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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Fabbers.. Would like peoples thoughts on this please.

We have recently found out that a guy has contacted all of our verifications asking different things about us.. Forgive me for being thick here, but I presumed the verifications we all receive are enough and say enough about us..

I feel a bit mad about it to be honest, what's your thoughts gang ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ermmmmmmmmmm !!!!!! wonder why he done it..seems a bit OOT to me if all he wants is sex....

two things i think might be.....

1. is he an ex trying to see what your up to ???

2. is he someone who thinks he knows you and is doing some detective work lol

3 . ops three things lol ....is he just a time wating fool

4. ops again four things....or is he just being extra careful

Happpy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is why I don't display mine. Have had the same problem with people asking my verifications for more information about me, and how best to get me to meet them etc. Not a nice position for my playmates to be put in either I felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had kinda same situation where a single guy contacted a couple I seen regularly asking questions about me. Ive hidden most of my verifications due to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is why I don't display mine. Have had the same problem with people asking my verifications for more information about me, and how best to get me to meet them etc. Not a nice position for my playmates to be put in either I felt."

Exactly how i feel too !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it were us, I'd say he'd just blown his chances of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Fabbers.. Would like peoples thoughts on this please.

We have recently found out that a guy has contacted all of our verifications asking different things about us.. Forgive me for being thick here, but I presumed the verifications we all receive are enough and say enough about us..

I feel a bit mad about it to be honest, what's your thoughts gang ?? "

Seems so wrong to me, it's got to be a big no no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ermmmmmmmmmm !!!!!! wonder why he done it..seems a bit OOT to me if all he wants is sex....

two things i think might be.....

1. is he an ex trying to see what your up to ???

2. is he someone who thinks he knows you and is doing some detective work lol

3 . ops three things lol ....is he just a time wating fool

4. ops again four things....or is he just being extra careful

Happpy Fabbing "

the mind boggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Fabbers.. Would like peoples thoughts on this please.

We have recently found out that a guy has contacted all of our verifications asking different things about us.. Forgive me for being thick here, but I presumed the verifications we all receive are enough and say enough about us..

I feel a bit mad about it to be honest, what's your thoughts gang ?? "

you can look at this in 2 ways.

1/You have put verifications visible as these people are vouching for you being who you say you are. contacting them say for instance to see if you practice say safe sex or asking if you are really bi or really straight is something that is irregular but you can understand doing it to a point.

2/They are prying to find out details about you and have an ulterior motive.

I would suggest sitting down, thinking about how you feel about this and if it unnerves you then simply block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what kinda questions???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally wouldn't bother me if someone contacted any of my verifications, I have nothing to hide and am who I say I am.

I'd only get annoyed if people who verified me gave out personal details such as exact location, contact number etc.

I have no issues with someone contacting a verification to check I'm real etc.

As a previous poster said, depends what type questions they are asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is why I don't display mine. Have had the same problem with people asking my verifications for more information about me, and how best to get me to meet them etc. Not a nice position for my playmates to be put in either I felt."

good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had this, but this was to try an bait us to meet them, they were trying to get one of our veri's to organise a meet at his, and of course they would conveniently be there!

We hide most of our veri's now for that reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had this, but this was to try an bait us to meet them, they were trying to get one of our veri's to organise a meet at his, and of course they would conveniently be there!

We hide most of our veri's now for that reason.

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God there's some freaks

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I think its wrong,if they can't accept your veri,s they should jog on. I wouldn't dream of contacting anyone in that way. If I felt the need then I know the meet isn't right for me. If anyone contacted me about someone I had met I would say what happend at the meet remains private.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

It does seem very OTT if they just want to arrange a meeting with you. At least you know now and have the choice whether to block or not.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We don't mind as long as it is just to check we are a genuine couple,and they don't ask details .but now we just meet new playmates at club anyway,or if we want fun on holiday

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Have had this happen. Not the nicest of things. Now I tend to hide mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally wouldn't bother me if someone contacted any of my verifications, I have nothing to hide and am who I say I am.

I'd only get annoyed if people who verified me gave out personal details such as exact location, contact number etc.

I have no issues with someone contacting a verification to check I'm real etc.

As a previous poster said, depends what type questions they are asking."

I couldn't agree more...the people who have verified me are grown ups, they can judge the situation for themselves..i have nothing to hide or fear!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys n girls for all your input on this.. Needless to say deffo wont be meeting the "asker" If he cant accept what veri's write about us, then as someone rightly said,"he can jog on"

I dunno, some ppl ey

Thanks fabbers x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I guess it depends on what he was asking, but it does sound a bit odd and creepy on the face of it.

I have, on occasion, told interested parties they are welcome to speak to various past playmates to check I'm genuine, the playmates involved knew the score and it was for very specific reasons such as lifts to clubs etc. but generally I would see it as a bit creepy to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me much but if it did i would block.

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