FabSwingers.com forum: Stood up twice

By *un before OP Man
over a year ago

london colney

Ok no. It everyone cup of tea , but they did chasing and I went along with and was the one stood by a couple and single lady

Know won’t get sympathy but if this new game I had my go

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Were they verified op?

Some couples and women are actually men pretending be someone else.

Nobody deserves standing up,sorry you had that. Please report the profiles to admin.

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By *un before OP Man
over a year ago

london colney

"Were they verified op?

Some couples and women are actually men pretending be someone else.

Nobody deserves standing up,sorry you had that. Please report the profiles to admin. "

One new so no verification ; am lacking them myself ) one ye# had verifications

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Ok no. It everyone cup of tea , but they did chasing and I went along with and was the one stood by a couple and single lady

Know won’t get sympathy but if this new game I had my go "

I've been stood up numerous times it really sucks, but the way to look at it is its their loss x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Sorry to hear you've been stood up twice. As has been said report the profiles.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I think most of us have been stood up at least one. It’s never pleasant but, you just have to pick yourself back up and don’t let it crush you.

3rd time lucky

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Definitely not right. Report it. There's a specific option for that behaviour.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

report, block, move on.

its all you can do

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Learn from it, especially if they had red flags that you ignored. Change strategy, if relevant. Report always. Don't get into sex chat or sending lots of pics off-site.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Shit happens...grow up... No veris... Good night

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

Had the same.

Two couples made the first contact,

Then just as we were sorting when and where. Radio silence.

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By *un before OP Man
over a year ago

london colney

"Had the same.

Two couples made the first contact,

Then just as we were sorting when and where. Radio silence.

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I new game for some one

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By *un before OP Man
over a year ago

london colney

"Were they verified op?

Some couples and women are actually men pretending be someone else.

Nobody deserves standing up,sorry you had that. Please report the profiles to admin. "

Just a new game some are enjoying , only up side didn’t , waste time buying drink in pub only to see her snog someone else

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Been there, got the t shirt…. Even been what I thought was outside someone’s house then been blocked ..

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By *ad_buddiesCouple
over a year ago

London

Think we've all been sat waiting like a lemon for someone that hasn't bothered to show, or even bothered to let you know.

It's not right but we've learned to give a set amount of time after the arranged time, then just go off and do something on our own.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

If you’ve done your due diligence that’s all you can do really,

I was contacted by a couple Thursday he was 60 she was 27, and reverse search showed she was a Spanish model !

I Didn’t let on for ages but then suggested we go for a tapas and then a siesta, and other Spanish related comments.

Went to work and he’d left fab, won’t say they left as she was obviously in his imagination

Onwards and upwards

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By *ibLeiMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If you’ve done your due diligence that’s all you can do really,

I was contacted by a couple Thursday he was 60 she was 27, and reverse search showed she was a Spanish model !

Out of curiosity: did they have verifications? I’m asking because it’s mind boggling the number of couple profiles that have verifications (sometimes north of 10), and yet use pictures that clearly aren’t theirs (Google reverse image search FTW).

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"If you’ve done your due diligence that’s all you can do really,

I was contacted by a couple Thursday he was 60 she was 27, and reverse search showed she was a Spanish model !

This one didn’t only joined the same day

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By *yeSureMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If you’ve done your due diligence that’s all you can do really,

I was contacted by a couple Thursday he was 60 she was 27, and reverse search showed she was a Spanish model

I wouldn't rely on verifications as being the panacea here. Have a look at the New Couples, New Women, New Men search options and see how many are verified within minutes of joining!!!

You unfortunately need to look out for lots of things and use instinct. And even at that, it's still not perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit happens...grow up... No veris... Good night

Well done pal, hope you feel like a big man now.

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By *ibLeiMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If you’ve done your due diligence that’s all you can do really,

I was contacted by a couple Thursday he was 60 she was 27, and reverse search showed she was a Spanish model

I wouldn't rely on verifications as being the panacea here. Have a look at the New Couples, New Women, New Men search options and see how many are verified within minutes of joining!!!

You unfortunately need to look out for lots of things and use instinct. And even at that, it's still not perfect. "

Yeah, a lot of (new) profiles are such obvious fakes. Pictures snatched from the internet + as you said: verifications dropping within the first hour

not publishing verifications is also a big red flag.

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By *un before OP Man
51 weeks ago

london colney

So. Any fake couple. But

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"So. Any fake couple. But "

Eh?

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By *un before OP Man
51 weeks ago

london colney

Sorry got bored half way through , realised only repeating myself about fake couples and it single males like myself that get slagged off , bu5 I’m unlike most males on here am a polite perv and respectful in chat and when I message other , don’t do any good but o well

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By *aughtynottsCouple
51 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

It's happened to us fairly often more recenlty, this site isnt as reliable as it used to be: despite arranging with someone with good verifications, 16 years of experience and a pretty good judge of character we still get let down.

My only explanation is sometimes people just like to talk about it with no intention of going through with anything.

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