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By *omethingoranother OP   Man
over a year ago

near you

So I’ve just seen someone’s profile who is very very good looking. Other side of the country though so next to nil chance of meeting but have sent a message for adding as a friend for perv at their pics as I’d love to see more!

Question for the forum is, if you received a message asking for this, would you entertain it?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Nope, we never accept unsolicited friends requests unless the person is offline then we accept, pervr pictures and then block/de-friend them.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No.

I dislike friends requests when we've not spoken or when someone messages to ask to be added - they aren't friends and wouldn't be accepted.

The random friends request I wait until their offline accept, nosy then remove them as friends.

There's enough public pics for people to see.

Mrs

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By *omethingoranother OP   Man
over a year ago

near you

To add I wouldn’t send a friends request unsolicited. That drives me nuts too. If I know what the intentions are then I may entertain it personally

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By *omethingoranother OP   Man
over a year ago

near you


"No.

I dislike friends requests when we've not spoken or when someone messages to ask to be added - they aren't friends and wouldn't be accepted.

The random friends request I wait until their offline accept, nosy then remove them as friends.

There's enough public pics for people to see.

Mrs "

Wow, you definitely do have quite a few and love the colour filters to add the mood. Very sexy

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We accept friend requests from people we have actually met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them and tend not to accept. Usually only add people I've who've requested or those I am interested in and currently chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No unless we had the intention of meeting them or have been chatting through the forums and built a friendship with someone, would never accept a friend request from a stranger and would definitely not respond to a message asking to see our pics, that would be an instant block.

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By *evon30Man
over a year ago

torquay

I dont mind friend requests from anyone. All bit of the fun

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh


"No unless we had the intention of meeting them or have been chatting through the forums and built a friendship with someone, would never accept a friend request from a stranger and would definitely not respond to a message asking to see our pics, that would be an instant block. "

Totally this. Fab is a social media site and whilst our profile and some photos can be seen by all members, identity and exact location is protected from strangers and only shared once we feel comfortable. However, everyone uses social media differently. Use Fab your way but don’t expect it to be everyone’s way. Mrs SW

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

No, unless you have met us,we don't add as a friend.

Would prob just block the person who said "I wanna just perv at ur photos" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd quite happily accept any friends request. Feel free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask or accept requests for folk if there is zero chance of meeting. And never without chatting first.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Noooooo

Unless we're meeting prior to shit load of messages or met

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If someone messaged asking, maybe. It would depend on the tone of their message. If after the initial request they never messaged again we'd probably unfriend. Friends talk.

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By *omethingoranother OP   Man
over a year ago

near you


"If someone messaged asking, maybe. It would depend on the tone of their message. If after the initial request they never messaged again we'd probably unfriend. Friends talk."

For transparency this is what I sent:

“ Morning,

Saw your profile as I was flicking through the forums and thought you are really good looking! I am however miles away and realise that there’s probably zero chance of meeting but wondered if you would entertain a friend request for me to see your friend pics too?

You’d probably say the request was a bit pervy and honestly, you’d be right but I figured if you don’t ask you don’t get! Happy to share from my side too if you’re interested!”

I like to be honest and up front. If it results in a positive interaction then great! If it’s an ignore or a no then I’d leave it at that with a thank you for replying anyway if there was a response. Manners don’t cost anything.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't no,

I only add people I've met or plan to meet.

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury


"If someone messaged asking, maybe. It would depend on the tone of their message. If after the initial request they never messaged again we'd probably unfriend. Friends talk.

For transparency this is what I sent:

“ Morning,

Saw your profile as I was flicking through the forums and thought you are really good looking! I am however miles away and realise that there’s probably zero chance of meeting but wondered if you would entertain a friend request for me to see your friend pics too?

You’d probably say the request was a bit pervy and honestly, you’d be right but I figured if you don’t ask you don’t get! Happy to share from my side too if you’re interested!”

I like to be honest and up front. If it results in a positive interaction then great! If it’s an ignore or a no then I’d leave it at that with a thank you for replying anyway if there was a response. Manners don’t cost anything."

We would have accepted a friend request if we'd received a message like this.

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"If someone messaged asking, maybe. It would depend on the tone of their message. If after the initial request they never messaged again we'd probably unfriend. Friends talk.

For transparency this is what I sent:

“ Morning,

Saw your profile as I was flicking through the forums and thought you are really good looking! I am however miles away and realise that there’s probably zero chance of meeting but wondered if you would entertain a friend request for me to see your friend pics too?

You’d probably say the request was a bit pervy and honestly, you’d be right but I figured if you don’t ask you don’t get! Happy to share from my side too if you’re interested!”

I like to be honest and up front. If it results in a positive interaction then great! If it’s an ignore or a no then I’d leave it at that with a thank you for replying anyway if there was a response. Manners don’t cost anything."

No I wouldn’t accept.

The manners don’t cost anything would also annoy me that you felt the need to say that to me.

But as all have said each to their own but it would be ignored from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone messaged asking, maybe. It would depend on the tone of their message. If after the initial request they never messaged again we'd probably unfriend. Friends talk.

For transparency this is what I sent:

“ Morning,

Saw your profile as I was flicking through the forums and thought you are really good looking! I am however miles away and realise that there’s probably zero chance of meeting but wondered if you would entertain a friend request for me to see your friend pics too?

You’d probably say the request was a bit pervy and honestly, you’d be right but I figured if you don’t ask you don’t get! Happy to share from my side too if you’re interested!”

I like to be honest and up front. If it results in a positive interaction then great! If it’s an ignore or a no then I’d leave it at that with a thank you for replying anyway if there was a response. Manners don’t cost anything."

Well, if you put it this way... I suppose this is more likely to be considered. I also would accept.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’ll instantly block anyone who makes passive aggressive comments about manners costing nothing or expecting a reply. That’s rude as owt.

And the pictures I have posted are the ones I want random strangers on the other side of the country to be able to see. If I wanted you to know what my face looked like, those pics wouldn’t be friends only.

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By *oublesixesMan
over a year ago

Corby

It depends on who's asking, sometimes I will accept. Mostly I unfriend after a while if I see no prospect of meeting

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It depends what they have to offer in return, really. If it's a guy with a blank profile or 20 dick pics and nothing in 'friends only' then no thanks. If the profile has a good range of well shot public photos/videos and more in private then we'd probably accept.

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