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By *otCouple3009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

Are there any single females on here that do actually like couples? Surprisingly high amount who advertise “couples” as an interest in their profile but then don’t like them when you reach out

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, I'm not your target market but bi fems on here can be incredibly picky because mosy couples are looking for one.

You don't really give any indications of what you offer them or what they could expect from you though.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

As above, bi fems are in much shorter supply than couples who would like to meet them.

Don't take it personally

MrsAbz

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By *otCouple3009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"Hi op, I'm not your target market but bi fems on here can be incredibly picky because mosy couples are looking for one.

You don't really give any indications of what you offer them or what they could expect from you though. "

Thanks for the advice, I agree. However, to say you are looking for a couple then when messaged state otherwise is a bit misleading…especially when most of them are beautiful

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By *otCouple3009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"As above, bi fems are in much shorter supply than couples who would like to meet them.

Don't take it personally

MrsAbz "

Thank you! Yes, we try not. Just a bit disheartening. Especially on here!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

If I’m going to be interested by a couple, I need to get a sense of them from their profile as well as the message.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"As above, bi fems are in much shorter supply than couples who would like to meet them.

Don't take it personally

MrsAbz

Thank you! Yes, we try not. Just a bit disheartening. Especially on here! "

I think most people find it easier to meet in clubs - that is the advice most given. Maybe give that a try?

MrsAbz

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By *otCouple3009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"If I’m going to be interested by a couple, I need to get a sense of them from their profile as well as the message. "

Thank you! That seems to be common. But also, would you simply say you don’t like couples if profile said you were?

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By *otCouple3009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"As above, bi fems are in much shorter supply than couples who would like to meet them.

Don't take it personally

MrsAbz

Thank you! Yes, we try not. Just a bit disheartening. Especially on here!

I think most people find it easier to meet in clubs - that is the advice most given. Maybe give that a try?

MrsAbz "

Yes, we have considered it. It is on our bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame you guys are so far away

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By *otCouple3009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"It's a shame you guys are so far away "

Thanks darling xx

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"If I’m going to be interested by a couple, I need to get a sense of them from their profile as well as the message.

Thank you! That seems to be common. But also, would you simply say you don’t like couples if profile said you were?"

I’m wondering if it’s a polite way to say no thank you? Some people are uncomfortable doing that. Or perhaps right now they’re not looking?

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By *otCouple3009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"If I’m going to be interested by a couple, I need to get a sense of them from their profile as well as the message.

Thank you! That seems to be common. But also, would you simply say you don’t like couples if profile said you were?

I’m wondering if it’s a polite way to say no thank you? Some people are uncomfortable doing that. Or perhaps right now they’re not looking? "

Maybe you are right, maybe we are over thinking it. Maybe we just like the hard truth Lol.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"If I’m going to be interested by a couple, I need to get a sense of them from their profile as well as the message.

Thank you! That seems to be common. But also, would you simply say you don’t like couples if profile said you were?

I’m wondering if it’s a polite way to say no thank you? Some people are uncomfortable doing that. Or perhaps right now they’re not looking?

Maybe you are right, maybe we are over thinking it. Maybe we just like the hard truth Lol."

Stick with it

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By *arty swingerWoman
over a year ago

Anglesey

Yes i love ffm but finding a genuine cpl is not as easy as it seems as the male always wants to meet on his own i arranged to meet a cpl a while ago and when i got to the meeting point only the guy was there and he told me his wife had to visit her mum at short notice but if i went back with him she would join later so i politely told him where to go so spending ages getting myself ready was a waste of time

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I think they might be getting a vibe off you Adam

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Yes i love ffm but finding a genuine cpl is not as easy as it seems as the male always wants to meet on his own i arranged to meet a cpl a while ago and when i got to the meeting point only the guy was there and he told me his wife had to visit her mum at short notice but if i went back with him she would join later so i politely told him where to go so spending ages getting myself ready was a waste of time"

Does that really happen? I thought that was just a myth?! Who thinks that would work?

MrsAbz

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By *arty swingerWoman
over a year ago

Anglesey

He thought it would work what p..d me off i spent ages doing myself up to look smart and sexy

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"He thought it would work what p..d me off i spent ages doing myself up to look smart and sexy"

Horribly rude of him and stupid tbh.

Awful waste of your time and disappointing too

MrsAbz

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By *arty swingerWoman
over a year ago

Anglesey

His loss

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

Having looked at your profile I wouldn’t message because although you both look lovely you say she likes older women but you like younger so given your ages that only leaves a very narrow age bracket.

Women meeting couples like to know a bit about what you expect from a meet. Is it just f/f or all three or are you just expecting her to pleasure you both and what is she getting from it. A lot of guys fantasise about fmf but newbies are a risk as you haven’t really tested your boundaries as yet. I think that’s why first meets happen more naturally in clubs as if the single fem starts feeling left out one the couple are satisfied she still has other options.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Your profile isn’t really set up to appeal to single females. You don’t say what you like or can offer.

Plus the comment about you like younger and your partner likes older means there’s only a few years that would appeal to both, so maybe that puts people off

If you aren’t getting what you crave on FAB then it’s usually you that’s stopping you from getting it. You clearly both look in good shape so there must be other things not hitting the spot for single females.

K

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW


"Your profile isn’t really set up to appeal to single females. You don’t say what you like or can offer.

Plus the comment about you like younger and your partner likes older means there’s only a few years that would appeal to both, so maybe that puts people off

If you aren’t getting what you crave on FAB then it’s usually you that’s stopping you from getting it. You clearly both look in good shape so there must be other things not hitting the spot for single females.

K"

Lol we were writing almost the same thing at the same time

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Your profile isn’t really set up to appeal to single females. You don’t say what you like or can offer.

Plus the comment about you like younger and your partner likes older means there’s only a few years that would appeal to both, so maybe that puts people off

If you aren’t getting what you crave on FAB then it’s usually you that’s stopping you from getting it. You clearly both look in good shape so there must be other things not hitting the spot for single females.

K

Lol we were writing almost the same thing at the same time "

Ha ha twins

Well they got a female and male perspective

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By *otCouple3009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"Your profile isn’t really set up to appeal to single females. You don’t say what you like or can offer.

Plus the comment about you like younger and your partner likes older means there’s only a few years that would appeal to both, so maybe that puts people off

If you aren’t getting what you crave on FAB then it’s usually you that’s stopping you from getting it. You clearly both look in good shape so there must be other things not hitting the spot for single females.

K

Lol we were writing almost the same thing at the same time "

Thanks for the advice, so what sort of things can we introduce to our profile to spruce it up?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes…like a lot of other single bi females I prefer to attend clubs. X

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Your profile isn’t really set up to appeal to single females. You don’t say what you like or can offer.

Plus the comment about you like younger and your partner likes older means there’s only a few years that would appeal to both, so maybe that puts people off

If you aren’t getting what you crave on FAB then it’s usually you that’s stopping you from getting it. You clearly both look in good shape so there must be other things not hitting the spot for single females.

K

Lol we were writing almost the same thing at the same time

Thanks for the advice, so what sort of things can we introduce to our profile to spruce it up?

"

You’ve still got your Mr likes young and Mrs likes old…which means you might as well change your age preference to 30 - 34. People will feel that you aren’t going to be at least one of yours types with that age statement.

You need to change that anyway as would you really meet an 18 or 99 year old?

Saying let’s get d*unk is not really a good thing in swinging. When everything is about consent then being in control of your mind and body is quite important.

From your profile and pics, you sound like you like to party hard/play hard…I think finding a single female to fit into your dynamic would be difficult - they want to feel like they are more than a play thing.

I’d say clubs will be best for you as it’s an opportunity to get your personalities across - it’s harder to do online at times.

K

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

Its the same for us we get mostley guys or couples but no single women wife thinks its because of what she looks like,i think shes amazing. also we wont judge you eveyone has a right to pick who they like hope people find what they are looking for

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Are there any single females on here that do actually like couples? Surprisingly high amount who advertise “couples” as an interest in their profile but then don’t like them when you reach out "

Same for everyone sadly.., everyone bullshitting sadly..

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