FabSwingers.com forum: Icebreakers for Single Male

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appreciate I may be the least desirable demographic here but would love some advice and tips on approaching couples.

I went to Chams for the first time yesterday and although I had a great time with a single female and another single male, I would love to get involved with a couple.

What's the best way to approach or start a conversation?

Regrettably, as soon as I arrived a very nice couple gave me a tour. I wondered afterwards if this could have been a segway into more exciting conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally polite chat at the bar or a nice smile. If we are going to look for a single male to join us the above 2 things let us know you have seen us and maybe interested, after that give us a minute as we are likely to want to have a quick chat about it. If we fancy getting to know you better we will then approach you or try to catch your eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

Appreciate I may be the least desirable demographic here but would love some advice and tips on approaching couples.

I went to Chams for the first time yesterday and although I had a great time with a single female and another single male, I would love to get involved with a couple.

What's the best way to approach or start a conversation?

Regrettably, as soon as I arrived a very nice couple gave me a tour. I wondered afterwards if this could have been a segway into more exciting conversations. "

Everyone gets the tour!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the advice, much appreciated.

I will practice my smile so as to not look creepy.

Great point about giving the couple a chance to discuss too.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Try and imagine they are regular people at a regular place. Everyone knows any conversation is a segue to play. So just act normally.

You could even browse posted meets for the day and pre-message people going and if they like your profile, they may ask you to approach them in the club.

We always ask if people see our meets posted, to message and approach us.

If we aren't interested we will say, if we are interested then the pressure is off and you can just be yourself.

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

candy cane lane

I would wait until asked

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

The best icebreaker currently is probably

Sir David Attenborough.

She didn't get called 'Boaty McBoatface' after all despite massive public support for the name.

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