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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

Good old Freud and his messed up mind!

His term the 'Oedipus complex' says that 'a male develops an un-conscious infatuation towards his mother, and simultaneously fears his father to be a rival'

That said, there's very little actual evidence to back his theory..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can assure you that my husband bears no resemblance to my father in looks or personality

I love them both but they're nothing like each other.

He assures me that I'm nothing like his mother too

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Good old Freud and his messed up mind!

His term the 'Oedipus complex' says that 'a male develops an un-conscious infatuation towards his mother, and simultaneously fears his father to be a rival'

That said, there's very little actual evidence to back his theory.. "

I believe I’ve seen that theory mentioned here before

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

However our son in law has very similar traits to Mr N.

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"However our son in law has very similar traits to Mr N. "

I see

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Good old Freud and his messed up mind!

His term the 'Oedipus complex' says that 'a male develops an un-conscious infatuation towards his mother, and simultaneously fears his father to be a rival'

That said, there's very little actual evidence to back his theory.. "

Just googled it

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

Carl Jung proposed the opposite version, the Electra complex, where by a young female develops a subconscious attraction to her father and becomes hostile to her mother..

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Carl Jung proposed the opposite version, the Electra complex, where by a young female develops a subconscious attraction to her father and becomes hostile to her mother.. "

Interesting

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

The fathers of psychoanalytical psychology may seem wild but laid some very important foundations!

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"The fathers of psychoanalytical psychology may seem wild but laid some very important foundations!

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Oh really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?"

And you believed it?

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?

And you believed it? "

No I don’t

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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My suggestion would be that boys may find women who remind them of their mother attractive, or girls their fathers, could be because these are the first members of the opposite sex whom we ever learn to love in our lives, and it's possible that the embers of that first affection could be rekindled when meeting a romantic partner who has qualities similar to our parents?

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"My suggestion would be that boys may find women who remind them of their mother attractive, or girls their fathers, could be because these are the first members of the opposite sex whom we ever learn to love in our lives, and it's possible that the embers of that first affection could be rekindled when meeting a romantic partner who has qualities similar to our parents?"

Makes sense to a degree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?

And you believed it?

No I don’t "

Wise man

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By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

Freud and Carl Yung 2 fucked up peados imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are too thick to not notice the conditioning.

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Most people are too thick to not notice the conditioning."

Agreed lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Most people are too thick to not notice the conditioning."

So thick people notice it?

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Most people are too thick to not notice the conditioning.

So thick people notice it?"

Lol

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

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By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER


"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?"

It's nonsense. A lot of people have very bad upbringings. For instance a child of a wife/husband beater is not going to seek similar in a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - but I do love a mummy/son role play

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?

It's nonsense. A lot of people have very bad upbringings. For instance a child of a wife/husband beater is not going to seek similar in a partner.

"

Very true

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

Bump

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By *sirapMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My Mrs is nothing like my mum

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?"

what marriage guidance councillors will tell you is that we become more like our parents as we get older , its natural , Imagine your dad being married to your wifes mother ??? thats what we become ??

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?

what marriage guidance councillors will tell you is that we become more like our parents as we get older , its natural , Imagine your dad being married to your wifes mother ??? thats what we become ??"

That makes sense

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?

It's nonsense. A lot of people have very bad upbringings. For instance a child of a wife/husband beater is not going to seek similar in a partner.

"

You would think that wouldn't you, but maybe some subconsciously do . A fair few women who had abusive father's end up with abusive husbands.

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?

It's nonsense. A lot of people have very bad upbringings. For instance a child of a wife/husband beater is not going to seek similar in a partner.

You would think that wouldn't you, but maybe some subconsciously do . A fair few women who had abusive father's end up with abusive husbands."

Yes that’s true

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By *orny dadbodMan
over a year ago

Wymondham


"Just watched a documentary about how through evolution we have developed a mechanism where we tend to go for people who remind us or similar too our parent of the opposite sex is this a thing ?

It's nonsense. A lot of people have very bad upbringings. For instance a child of a wife/husband beater is not going to seek similar in a partner.

You would think that wouldn't you, but maybe some subconsciously do . A fair few women who had abusive father's end up with abusive husbands.

Yes that’s true"

It's because that's what they know it's a fucked up safe place and they will never allow themselves to be loved thru all the trauma

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester

Nancy Friday has written some very interesting books on women and their mothers.

Women on top.

My mother, myself.

Are just two that I remember off the top of my head, but she's written quite a few others as well.

Worth a read IMHO.

HW

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By *irAndBalayageExpert OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex


"Nancy Friday has written some very interesting books on women and their mothers.

Women on top.

My mother, myself.

Are just two that I remember off the top of my head, but she's written quite a few others as well.

Worth a read IMHO.

HW"

Will have a look

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