FabSwingers.com forum: First time exhibitionism

By *eelslover300 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

flitwick

Hi all, as you can see my profile is a solo profile but my gf is interested in exhibitionism. She isn't interested in swinging or playing with anyone else so looking for advice on best way to explore exhibitionism. We have done plenty in public and been seen, this is more about being actually watched. Would going to a club be better (this is likely to be too daunting in our thoughts and fears of others thinking they can join etc) or a private meet (preferably another couple but open to others - male or female). I know a common response may be to get a couples account and im sure if we proceed with this we will do but this is just getting the feelers out. Hope that's OK and thanks all in advance x

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Most clubs have private rooms with locks with a glass or perspex so people can watch you two without fear of "interruptions".

Dogging in a car is also a way to keep others at a distance

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By *obin444Man
over a year ago

Windsor

It’s less personal, but you can also go on cam

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By *iFunMale_southMan
over a year ago

Reading

Most people in clubs are very respectful and would watch without being a pain. A simple no would mean no.

We are also considering visiting a club just to be watched.

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By *eelslover300 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

flitwick

Thanks guys

We have done dogging, one in a complete random car park and one in a known dogging spot but both times there wasn't a whisper of anyone else close by.

I knew about lockable rooms in clubs but not about the windows etc, what clubs have these?

Is the general consensus that private meets aren't the best for this then?

Thanks again x

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Thanks guys

We have done dogging, one in a complete random car park and one in a known dogging spot but both times there wasn't a whisper of anyone else close by.

I knew about lockable rooms in clubs but not about the windows etc, what clubs have these?

Is the general consensus that private meets aren't the best for this then?

Thanks again x"

AbFabs by Heathrow, all the rooms have locks and all except three rooms have a glass window where anyone can see you. I guarantee you a crowd (males) watching you.

Hellfire in Sunbury. All rooms lock and have a window (no glass). Nicely, they have a curtain that you can choose to leave open or closed. Have a room that is on cam to a TV in the main lounge so if you go there anyone is the lounge will see you.

Chameleons (Birmingham). Most of the rooms have a window and a lock. A couple of play areas people can watch you from the floor above, as they walk through a corridor.

I am sure others can provide details of many other clubs, so better if you say what area for clubs nearby where you are.

Private meets could be great, so pursue that option too. If both couples respect each other's boundaries, I am sure you will have a great time.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"Thanks guys

We have done dogging, one in a complete random car park and one in a known dogging spot but both times there wasn't a whisper of anyone else close by.

I knew about lockable rooms in clubs but not about the windows etc, what clubs have these?

Is the general consensus that private meets aren't the best for this then?

Thanks again x"

I would say that in general it might work, but there is always that one person that agrees with everything you ask prikr to meetibg up, but on the day pushes boundaries too far for you two to enjoy the experience..

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Clubs are a good shout. There are couples who ho not to play with others just to be seen. I understand clubs can be daunting. But good clubs have a range of spaces to suit everyone. I would suggest first a private room where you can be watched but not interacted with. Some private rooms have a veiwing window or a stable door where the top bit can stay open for veiwing but bottom half shut to indicate no entry. The reason I recommend a veiwable private room first is because people naturally may want to join in however some people can be pushy. This gives you the opportunity to get to ease with showing off un front of others without worry about what others are doing around you. Then if/when you are more confident you could start playing in more open areas of the club. Great if you are turned on by the closer proximity of watchers and/or people pleasuring themselves selves to you. However you will need to be assertive and happy to make clear peoples advances to join in are not welcome in a open area of the club.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Previously a GF and I paid for a professional photoshoot. It was all arranged that we would have full sex while the cameraman took all the pics.

We loved being watched and got some quality shots out of it too.

Gbat

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By *eelslover300 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

flitwick

Thank you all so much for the kind words and advice and those clubs do sound just what we may need if we can't find the right person for a private meet. I had only been to vanilla alternative before and that was all open. Perfect for me at the time but more private rooms would be ideal for us given circumstances. We'd both have plenty of confidence to tell others to back off or go somewhere else but worry too much may kill the mood. Trusting someone privately would of course create a challenge as rightly pointed out saying one thing and doing it are two different things x

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