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Abstaining from wanking before a meet.

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By *alloSpaceboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.

After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.

This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this myself ha, it give me a more intense orgasm and it can make it easier for it to happen, with a new playmate it can be elusive it's just my brain being a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if they're the size of footballs by next weekend.

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By *alloSpaceboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"What if they're the size of footballs by next weekend. "

I worry more about being on a hair trigger or all my self discipline being wasted during a ‘nocturnal emission’.

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By *alloSpaceboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"I do this myself ha, it give me a more intense orgasm and it can make it easier for it to happen, with a new playmate it can be elusive it's just my brain being a twat. "

My play partner next weekend is going to be doing so for the very same reason.

Also helps if the pent up need can propel people through that first meet-up nerves too.

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By *ylonloverboy69Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

Never go out with a loaded gun!

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

If I know I'm going to be meeting a woman or couple I always make sure I've not had a want within 24 hours........and if I'm meeting an existing play partner I tell her not to as well especially if we're planning to attend a party.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Difficult decision as this means you might finish quicker ?

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By *alloSpaceboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"Difficult decision as this means you might finish quicker ? "

The idea is just for the initial spectacular load. I plan lot of fun and action thereafter.

I am lucky as I can recover quickly

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.

After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.

This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?"

Mrs R always tells me I’m on a sex sabbatical leading up to a meet.... she on the other hand gets horny so has to be satisfied daily!!!

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By *alloSpaceboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.

After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.

This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?

Mrs R always tells me I’m on a sex sabbatical leading up to a meet.... she on the other hand gets horny so has to be satisfied daily!!!"

Does she take matters into her own hand during these periods, so to speak?

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.

After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.

This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?

Mrs R always tells me I’m on a sex sabbatical leading up to a meet.... she on the other hand gets horny so has to be satisfied daily!!!

Does she take matters into her own hand during these periods, so to speak? "

I’m on the sex ban, well it’s actually a cumming ban!! Not without good reason as I take quite a long time so it is best I have a couple of days rest!! But I offer a helping hand (or fingers) to Mrs R so she’s happy....

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By *alloSpaceboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.

After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.

This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?

Mrs R always tells me I’m on a sex sabbatical leading up to a meet.... she on the other hand gets horny so has to be satisfied daily!!!

Does she take matters into her own hand during these periods, so to speak?

I’m on the sex ban, well it’s actually a cumming ban!! Not without good reason as I take quite a long time so it is best I have a couple of days rest!! But I offer a helping hand (or fingers) to Mrs R so she’s happy...."

Good to hear you’re still being put to good use while you build up your load

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.

After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.

This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?"

From experience of our meets with bulls in the past those that have saved themselves up for the meet are usually able to perform 2-3 times easily in a session.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Some of us have to abstain otherwise we wouldn't manage to cum at all. One effect of prostate cancer treatment for me was to reduce the amount of cum significantly.

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By *alloSpaceboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"Some of us have to abstain otherwise we wouldn't manage to cum at all. One effect of prostate cancer treatment for me was to reduce the amount of cum significantly."

I am sorry to hear that but glad you are still active

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By *alloSpaceboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.

After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.

This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?

From experience of our meets with bulls in the past those that have saved themselves up for the meet are usually able to perform 2-3 times easily in a session."

I tend to recover and sustain quite well anyway (luckily); we both just want her to be coated on my ejaculation with her. Just for the visual and debauchery of it all

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By *ndypandy69Man
over a year ago

Telford

Yes..lol not sure how much difference it makes but a few days of edging not cumming before a meet for me!

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By *alloSpaceboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"Yes..lol not sure how much difference it makes but a few days of edging not cumming before a meet for me!"

I would say ‘just to take the edge off’, but that is poor wordplay and not strictly true.

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

It’s always nice to edge for a few days before a meet. The new lady is always guaranteed to get a very big load and something for her bull to clean up if they are a cuckold/Bi couple.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"...

After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.

..."

I'm sure that a really good squeeze of the balls will ensure a massive ejaculation.

Everyone (on here at least) knows that testicles work just like the rubber bulb on an old fashioned water pistol.

I'm sure that a really good squeeze of the balls will ensure a massive ejaculation.

Do all you bollocks bursting guys feel the surge of the spunk going through all those tubes from the scrotum?

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By *iceguyEricMan
over a year ago

Jersey

I made this mistake recently. I was gone in 30 seconds!

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By *imher8587Couple
over a year ago

Kingswinford

I tend to hold off for a couple of days before a meet, it keeps me more mentally switched on & extra eager come the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.

After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.

This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?"

Get cleaned your shaft in case if there is any blockage and hindered the shooting

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"

Get cleaned your shaft in case if there is any blockage and hindered the shooting

"

Clotted cream comes to mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch The Inbetweeners - tactical wank

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
over a year ago

Midlands

If she loves to swallow it no it be stale and not taste nice.

If it’s going to be plastered accross her - let it build and let rip at her.

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By *ensual bi mature gentMan
over a year ago

London and elsewhere

I find it good to wank the day before a meet.

Never on the day.

Also good to look at fabswingers pics and videos on the day to get horny beforehand.

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

My wife will edge me for a week before either of us meet either solo or as a couple. She likes to tease.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's lovely that some of you men do this for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure I read somewhere that abstinence only works up to a point as your body absorbs any excess sperm as there is only so much held in stock as it were.

However I always seem to produce a lot if I build up to climax but stop moments before, and repeat a few times. Then when I do blow, its a pretty sizeable amount, for sure a hell of a lot more than if I dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP....not wanking for a week has it's consequences too....you possibly may cum within seconds....

But I understand too what your plan is....she just wants lots & lots of cum....& I'm sure she's smart enough to know you more than likely won't last actively long in the proposed sex session....

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Never go out with a loaded gun! "

That awful maxim has ruined at least two meets for me.

Go out ready to shoot. And then get helped to reload.

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By *ondoner27Man
over a year ago

london

Smart strategy OP.

The first time I arranged to meet a couple on here I was so excited and horny about it that I wanked myself silly, 5/6 times a day for a week leading up to the meet. This led to me not being able to perform on the night in question and ruined the meet for the couple and was a humiliating experience for me. Fortunately I have learned from the experience!

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