?

You agreed with me earlier though when I said that you didn’t go home because you had a one night stand. So did you tell your mom you’d had a one night stand or you’d been out swinging? Or are they the same thing?

I’m confused, sorry.

Basically just said that I'd been swinging - out having fun etc

Ok, sounds like you have a very open and relaxed relationship with your mom. How old were you when this happened? I’m guessing late teens/early 20’s. Most mom’s would be shocked if their son said that to them at any age but especially so at that age, and most sons at that age would tell their mom a little white lie to cover up the fact they’d been out swinging (or on a one night stand like you initially said).

Fair play for being so honest with your mom and thanks for explaining. Makes perfect sense now. "

No problem and sorry for not being the most clear when explaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live with my early 20s daughter. We’ve always had an open frank relationship. When I was bringing lots of women home she thought I was just getting back into dating. When she asked me why they never went further I was honest and told her. She asked lots of questions ina non judegemental way. Turns out she was interested in the lifestyle and has since started swinging herself. So yes we both know about each other!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Mum and dad do and friends

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Only my brother

The Mr.

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By *llwayswilling1966Man
over a year ago

Hereford

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By *ay_bee500Man
over a year ago

Dover

One of my sisters knows

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By *llwayswilling1966Man
over a year ago

Hereford


"My sister does but nobody else. "

Others must do with such clear photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the answers should no nO = 99.99%

The sad fact is that many sigle guys, their wives/gf's dont know, yet

Sad fact is that the female half of many of the couples profiles don’t know because they don’t exist "

Ha! Excellent point!

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By *incloudukMan
over a year ago

Medway

Nope

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our eldest daughter (aged 29 and doesn't live with us) suspects on the basis she thinks her mother would be naughty after drinking.

She's right

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Nope this side of us is private and will stay that way.

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

There would be very little to tell them about these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my friends know and my mum knows

Don't really tell anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some friends do but it’s our fun not theirs

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Yes

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

candy cane lane

No some things should remain private

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By *irAndBalayageExpertCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Yes

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

My cousin and Mr's brother along with a few close friends. They love hearing about our adventures, most have said they'd love to do it if their OH would do it lol

Mrs M

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

No not at all, one friend does but other than that just people who swing.

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By *ixie888Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle under Lyme

My sister knows and close friends. They enjoy hearing about my antics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My sister knows and close friends. They enjoy hearing about my antics "

Love it!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I live with my early 20s daughter. We’ve always had an open frank relationship. When I was bringing lots of women home she thought I was just getting back into dating. When she asked me why they never went further I was honest and told her. She asked lots of questions ina non judegemental way. Turns out she was interested in the lifestyle and has since started swinging herself. So yes we both know about each other! "

Were you never concerned about what kind of role model you were being?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a girl whose mum dad and brother knew she was a swinger, we was going to meet and she told her mum and dad what we was doing

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"Okay so like the title says, do your family know you swing? If so how did you tell them?

One member of mine does. "

No idea. A few friends and colleagues do though. Nobody cares

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

God no

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

No, no, no.

Its our secret life, that's what makes it exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with my early 20s daughter. We’ve always had an open frank relationship. When I was bringing lots of women home she thought I was just getting back into dating. When she asked me why they never went further I was honest and told her. She asked lots of questions ina non judegemental way. Turns out she was interested in the lifestyle and has since started swinging herself. So yes we both know about each other!

Were you never concerned about what kind of role model you were being?"

No.

1. She’s an adult

2. I don’t believe people should have any hang ups over the body they have or their sexuality.

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Nah. They think I'm still a virgin

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By *ung nine inchMan
over a year ago

leeds

No way bring so much shame on family

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Nope be to embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just some very good friends of mine, they introduced me to it

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Fuck no!

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Nope what we get up to is our business

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Some do. some probably do, but would rather not think about it lol

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

My two older sons do and my brother, most of our friends and work colleagues. I only told my sons (21 and 20)as people we know we’re on here who knew them so thought it was best coming from me we have nothing to hide or be ashamed of

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By *host1100Man
over a year ago

Near Falkirk

My son does (he’s 26 btw) and he just thinks it’s funny and takes the piss lol

Says it’s all fake as fuck !! I tend to agree most of the time haha

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By *unnybunsWoman
over a year ago

Between here and over there


"If my mum asks what I done at the weekend I have said, we were at a party for the broad minded.

She gets the benidorm reference!

She just says "I don't want to know" and "where did I get you from"

She made a funny once when I said they say when you're dying your life flashes before your eyes.

She said "in your case it would be an x rated movie!" "

I love your mum already lol. What a star ! I’d be that mum too xxx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Family nope, male and female friends most do and find it amusing. Give my female friends something to fantasies about I guess

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"I live with my early 20s daughter. We’ve always had an open frank relationship. When I was bringing lots of women home she thought I was just getting back into dating. When she asked me why they never went further I was honest and told her. She asked lots of questions ina non judegemental way. Turns out she was interested in the lifestyle and has since started swinging herself. So yes we both know about each other! "

I like the honesty in this parenting relationship

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By *LAPMan
over a year ago

South Wales / South Coast


"Okay so like the title says, do your family know you swing? If so how did you tell them?

One member of mine does. "

My cousin knows. She asked me for advice on how to get into the scene with her boyfriend

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

No.

It's my business

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surprised to see how many people would be embarrassed if their family found out. Not as if there is anything wrong with it

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

I told my little sister- I had too many funny stories and nobody to tell

E

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Wifes sister knows

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

No x

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

None of our family know we swing but we do have one very good friend who knows.

He knows because he's actually joined us in bed together on many times in the past.

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By *imon003Man
over a year ago

North West

One family member knows but I wouldn’t tell anyone else.

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By *ebanbetsyCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Noooo it’s our dirty little secret x

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

No it’s our naughty secret x

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By *azrich87Man
over a year ago

kings lynn

No one knows I’m on here. Dirty secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family know nothing.

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london

Just my brother

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By *iscodisco123Man
over a year ago

perth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so like the title says, do your family know you swing? If so how did you tell them?

One member of mine does. "

Few of mine do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 close friends do, no family

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope what we get up to is our business "

Fair enough, cracking tits btw lol

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Yeah, all my family know. They are all swingers too hahahaha

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Both brothers know I swing & not just the golf club haha . At a family bbq 1 asked what I was doing past weekend & told him I was sucking on a milf’s titties haha & just like that they both knew

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By *red and daphneCouple
over a year ago

in the middle

A few members of our family have their suspicions and have dropped big hints. We just play dumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 i know of

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By *mudge616Man
over a year ago

DONCASTER

Two family members do

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By *enis ColadaMan
over a year ago

Totnes

I work colleague does.as spotted me at local nudist beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only people that know what we get up to are the ones we have met up with from fab

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

HELL NO !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so like the title says, do your family know you swing? If so how did you tell them?

One member of mine does. "

My brother knows.

The funny thing is, my family know much worse things about my sexual past than the fact I go to swing clubs.

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By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester

I've never had a good reason to ask any of them if they know!

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By *enusandMars 87Couple
over a year ago

airdrie

Not at all but probably wouldn't be surprised. V's family probably aame but shes braver and puts public face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

family defo not friends might no be so surprised lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all but probably wouldn't be surprised. V's family probably aame but shes braver and puts public face pics"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow how did the family member find out?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's not a secret and it's not something we go out of our way to tell family. I mean after all do vanilla people go about telling family about their sex lives? So some know, we're not ashamed of what we do and it's no big deal.

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By *ast FredyMan
over a year ago

southend on sea

Yes both my daughters who are in their 30’s know because I told them I swing. It’s not something they are interested in doing but I think they are amused that I do. Although I never have or would discuss any details with them. We have a great relationship & often go clubbing together with their husbands, have been to Ibiza with the girls when I split from my last partner. We had a great time & went to all the big clubs dancing into the early hours & getting home as people were going to work in the morning lol

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

London or Bedford

Nooobody knooows I’m here

But I did run into a former work colleague & a guy I used to be in a band with on here LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple do from both sides.

Tbh we don't care, it's our life at the end of the day

Not like we sit there and go into gory details

Miss S x

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By *mudge616Man
over a year ago

DONCASTER

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, all my family know. They are all swingers too hahahaha "

Oh wow

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Okay so like the title says, do your family know you swing? If so how did you tell them?

One member of mine does. "

So what...? Family x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Yeah, all my family know. They are all swingers too hahahaha

Oh wow"

Best way

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I work colleague does.as spotted me at local nudist beach"

Happened to me im Morocco...we ended up fucking x years ago x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Pity not straight i guess

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By *otwireMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"One of my sisters knows"

How she found out you into swinging

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By *otwireMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I live with my early 20s daughter. We’ve always had an open frank relationship. When I was bringing lots of women home she thought I was just getting back into dating. When she asked me why they never went further I was honest and told her. She asked lots of questions ina non judegemental way. Turns out she was interested in the lifestyle and has since started swinging herself. So yes we both know about each other! "

Sounds hot what's her profile name ?

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

Find Friends type services on the phone are a bit of a giveaway.

M shares her location with a lot of friends and her family.

Her daughter looked one night when we were at Xstasia. Then googled Xstasia, she got very mardy with M and cancelled their Mothers Day lunch the next day

We rarely swing just enjoy the club vibe, but next time M went to her family dinner she was getting a full inquest from her Mum, sister, daughter and future son in law.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"Find Friends type services on the phone are a bit of a giveaway.

M shares her location with a lot of friends and her family.

Her daughter looked one night when we were at Xstasia. Then googled Xstasia, she got very mardy with M and cancelled their Mothers Day lunch the next day

We rarely swing just enjoy the club vibe, but next time M went to her family dinner she was getting a full inquest from her Mum, sister, daughter and future son in law."

My ex and I always disabled those services just before we went out to Atlantis… My family wouldn’t have even bothered looking, but her father would have been a complete cunt about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple do now lol

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By *wingOfThingsMan
over a year ago

knowle

Nope but not shy to admit it to them either haha just prefer the private life

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Just a few selected friends

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

No. I don’t talk about my sex life with my family.

All my friends know though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my sisters knows I'm poly. I don't talk about my love and sex life with the rest of my family.

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Wifes older sis knows

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Okay so like the title says, do your family know you swing? If so how did you tell them?

One member of mine does. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my immediate family know I swing,but one of my aunt's does.she was married to my mum's brother but they got divorced.she is now in her late 60s but about 10 years ago I bumped into her in a club with her new husband.bit of a shock for both of us but we got chatting and I even had a bit of fun with her on and off for a few years

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By *avethefish400Man
over a year ago

Chichester

No

Fab life is escape from normal life for me

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

One family member does

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"No

Fab life is escape from normal life for me "

Normal life for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never told anyone about fab and like the secret to myself

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By *unnoisseurMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I’m not sure if you call it swinging when you’re single. But my daughter asked me for my “body count” at the family Christmas games a couple years ago and as I don’t lie….

The mum acted surprised even though she came to a party with me and went wild!!!! lol

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By *unnoisseurMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"None of my immediate family know I swing,but one of my aunt's does.she was married to my mum's brother but they got divorced.she is now in her late 60s but about 10 years ago I bumped into her in a club with her new husband.bit of a shock for both of us but we got chatting and I even had a bit of fun with her on and off for a few years"

That sounds interesting a definite porn title right there!!

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By *unnoisseurMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"Find Friends type services on the phone are a bit of a giveaway.

M shares her location with a lot of friends and her family.

Her daughter looked one night when we were at Xstasia. Then googled Xstasia, she got very mardy with M and cancelled their Mothers Day lunch the next day

We rarely swing just enjoy the club vibe, but next time M went to her family dinner she was getting a full inquest from her Mum, sister, daughter and future son in law.

My ex and I always disabled those services just before we went out to Atlantis… My family wouldn’t have even bothered looking, but her father would have been a complete cunt about it. "

AWKWARD!!! lol

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

No thank god ...lol

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

NO Thank God!

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By *hoenix_1Man
over a year ago

richmond

None of them know

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By *otwireMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m not sure if you call it swinging when you’re single. But my daughter asked me for my “body count” at the family Christmas games a couple years ago and as I don’t lie….

The mum acted surprised even though she came to a party with me and went wild!!!! lol"

You mean your mum went to a swinging party with you ?

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

My brother and his wife.

He knew all along what I’d got up to with my ex wife and as a single male. When he and his wife started to get into swinging he told her about me , unknown to me.

Then at one point she openly propositioned me about it - they had done some MFFs with females they’d met online and one couple swap, now they wanted a MFF and she didn’t want a random male she wanted someone she trusted and ‘as you are experienced, I like you, I fancy you and I trust you it makes sense for it to be you’ or words to that effect.

Took a little while to get head around it but eventually we went ahead with it and it was fantastic. So much so, it was a semi regular thing for the next two years, until I started a new relationship and we stopped what we were doing.

Never gone back to it, but they know some of my history and I know some of theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, my son (20) knows I swing. He had an account on here a while ago

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By *ung nine inchMan
over a year ago

leeds

No way discreet is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ i hope not - my mum did yell 'are you wearing pants' at me in the street once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum does, my nan knows snippets.. We are quite sexually open as a family. My partner struggles to wrap his head around it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ i hope not - my mum did yell 'are you wearing pants' at me in the street once! "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No family and once told a friend he looked at me like leper so just my thing now

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

No, no one knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of mine

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

Nope. It’s not a conversation I have with family.

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