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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable." This is actually really valid point | |||
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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable. This is actually really valid point" Yeah, good point. | |||
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"Would it be acceptable on a walk in a quite park/wood/beach to approach a lone male, no one else around, as a couple, and for my husband to ask if he'd like to feel my exposed boobs, and have a photo taken of him doing it by my husband? " Okay if you insist | |||
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"I guess this needs to be planned with someone, so it's a consented role play thing, before it takes place. " Sounds very hot fantasy. I wish you all the best with making it happen | |||
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"Would it be acceptable on a walk in a quite park/wood/beach to approach a lone male, no one else around, as a couple, and for my husband to ask if he'd like to feel my exposed boobs, and have a photo taken of him doing it by my husband? " Why don’t you try a dogging location? You’d be popular! Gbat | |||
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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable." I slightly disagree. I think there's an element reading the audience and the way you go about asking anyone. In the context women the fact half of the couple if a woman helps. However due to social norms and power dynamics as a rule of thumb your less likely to cause distress asking a male. But either way the main thing is being a good judge of character and asking in a pleasant, respectful and polite way. | |||
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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable. I slightly disagree. I think there's an element reading the audience and the way you go about asking anyone. In the context women the fact half of the couple if a woman helps. However due to social norms and power dynamics as a rule of thumb your less likely to cause distress asking a male. But either way the main thing is being a good judge of character and asking in a pleasant, respectful and polite way. " Asking a stranger who is on their own in a secluded place if they want to sexually interact with you having never interacted with you before can be perceived as sexual harassment. You can’t read a stranger in a public place. If someone approached my daughter and asked her to touch a stranger I would be out for blood. It’s like cnc you don’t just ask a stranger to abduct you however hot you might think it. | |||
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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable." I'm glad someone else raised this early. Reading the first few comments did make me a little uncomfortable. The way you've described this, it would even unnerved me (Mr). And I'm not easily rattled! If you want a stranger to do this, go to a local dogging spot. At least there's a good chance someone there will be looking to interact in a sexual way. However, you still need to check with them. It could be someone genuinely walking their dog. | |||
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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable. I slightly disagree. I think there's an element reading the audience and the way you go about asking anyone. In the context women the fact half of the couple if a woman helps. However due to social norms and power dynamics as a rule of thumb your less likely to cause distress asking a male. But either way the main thing is being a good judge of character and asking in a pleasant, respectful and polite way. Asking a stranger who is on their own in a secluded place if they want to sexually interact with you having never interacted with you before can be perceived as sexual harassment. You can’t read a stranger in a public place. If someone approached my daughter and asked her to touch a stranger I would be out for blood. It’s like cnc you don’t just ask a stranger to abduct you however hot you might think it. " I think again it's a lot about reading the room, the people and the way you aproach it. Often it's more the vibe, body language and the way you go about stuff that people find threatening than the words or request it's self. It's not really something you'd blurt out straight away when approaching someone before you got a basic handle on them and the likeliness of suitability. You use very emotive examples that would in all fairness fail the test of suitability anyways so are not relevant or in the spirit of the sort of person the couple are aiming for. | |||
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" ... If you want a stranger to do this, go to a local dogging spot. At least there's a good chance someone there will be looking to interact in a sexual way. However, you still need to check with them. It could be someone genuinely walking their dog." It could just as easily be an undercover police officer. Oops! | |||
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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable." This 100%. | |||
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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable. I slightly disagree. I think there's an element reading the audience and the way you go about asking anyone. In the context women the fact half of the couple if a woman helps. However due to social norms and power dynamics as a rule of thumb your less likely to cause distress asking a male. But either way the main thing is being a good judge of character and asking in a pleasant, respectful and polite way. Asking a stranger who is on their own in a secluded place if they want to sexually interact with you having never interacted with you before can be perceived as sexual harassment. You can’t read a stranger in a public place. If someone approached my daughter and asked her to touch a stranger I would be out for blood. It’s like cnc you don’t just ask a stranger to abduct you however hot you might think it. " | |||
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"I guess this needs to be planned with someone, so it's a consented role play thing, before it takes place. " Absolutely this!!! But good luck we have arranged exactly this and let down on both occasions | |||
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"Would it be acceptable on a walk in a quite park/wood/beach to approach a lone male, no one else around, as a couple, and for my husband to ask if he'd like to feel my exposed boobs, and have a photo taken of him doing it by my husband? " Well they are wonderful breasts but please do take care, not everyone would be as welcoming as others. | |||
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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable. I slightly disagree. I think there's an element reading the audience and the way you go about asking anyone. In the context women the fact half of the couple if a woman helps. However due to social norms and power dynamics as a rule of thumb your less likely to cause distress asking a male. But either way the main thing is being a good judge of character and asking in a pleasant, respectful and polite way. Asking a stranger who is on their own in a secluded place if they want to sexually interact with you having never interacted with you before can be perceived as sexual harassment. You can’t read a stranger in a public place. If someone approached my daughter and asked her to touch a stranger I would be out for blood. It’s like cnc you don’t just ask a stranger to abduct you however hot you might think it. I think again it's a lot about reading the room, the people and the way you aproach it. Often it's more the vibe, body language and the way you go about stuff that people find threatening than the words or request it's self. It's not really something you'd blurt out straight away when approaching someone before you got a basic handle on them and the likeliness of suitability. You use very emotive examples that would in all fairness fail the test of suitability anyways so are not relevant or in the spirit of the sort of person the couple are aiming for. " You can't possibly read a stranger in a public place well enough to judge how they would react to this. What is it about consent and involving total strangers in your own kink that people on here don't seem to understand? Total strangers in public places minding their own business have not consented to be part of your sexual antics. Don't ask them to join in don't flash at them thinking they might like it. Keep your kink to consenting partners. | |||
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"No. Flip it the other way around You approach a single female in a deserted place and ask her if she wants to feel your husbands chest. Not acceptable." fantastic point. | |||
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