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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm curious to know how you feel after you've met someone, do you message them, or do you ignore them.

Me personally, I like a bit of contact,but I find once guy's have had their fun they don't want to know,

Yes, I know its a swinging site, so maybe it's just me that feels "used" after,

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I don't think it's just you. Whatever the gender, I think it's poor form not to message after meeting unless that's been agreed.

I'm still in touch with the lady who introduced me to fab 8 years ago.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We usually message to thank them for the meet the rest of the message will depend what type of meet it was and how it went

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's just you. Whatever the gender, I think it's poor form not to message after meeting unless that's been agreed.

I'm still in touch with the lady who introduced me to fab 8 years ago.

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If I send first message, which is very rare, then I always message, but it's usually the guy that contacts me, and us nothing fun them un till they want to meet again,

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

But we don't expect to be messaging back and forth daily

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We usually message to thank them for the meet the rest of the message will depend what type of meet it was and how it went"

That's how it should be, just bee polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm curious to know how you feel after you've met someone, do you message them, or do you ignore them.

Me personally, I like a bit of contact,but I find once guy's have had their fun they don't want to know,

Yes, I know its a swinging site, so maybe it's just me that feels "used" after, "

I know it's a swinging site, but I won't do one off fucks, because of that fact, feeling 'used', despite being an equal pleasure hunter so to speak.

I would have to build a relationship of some sort, be it a friendship or something along those lines. So for me, of course I'd contact them after, they'd be my friend or at least someone I was friendly with.

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By *omethingoranotherMan
over a year ago

near you

Depends on the dynamic really. I’ve had one offs, fwb’s and relationships.

I think unless it’s stated then it’s a one off with an understanding and offer from my side that if everything went ok then feel free to message if you’re horny and fancy another meet and I’ll do likewise.

If it’s fwb’s then there’s going to be messages as we’d be meeting up for other stuff, not just sex.

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By *omethingoranotherMan
over a year ago

near you

In saying what I just said regular meets do develop a better quality so I’m always up for that too

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