FabSwingers.com forum: Pregnant on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I seem to have a REAL thing for a girl with a bump, massive turn on. But its quite hard to actually find anyone!

I know that some like to swing at that time, but they also wont say if thats the situation until they are asked, which is a bit like playing minesweeper with a blindfold on to be honest ; )

So... Who actually ... is? ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question and its one raised several times in past - pregnant sex is something that gets peoples attention as its one of those forbidden erotic things to do in life...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hehe. I think you might be right, only problem for me, is that it doest get enough attention in my neck of the woods ; )

It's frustrating when its on your "bucket list" so to speak.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

See the thing is, a few people have admitted to being pregnant in the forums, and still wishing to play. Fine, whatever floats their boat, but not many are willing to take a bareback risk. It's too much of a risk to the unborn baby.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah see, thats the thing. People probably make people run a mile if they mention that part.

Doesn't have to be bareback! Always at the other persons discretion.

People can be inconsiderate and scare others off. Which I think is a real shame.

Pregnant people are people too ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't get it. To me it's a very personal time for the family. Makes me feel queasy the thought of being pregnant and playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its wrong

plain n simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of being preggers and swinging does nothing for me personally as i feel its a special time and that sex should be between just you and your partner(if he sticks around).

IF i fell pregnant i would probably stay on the site and use chat and forums to keep up with friends but beyond that sex with others is redundant until after the baby is born.

Just my opinion not wanting to offend anyone.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pregnant and not playing at min we only soft swing but it's a special time between me and my partner,also wouldn't want take chance and something happens to our little one,just for sake of some fun.we are still here to chat and make friends,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its wrong

plain n simple

that's YOUR opinion. Doesn't make it fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was married me and my then hubby met two couples where the women was pregnant, my ex loved pregnant womem, not really my thing tho, i love the look of a pregnant women but in a natural beauty kind of way not a sexual way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its wrong

plain n simple

that's YOUR opinion. Doesn't make it fact.

And this is why most pregnant ladies won't admit to playing or even wanting to is because you get so many people confusing personal opinion with actual facts..

I think that playing while pregnant is fine if that's what you want.

Cali

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Hehe. I think you might be right, only problem for me, is that it doest get enough attention in my neck of the woods ; )

It's frustrating when its on your "bucket list" so to speak. "

get down to dukes nightclub if its still there

if you pull on the sat night you might just have sex with a pregnant girl from fridays night out but she might not know it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you have someone else to worry about other than urself when ur pregnant so maybe the lil one inside you would appreciate mother putting her passion for different sexual partners aside for a minute

if thats not too much to ask mummy

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

My opinion is,,,,,,,, when a woman becomes pregnant she has a special 'protective' feeling for her unborn baby.

She may feel that casual sex with someone may not be safe for her baby. Not only the actual act of penetration but also with someone who obviously prefers bareback and could pass on infection etc.

Thats just my thought as to why the OP may not be having much luck finding what he wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well you have someone else to worry about other than urself when ur pregnant so maybe the lil one inside you would appreciate mother putting her passion for different sexual partners aside for a minute

if thats not too much to ask mummy

but each to their own as ever

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

if thats not too much to ask mummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess its all down to personal preference. Myself personally wouldn't.. But as long as mom and dad and the person their playing with are consensual. Then each to their own..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When pregnant a womans body isn't her own anymore.

Does she have the right to do as she wishes for her own needs anymore?

Would u expect her to carry on drinking heavy once pregnant?

A woman needs to look after the child the minute its concieved..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately it's the woman's choice weather to carry on swinging while pregnant or not. Personally I LOVE to see a pregnant woman naked and having fun. Nothing sexier.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"When pregnant a womans body isn't her own anymore.

Does she have the right to do as she wishes for her own needs anymore?

Would u expect her to carry on drinking heavy once pregnant?

A woman needs to look after the child the minute its concieved..

You and I may think that, but we've all seen pregnant women smoking, drinking, babies are born with drugs in their systems, why then would we be surprised at women having sex with strangers they pick up on a swingers site?

Each to their own...apart from the baby who doesn't have a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When pregnant a womans body isn't her own anymore.

Does she have the right to do as she wishes for her own needs anymore?

Would u expect her to carry on drinking heavy once pregnant?

A woman needs to look after the child the minute its concieved..

Each to their own...apart from the baby who doesn't have a choice."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interestingly, a Lady can still look after herself just fine. If shes horny, and wants to play its her call I think.

She can play safe, or not depending on if the guy is clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interestingly, a Lady can still look after herself just fine. If shes horny, and wants to play its her call I think.

She can play safe, or not depending on if the guy is clean.

But its not just about looking after herself when pregnant is it..

As someone has said, the baby has no choice..

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

bloody hell mate get a gf get her pregg n play with her bingo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just would not feel right not for me.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Interestingly, a Lady can still look after herself just fine. If shes horny, and wants to play its her call I think.

She can play safe, or not depending on if the guy is clean.

Actually it is possible to pass on genial warts even if condoms are used and these can be passed on to the child when it's born. And someone could have the virus and pass it on without knowing. I'd rather not risk being responsible for giving my newborn warts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting topic, I am pregnant and my partner and I still swing, however I am pickier who I play with and if I'm not comfortable then it doesn't happen.

It's interesting that people are likening it to smoking and drinking, having sex isn't dangerous when pregnant unless you have medical issues.

yes I guess you have the risk of STDs however if you don't play safe then your at risk anyway and if your playing safe then the infections transmittable to the baby is as likely to be caught as at any other time (and for the obvious exceptions can still be treated during pregnancy).

I agree everyone is entitled to their opinion and yes some people but don't like it but in mine I see it as just because I'm a mum doesn't mean I have to stop being me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting topic, I am pregnant and my partner and I still swing, however I am pickier who I play with and if I'm not comfortable then it doesn't happen.

It's interesting that people are likening it to smoking and drinking, having sex isn't dangerous when pregnant unless you have medical issues.

I agree everyone is entitled to their opinion and yes some people but don't like it but in mine I see it as just because I'm a mum doesn't mean I have to stop being me.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"its wrong

plain n simple

that's YOUR opinion. Doesn't make it fact.

So no sex what so ever?

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

if thats not too much to ask mummy

Sorry but the worry doesn't just stop or go away with birth!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"My opinion is,,,,,,,, when a woman becomes pregnant she has a special 'protective' feeling for her unborn baby.

She may feel that casual sex with someone may not be safe for her baby. Not only the actual act of penetration but also with someone who obviously prefers bareback and could pass on infection etc.

Thats just my thought as to why the OP may not be having much luck finding what he wants.

In the opening the OP didn't mention bareback and it was only mentioned when brought up by a poster.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"When pregnant a womans body isn't her own anymore.

Does she have the right to do as she wishes for her own needs anymore?

Would u expect her to carry on drinking heavy once pregnant?

A woman needs to look after the child the minute its concieved..

In the news today a comment was made that smoking in cars when children are on board should be made illegal!

Sex during pregnancy is considered healthy but you just vary the practises and maybe pull back in anything that is considered extreme.common sense!

If you do or don't want to swing (safe) its your choices just as it is for those who continue to smoke during pregnancy and around children at any time.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Interesting topic, I am pregnant and my partner and I still swing, however I am pickier who I play with and if I'm not comfortable then it doesn't happen.

It's interesting that people are likening it to smoking and drinking, having sex isn't dangerous when pregnant unless you have medical issues.

I agree everyone is entitled to their opinion and yes some people but don't like it but in mine I see it as just because I'm a mum doesn't mean I have to stop being me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a thing for going down on pregnant women, I say that like it happens a lot, it never has but they make me blush!

Surely you need to adapt what you do when your are carrying a child, fisting is probabaly off the menu!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting topic, I am pregnant and my partner and I still swing, however I am pickier who I play with and if I'm not comfortable then it doesn't happen.

It's interesting that people are likening it to smoking and drinking, having sex isn't dangerous when pregnant unless you have medical issues.

I agree everyone is entitled to their opinion and yes some people but don't like it but in mine I see it as just because I'm a mum doesn't mean I have to stop being me."

Safew sex isn't 100% safe. Why risk it :/

Also I would disagree.. I'm a mum and being me is no longer the most important thing now. Being me is as and when I can cos I my sons needs will always come first, that's my commitment to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few seem to have missed my point. theres a greater risk because swingers naturally have alot more sexual partners and are themselves open to greater risk of STD`s.

i didnt rule out sex all-together. if you have a partner thats clean stick with him and he shouldnt be playing during this period either imo

and @ the poster who said she shouldnt have to stop being herself. i just shook my head at that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting topic, I am pregnant and my partner and I still swing, however I am pickier who I play with and if I'm not comfortable then it doesn't happen.

It's interesting that people are likening it to smoking and drinking, having sex isn't dangerous when pregnant unless you have medical issues.

I agree everyone is entitled to their opinion and yes some people but don't like it but in mine I see it as just because I'm a mum doesn't mean I have to stop being me."

Good on you. And I agree totally with the last bit. I didn't swing while pregnant but didn't just have one partner either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Safew sex isn't 100% safe. Why risk it :/

Also I would disagree.. I'm a mum and being me is no longer the most important thing now. Being me is as and when I can cos I my sons needs will always come first, that's my commitment to him."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had a baby and whilst we remained on the site during the pregnancy, we didn't swing.

I didn't want to put my unborn baby at risk of STIs. Even though, we practise safe sex nothing is guaranteed and accidents can and do happen. Everytime we play we know the risks but a baby doesn't. The baby doesn't have a choice about what mum does.

Also I personally feel that pregnancy is such a special time for the family and for me, that is another reason not to swing.

However, if you do choose to then far be it from me to judge you.

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By *imal75Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I think its wrong..like 2innott has said..its family time.

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By *oungmumxxxWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Its u to the woman, thissite can be so judgemental which is fucking ironic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting topic, I am pregnant and my partner and I still swing, however I am pickier who I play with and if I'm not comfortable then it doesn't happen.

It's interesting that people are likening it to smoking and drinking, having sex isn't dangerous when pregnant unless you have medical issues.

I agree everyone is entitled to their opinion and yes some people but don't like it but in mine I see it as just because I'm a mum doesn't mean I have to stop being me.

Safew sex isn't 100% safe. Why risk it :/

Also I would disagree.. I'm a mum and being me is no longer the most important thing now. Being me is as and when I can cos I my sons needs will always come first, that's my commitment to him."

Why risk your health at any time then?

Surely your just at risk when not pregnant so that's just hypocritical, go out and swing when not pregnant contract aids (possibly afterall) die leave children without a mother...

Also yes I throughly believe that being pregnant shouldn't take away her identity neither should being a mum, of course my kids come first but at the end of the day once they are asleep it is my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur risking more than ur own health when ur pregnant

anyone would think some peoples lives revolved around this shit

ive had enough of this now anyway. said my piece

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Heh.

A lot of different thoughts on the subject.

I have my view of course, just a shame I cant find anyone that shares it who is local to me ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get it. To me it's a very personal time for the family. Makes me feel queasy the thought of being pregnant and playing. "

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I think those comparing a shag to smoking and drinking need to get a grip.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed with above.

... Dont really like people smoking ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think those comparing a shag to smoking and drinking need to get a grip."

Some people need reality then :/

When pregnant if a woman smokes or drinks there are risks to the baby, when a woman has multiple partners there are risks of sti's which are a risk to the baby.. Same thing.. Why take any risk when pregnant

There not rocket sceince now

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I think its worth noting that something like a misscarrige is not something you can objectively talk about without having been through one and while sex might be fine while pregnant why would you want to risk an unborn child ? either with STI or any of the other complications ?

Its up to you what you do with your body I guess but wont you just feel terrible if your need to have sex with multiple partner resulted in complications to your child (that that might have to live with for the rest of their lives), just for the sake of 9 months ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting topic, I am pregnant and my partner and I still swing, however I am pickier who I play with and if I'm not comfortable then it doesn't happen.

It's interesting that people are likening it to smoking and drinking, having sex isn't dangerous when pregnant unless you have medical issues.

I agree everyone is entitled to their opinion and yes some people but don't like it but in mine I see it as just because I'm a mum doesn't mean I have to stop being me.

Safew sex isn't 100% safe. Why risk it :/

Also I would disagree.. I'm a mum and being me is no longer the most important thing now. Being me is as and when I can cos I my sons needs will always come first, that's my commitment to him.

Why risk your health at any time then?

Surely your just at risk when not pregnant so that's just hypocritical, go out and swing when not pregnant contract aids (possibly afterall) die leave children without a mother...

When do we not take risks in life? But we do what we can to keep them minimal.

U seem to be applying that i have many multiple partners.. Ur very wrong, I'm not here to up my numbers by many!

Also u say when he is asleep its ur time, that suggests u play when he is in bed? I would never dream of having casual sexual encounters with my son in the house!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its worth noting that something like a misscarrige is not something you can objectively talk about without having been through one and while sex might be fine while pregnant why would you want to risk an unborn child ? either with STI or any of the other complications ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see it now..

Jeremy kyle show

"whos the daddy" DNA results today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if thats not too much to ask mummy

My wife at the time was told by the doc to have sex as she was overdue and sperm would help break the waters. It never did but I had a lot of fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with you here. Afterall its a personal choice. Pregnant does not stop a woman having sex with her partner or swinging friends. Most important is how far you intent to continue. Some enjoy even towards the end of their pregnancy period and I guess taking it cautiously. Baby in the mothers womb is fairly safe as long as safe sex is observed. So there should be no much worry here, just enjoy and it is rather erotic to have it with pregnant women, even watching. Mmmmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if thats not too much to ask mummy

My wife at the time was told by the doc to have sex as she was overdue and sperm would help break the waters. It never did but I had a lot of fun lol

Apparently male cum contains hormones that can trigger labour.. Fine if with ur partner only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex isn't 100% safe. Why risk it :/

Also I would disagree.. I'm a mum and being me is no longer the most important thing now. Being me is as and when I can cos I my sons needs will always come first, that's my commitment to him."

As a mum also, i cant 'thumbs up' to this enough!! Your child's needs should always come first regardless. Ofcourse there are risks swinging anyway but thats your choice when not pregnant, why take the risk to your baby instead of waiting 9 mths? Its only for 9 mths, stop playing & keep your baby safe & healthy for that time, then after pregnancy you can play as you like without risks to anyone but yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmm. Irony is, anyone into it are all up north. : /

Never easy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had offers twice from pregnant couples, but then maybe its different with a girl. It did put me off but i dont really know why. If girls want to play then let them - your banned from enough things when your expecting already, dont add sex to the list lol. Plus u cant get pregnant when your pregnant... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its seems somewhat strange why a man would actively search out a pregnant woman to have sex with??

Can anyone enlighten me?

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

Safe sex isn't 100% safe. Why risk it :/

Also I would disagree.. I'm a mum and being me is no longer the most important thing now. Being me is as and when I can cos I my sons needs will always come first, that's my commitment to him.

As a mum also, i cant 'thumbs up' to this enough!! Your child's needs should always come first regardless. Ofcourse there are risks swinging anyway but thats your choice when not pregnant, why take the risk to your baby instead of waiting 9 mths? Its only for 9 mths, stop playing & keep your baby safe & healthy for that time, then after pregnancy you cacn play as you like without risks to anyone but yourself

As a dad I think I understand where you are coming from but all this emphasis on safety during pregnancy because its the responsible thing to do and then do what the hell you like after womb migration day seems some what ludicrous.

you'll have at 16 years when you're directly responsible for your off spring and that includes making sure as best you can that you take care of your health.

Don't be fooled into thinking that its the right or moral thing to not to play during pregnancy for their health because if that is your view then don't play until they've packed their bags and are self sufficient and no longer need you financially, they may always need you emotionally.

I'm not advocating playing during pregnancy but the choice to make the decision that is right as you see it for you and your partner should you have one.

Sex is not just about the physical act as the brain is the most important sexual organ. You can always soft play as I presume safe is the usual preferred option but if not you can still make an informed decision.

Opinions on this subject will always be divided just as with anything of a swinging nature.

It would be interesting to see just how many advocate not playing but wouldn't think twice about smoking, drinking or social drug taking whilst pregnant. Or They may reduce the volume but will still continue or will stop and as soon as possible start back up after womb evac day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

^^ This is the most well writte response i've seen in here to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My quest goes on, still cant find anything local.

How frustrating..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex isn't 100% safe. Why risk it :/

Also I would disagree.. I'm a mum and being me is no longer the most important thing now. Being me is as and when I can cos I my sons needs will always come first, that's my commitment to him.

As a mum also, i cant 'thumbs up' to this enough!! Your child's needs should always come first regardless. Ofcourse there are risks swinging anyway but thats your choice when not pregnant, why take the risk to your baby instead of waiting 9 mths? Its only for 9 mths, stop playing & keep your baby safe & healthy for that time, then after pregnancy you cacn play as you like without risks to anyone but yourself

you'll have at 16 years when you're directly responsible for your off spring and that includes making sure as best you can that you take care of your health.

I'm not advocating playing during pregnancy but the choice to make the decision that is right as you see it for you and your partner should you have one.

Opinions on this subject will always be divided just as with anything of a swinging nature.

What a brilliant post. X

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

"Its u to the woman, thissite can be so judgemental which is fucking ironic..."

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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Where do people get this 'special time' from? I can tell you, wasn't so bloody special.

To those that compare it to drink, drugs or smoking while pregnant.. The difference is they WILL kill you even if done as intended. Having sex itself won't.

I didn't swing when pregnant, but to those that want to and are careful, good luck.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through all of my wifes pregnancies we still had sex. Found it quiet erotic. Always was gentle and remember there is a mebraine around the baby and untill in labour is high up. Spooning position is nice and safer. As for swinging its totaly up to the women. At least she won't catch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats gross

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Surprised how closed-minded people can be.. : /

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Its seems somewhat strange why a man would actively search out a pregnant woman to have sex with??

Can anyone enlighten me? "

Because it is erotic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

^^ This dude gets it.. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woudnt interest me if being honest the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We left the site when I fell pregnant as I didn't feel right have multiple partners whilst pregnant and he also became very protective of me and didn't like the idea of another man being that intimate with me while I was carrying his child.

I wouldn't judge someone who chose to swing whilst pregnant though, just advise them to be extra cautious.

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah see, thats the thing. People probably make people run a mile if they mention that part.

Doesn't have to be bareback! Always at the other persons discretion.

People can be inconsiderate and scare others off. Which I think is a real shame.

Pregnant people are people too ; )"

i dont understand how a heavily pregnant woman can have sex with different men when pregnant!its not healthy for her or her baby,i certainly wudnt swing while pregnant!no way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surprised how closed-minded people can be.. : /"

its not closed minded at all!!its just wrong!full stop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am an everyone on here seems too like it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am an everyone on here seems too like it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was pregnant whilst on here, i just stuck to a couple of regular guys i knew i could trust having got to know them and met them plenty before. Refused to meet anyone new whilst pregnant. My sex drive was ridiculously high and the dad had fucked off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See, thats what I'm after ; )

But naturally, no one wants to find a "regular".

Frustrating.. : /

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surprised how closed-minded people can be.. : /

its not closed minded at all!!its just wrong!full stop!"

No. It's not wrong. You find it wrong for you. There is a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the choice of the woman that troubles me that's up to the individual but what I do find a tad odd is that random men find it a turn on to have sex with a woman who is carrying another man's child and frm the woman's point of view, how non flattering to feel she's only wanted because of the fact of being pregnant...I don't get it anyone care to explain it, feel free to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure I could answer that personally, but other people above have done so ; )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh I might as well try. ; )

Fertility for one thing. growing bump and breasts. Everything swelling downstairs making things more sensitive.

Wetter, and hornier (When turned on)...

what more need I say? ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love pregnant women so sexy... That is all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just... none around...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Quest goes on ; )

Still nada..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get ridiculously horny when I was pregnant with the twins. Sid and I enjoyed sex while I was pregnant, I think pregnant women are incredibly sexy and i understand where the OP is coming from. We weren't on this site when I was pregnant but we did enjoy swinging with our close friends. It never hindered us until I was 30 weeks, when my bump was just too heavy to stay on my knees for ages. Then Sid and I could enjoy each others company.

I think there is an awful lot of pressure on pregnant women, they must be seen to be keeping healthy. While I agree sex with multiple new partners is probably not in the baby's best interests, I don't see a problem with swinging during pregnancy. We stuck to people we knew and had already had fun with and we loved it.

I guess the reason you can't find a pregnant swinger is probably because they don't want to draw too much attention to themselves because they would get negative remarks. Especially after reading this post where most people appear to be set against it. Good luck though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True we been on here 3 yr av 9 kids on baby 10 now 16 weeks we deleted our account but missed chatting were meeting in socials only no play as nothing is safe for Ur unborn child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its seems somewhat strange why a man would actively search out a pregnant woman to have sex with??

Can anyone enlighten me? "

Why not? Why should he have to enlighten you? Everyone on this site has different things that turn them on, why should this be any different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its seems somewhat strange why a man would actively search out a pregnant woman to have sex with??

Can anyone enlighten me?"

Assuming you're asking purely out of curiosity as opposed to implying theres something strange about guys being attracted to pregnant women, I'd say its quite simple - guys are attracted to femininity, and it doesn't get much more feminine than being pregnant. i too find the site of a slender woman with a big round belly extremely erotic, and would hope that they would find my own gentle approach to sex equally appealing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

^^ Easy to explain, impossible to find.

All the "Local" ones I've found either are after girls, or just ... Arent there.

Rather frustrating.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I think there is an awful lot of pressure on pregnant women, they must be seen to be keeping healthy. "

I dont see how this can be considered a bad thing or even a pressure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wether it's right or wrong, a pregnant woman is certainly a sexy turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"^^ Easy to explain, impossible to find.

All the "Local" ones I've found either are after girls, or just ... Arent there.

Rather frustrating. "

Well, take a look at the odds - a site saturated with single males, massively outnumbering women and couples, then you need a couple where the woman in question is both pregnant and still looking to swing, then you need to understand just how greatly in demand she will be and hope that out of the masses of single males who contact her she decides she wants to have sex with YOU (because naturally and understandably she will be very specific in who she decides to swing with), THEN only have a small window of opportunity to meet because of course, she won't always be pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/03/13 07:21:53]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Determination is a strong personality trait, i'm told.

By those standards, I must have a strong personality ; )

Still looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you pull on the sat night you might just have sex with a pregnant girl from fridays night out but she might not know it yet

Hahahahaha, top answer my friend.....love it....lol...lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

^^ .. Interesting point. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was 6 months pregnant before finding out, i had been on here all those 6 months playing and i was most certainly at my horniest! once i found out i stopped playing, came off the site til he was born. personal opinion although had i known i woulda been more pickie about playing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

^^ See, thats what I'd love to see. Heightened sexuality. But ... Its almost impossible to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just look for another site more suitable?

I'm sure there are specific sites for guys wishing to have sex with pregnant women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Indeed, but they make this place look active for it.

Seriously. It's rather rare. ; )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think the only major frustration, most are hidden like people say. ; )

Hard to ask, if you cant see.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Have to ask.....

OP, are you one of the select few that think others have safe sex just to avoid pregnancy??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol, hardly. I know the rules.

I just know also, what I like. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long before we started swinging, I (Mr J) was briefly involved with a lovely lady a few years older than I. She was approx 8 months pregnant and we had loads of fun together (including fisting, which if done carefully & correctly causes no harm to the baby).

I love pregnant woman, in everyway....its something that I personally find very very erotic, from the glow in the cheeks of a blushing mother to be, to the natural, beautiful look of a pregnant woman.

It's all well and good to those who evoke the "special time for family clause" but what about those women who have the unfortunate experience of getting pregnant by some twit who doesn't stick around?? It's well documented that some pregnancies can send a woman's drive into overload, why then should they not seek to satisfy themselves.

As has been mentioned by several different people here, it IS each to their own, if its not your bag...fine, but don't deride others for expressing themselves.

Mr J

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You have no idea how envious I am of that. Seriously. lol.

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

I would have to consider the fact that the bump is not mine. I wouldn't want to cause any problems during the pregnancy. However, if you are all consenting then enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" It's well documented that some pregnancies can send a woman's drive into overload, why then should they not seek to satisfy themselves."

why shouldn't pregnant women who want a fag satisfy that need, who should pregnant women not go out and drink?

Parenthood is about putting your children first and for me that starts in the womb

Its also well documented that some STIs can cause blindness and deformities in unborn children, you can be as careful as you like but the fact of the matter is condoms can comer off, they can split, and if that happens with someone who has something your baby could literally pay for that for the rest of its life

For me its a risk not worth taking, for others they are prepaired to take that risk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed. Still finding the irony of distance compelling, mind. All seems to be up north ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" It's well documented that some pregnancies can send a woman's drive into overload, why then should they not seek to satisfy themselves.

why shouldn't pregnant women who want a fag satisfy that need, who should pregnant women not go out and drink?

Parenthood is about putting your children first and for me that starts in the womb

For me its a risk not worth taking, for others they are prepaired to take that risk"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hehe, you're pregnant, too far away AND not looking according to your profile.

Thats what I keep running into!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That said, the picture is rather interesting. ; )

Still looking, mind.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

Fascinating that this is one of the few threads I've seen on hear that address STIs .... generally speaking there seems to be a void-like silence regarding this super important issue for all of us. Personally I've never had one, but it is the most scariest aspect of our lifestyle....especially when you see guys playing without due care (it seems to happen in club swimming pools a lot!!!)

It's interesting, and lovely, that people take more care when the health of a small newborn is at risk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed. So they should, of course.

Still looking, mind. ; )

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Fascinating that this is one of the few threads I've seen on hear that address STIs .... generally speaking there seems to be a void-like silence regarding this super important issue for all of us. Personally I've never had one, but it is the most scariest aspect of our lifestyle....especially when you see guys playing without due care (it seems to happen in club swimming pools a lot!!!)

It's interesting, and lovely, that people take more care when the health of a small newborn is at risk."

Where are you looking? There are threads weekly about sti's and what you can do to minimise the risk. People are concerned about a new born because they have no say in the matter. Someone deciding to play bareback is doing so knowing the consequences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Play safe, totally fair.

But, still looking! ; )

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Play safe, totally fair.

But, still looking! ; )"

I cannot think of a single pregnant woman I have known who would willingly have sex with someone else other than their partner - whether they were a swinger or not.

That said, I am sure there will be some who do. However, they would be very very rare indeed.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

It has been a while as my kids are grown up but i could never imagine wanting to do that with anyone but my other half at that time, but each to their own !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

^^ Thanks. ; )

Rarity is indeed the issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That said, distance is the other issue. Its all going on up north. lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep, getting offers. All up north! .. Arg!

Quest goes on. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, getting offers. All up north! .. Arg!

Quest goes on. ; )"

It obviously something high on your wish list so is it not worth booking a couple of nights up north?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wish it were the case, I have too many commitments down south right now. Otherwise, I would ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I contacted a few of the couple's up this way, and while they would have played with a lady, not one wanted me and a guy to join them.

Think that's also hindering the op.

Don't forget most will not admit to playing. Although I know some do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its wrong

plain n simple

"
. I agree with u it's not rite at all!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Open debate if you want, everyone is into something. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its wrong

plain n simple

. I agree with u it's not rite at all!!!

it's not right to you. But that's just your view. Which is up to you, but does not make it wrong. Just not your thing.

I have to say should I ever have another child that I will be having a very very fun filled time.

But it's not really likely to happen. although I did have multiple partners during two pregnancies. It was great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im pregnant and im still playing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With the upmost respect.

... Damn you. lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im pregnant and im still playing

Prepare your inbox lol

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"im pregnant and im still playing

Prepare your inbox lol"

classic double entendre there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im pregnant and im still playing

Prepare your inbox lol

classic double entendre there

getting offers as we speak dont do bareback ever mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for me, but i'm not here to judge, so each to their own!

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I was pregnant this time 2 years ago, we decided from the offset we weren't going to play until after the baby was born & stated it on our profile.

At the time we were regulars in chat & at socials but the negative comments we had about even being on site whilst pregnant made us hide our profile & give the whole scene a wide berth!

As it happens my sex drive went through the floor & I felt extremely unattractive for the whole of my pregnancy so apart from the 'moral' stance I wouldn't have played anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Strangely noticed that. Some people lose all taste for it, but others are very much at the other end of the scale ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im pregnant and im still playing

Prepare your inbox lol

classic double entendre there

getting offers as we speak dont do bareback ever mind lol

My offer would be among them were you not so far away - so often the case

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"Strangely noticed that. Some people lose all taste for it, but others are very much at the other end of the scale ; )"

Hormones mate, my advice would be just don't go there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strangely noticed that. Some people lose all taste for it, but others are very much at the other end of the scale ; )

Hormones mate, my advice would be just don't go there!"

my sex drive went through the roof every time. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See. thats exactly. What i'm looking for.. ; )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hm. going to be a long weekend. xD

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

It never surprises me anymore. You would think swingers where liberals, but there is no real reason for this. Swingers are all kinds of people, liberals, right wing, left wing.

I'd take a wild guess an assume most swingers don't get tested. Most STI's tend to be found via symptoms rather than testing.

Sex in no way harms a baby, you could have sex with 1000 men whilst pregnant, if they are all clean or you use protection, it's the same as having sex with the same man 1000 times.

People will say that more partners increases the risk, but then you were already at increased risk if you were swinging before you where pregnant. It's not like a light flashes the next day declaring you are pregnant. So you could be swinging and pregnant for weeks without knowing, or pregnant and carrying and STI from pre-pregnancy.

I would be very surprised to find any scientific results, that show any pregnancy has been harmed by having multiple partners. Were as there are lots of stats for drinking, smoking, drugs, stress etc whilst pregnant.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Also people tend to throw in the statement about we know the risks but the baby does not.

Well do people really know the risks?

I doubt it, it tends to be more of a throw away comment, similar to how people claim to know the risks of anything.

There are stats for numbers of women who are pregnant with STD's, but there is little information around how many pregnant women contracted STD's during pregnancy. Without that it's hard to truely say we know the risks with any honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is my opinion that if you're pregnant and you want to have sex then that's your business and its up to you if you want to do it. #freewill

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed. Still looking. ; )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rather difficult, it seems...

Had a reccoemndation for someone.

.. Not playing. Bugger. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of being preggers and swinging does nothing for me personally as i feel its a special time and that sex should be between just you and your partner(if he sticks around).

IF i fell pregnant i would probably stay on the site and use chat and forums to keep up with friends but beyond that sex with others is redundant until after the baby is born.

Just my opinion not wanting to offend anyone.

MissD

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Still looking around. ; )

25 years young, by the way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My search goes on. ; )

... And I dont remember my birthday. Alcahol is an interesting creature for sure : /

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many varying opinions hete. As there should be. Don't knock it until you have tried it. It's VERY horny for both parties. Many women get particularly greedy for sex around 5 to 7 months. (Hormones I suspect) Some of the best sex ever! And proven not to hsrm baby too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many varying opinions hete. As there should be. Don't knock it until you have tried it. It's VERY horny for both parties. Many women get particularly greedy for sex around 5 to 7 months. (Hormones I suspect) Some of the best sex ever! And proven not to hsrm baby too...."

I don't think it's the actual sex that people mean would harm the baby it's what can be caught off people that can then be passed on to the unborn baby with terrible consequences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found a few pictures from a pregnant bikini contest earlier - truly, twas a thing of beauty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I've seen those. You'll be glad to know there was a video of that. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As lovely as I'm sure it is, I often find these days that watching such things only serves to further my sexual frustration, rather like walking past a bakery when you're on a diet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed...Believe me agreed.

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By *orny.hottieWoman
over a year ago

near the hornyness xx

im pregnant and still here

i dont see any problem with it at all as long as your not doing bare back and not shaggin every tom dick and harry its no different than sleeping with your regular partner its nothing like drinking drugs and smoking (all of which i dont do) sex is natural and just to remind all those who have seemingly forgotten the most frequent advice given by doctors to speed up labour is SEX ! the baby is protected and safe tucked up in your womb obviously walking into a club n going though all there is significantly different but soft swinging with those you trust and have slept with before whilst being protected surely shouldnt be an issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Finding it is the issue, more than the terms and conditions : /

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it in the past, girl found out her fella was cheating so did the same, bareback was a must for her.. Very horny and she moaned and moaned I'd go again anyday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... Damn.

Wrong, but sexy. lol.

Still looking! ; )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Search goes on... ; )

Free this weekend as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had one lined up. Looked to meet. About to go for it.

Evaporated off the face of the earth.

... Arg.

Still looking ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had one lined up. Looked to meet. About to go for it.

Evaporated off the face of the earth.

... Arg.

Still looking ; )"

maybe she went into labour.. lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha! If only. Only 4-5 months in. So close, yet so far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha! If only. Only 4-5 months in. So close, yet so far!"

You are going to self combust before you get to that point. You tried the fetish site's? As many have groups just for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have pics from when nik was pregnant,tasteful naked ones.we have put them on here before.we got a shed load of messages saying how nice they were but a few nasty ones saying we shouldnt do it.

we never played while she was preg as it was before we did this sort of stuff.

might put one on again to gauge responce

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, I looked around, but its harder to locate than one would imagine. If anyone knows where to look, it'd be nice for people to share the info.

Naturally, mind. It never stops a guy looking ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

please do - its sexy and aesthetic and genetically women are horny during pregnancy (well, when they're not beign sick or eatign coal!) as it's a time when you can have sex without getting pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have uploaded it,even put the date on but people will still message saying they want to fuck a pregnant woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brill pic - she looks absolutley stunning - beautiful - thank you for sharing. Perhaps people think humans are preg for as long as elephants

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Holy shit, that is rather sexy. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"might put one on again to gauge responce"

Well its a positive from me, she looks beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for sharing. Xxx she looks amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thank you ,glad you like it.she did look extra stunning when pregnant.we have a few more but dont want to put too many old pics up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Certain a few people in this threat wouldn't mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thread* .. (No edit button?? .... Fine .. )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hehe i bet they would

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