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Members who refuse to speak, let alone Cam/VidChat.

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By *zBoy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

London.

I suspect such "Members" have other motives so ask the question on here in case I am wrong. If you're genuine surely both parties like to at least speak, preferably AudioVisual, before a meet? Unless you have something to hide?

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We don’t tend to, although would if the other party preferred. You can usually get a feel for them via the messaging and we always have a social first so anything untoward usually gets picked up then xx

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sometimes it will be because they're not who they claim to be, not always though. I don't video chat or call before a meet.

If that's a deal breaker for someone then we're just not compatible.

As the couple above said, it's a social only first anyway, so I hope anything dodgy would be picked up on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I’m 100% genuine but I will not under any circumstances do a phone call, video call, WhatsApp or anything else.

We can message on here, we can meet and talk in person. But I wouldn’t do anything other than that until I’ve met someone.

Privacy is important and I get a dozen people a day asking for my phone number or to go on another platform. It’s not worth the time or effort.

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By *zBoy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

London.

Thank you all for your comments so far. I'd have thought that KIK is the answer to any privacy concerns?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've only ever had 1 video call before meeting, I find them super awkward same as phone calls I don't see the need for them.

Mrs

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I never meet anyone without a quick cam chat. Just makes it clear we are who claim to be. Plus it also gives you a better idea If you will get on / vibe / attracted.

Pics only carry you so far

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We never video call or talk on the phone preferring to meet socially. We understand and respect that some people like to do this though

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I suspect such "Members" have other motives so ask the question on here in case I am wrong. If you're genuine surely both parties like to at least speak, preferably AudioVisual, before a meet? Unless you have something to hide?"

They may well have something to hide. Be careful on here regarding who are genuine and who are Men pretending to be a Woman or Couple. A phone call doesn't matter to us as we only meet in club's.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We value our privacy so wouldn't go onto any media that can be recorded. We are very often asked to take messaging off here and onto kik, Skype etc...we always say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for your comments so far. I'd have thought that KIK is the answer to any privacy concerns?"

Not a chance I'd download kik. Keep it on the site, Admin sort out issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who want to take it to other apps are usually scammers or just want wank chat.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I don't chat elsewhere. I meet socially, both 1on1 and at organised socials and clubs

If that's not good enough for people, then guess we aren't compatible.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We don’t do phone calls or video calls. As someone says super awkward. If someone doesn’t believe we are genuine then check our verifications. We usually get to a face to face social as quickly as possible so as not to waste time.

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

we play as singles and couples tho we use our couples profile the most we have over 30 years on the scene from before the big internet sites and to now been on fab since it opened and other sites before it and after it mrs does 99% of the chatting as its hers to control ie me being cuck .

we only use the tools the site provides we never use phones we never use social media or other apps we never use cams and we never give out oue email so its all done via pms and pics, it works we meet often could say very often compared to many other swingers we find it easy to do cant remember the last let down .

so theres no need for other ways to comuncate using fab correctly will get results by calling those who refuse to use apps/phones fake then you are going to miss out on a massive part of the scene.

dont forget the forums are tiny and alot dont meet or even swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t chat but any other means than fab. No video or voice calls. If we like the look of someone and they are interested in us we offer to meet them at a club.

Our verifications show we are not fakes. We just never feel the need to chat by other means outside of fab

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't do phonecalls or video chats ever and it has never hindered my ability to meet people. I've never been catfished or stood up so I know I'm doing something right and have no intention of changing that.

In the 8 years almost that I've been here I've yet to chat to any woman who would be interested in video chatting.

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare


"We don’t do phone calls or video calls. As someone says super awkward. If someone doesn’t believe we are genuine then check our verifications. We usually get to a face to face social as quickly as possible so as not to waste time.

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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would rather just meet. We will decide if we want to play together in the first 10 seconds of being face to face, drawn out messaging and video chats doesn't change any of that. If they don't show or are miles from their profile pictures then it's their hard luck, we will just fuck each other or go for some cake.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm happy to chat on the phone. I like voices and conversations flow better.

I only move chat onto other platforms for simplicity once I've met someone as keeping in touch is much easier.

Like many above, I like a social to get to know someone better before anything else may happen, whether that's same day/night or at a later time.

Anyone trying to jump ship to an external chat app straight away is a massive red flag and it generally happens with profiles I'd be suspicious of anyway. They soon move on when I decline.

I've been around long enough to spot potentially dodgy profiles and if anyone thought I was anything other than me then that's on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to meet for a social, it's better to gauge someone In person. Trying to arrange it is when you normally find out their true colours.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

reluctant to give my phone number these days. people rarely meet and prefer to only get in touch when they down and moaning about someone else.

like others have said you can message here or cam in chat. can use something like kik where they dont get your number but again they mostly disappear and go nowhere

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I am very unlikely to give my phone number to a stranger, but I will meet a stranger!

I may or may not share my number after meeting someone.

Gbat

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