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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning all

Dont really wanna moan but just wondered if anyone else had come across this before unreasonable requests from meets.

So I'm chatting to a couple who send me an email list of demands for a meet.....

1 - i must pay for a hotel hubby doesnt want to pay half for his own wife

2 - i need to supply the condoms, lube and a bottle of wine

3 - they will have a chat first and if they like me i can join in if not i can watch if i want too (weve cammed and spoke on the phone several times)

4 - they are travelling around 8 miles so want me to cough up for petrol

5 - they will ring me an hour prior to a meet

I'm not one to moan but im thinking they reckon every single guy must be that desperate for a s##g they will do anything.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It depends how much you need to have sex... if it matches the demands, go for it.

I personally would say a polite 'No thank you' and wish them well....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just replied sorry but no and removed from friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all

Dont really wanna moan but just wondered if anyone else had come across this before unreasonable requests from meets.

So I'm chatting to a couple who send me an email list of demands for a meet.....

1 - i must pay for a hotel hubby doesnt want to pay half for his own wife

2 - i need to supply the condoms, lube and a bottle of wine

3 - they will have a chat first and if they like me i can join in if not i can watch if i want too (weve cammed and spoke on the phone several times)

4 - they are travelling around 8 miles so want me to cough up for petrol

5 - they will ring me an hour prior to a meet

I'm not one to moan but im thinking they reckon every single guy must be that desperate for a s##g they will do anything."

Think I'd have told them where they could shove it!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Agree with above...........

No thanx............50/50 or nothing!!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Just replied sorry but no and removed from friends list"

Don't blame you - talk about taking the p#*s!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im all for treating a lady but usually a gf not a meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to them I'd say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had those sorts of demands before. I politely declined their "offer", though on one occasion I paid for a hotel room. They asked if they could stay in the room after the meet, as they wanted a break from homelife etc . I said of course. The hotel called the next day asking if I got the refund ok. Apparently the couple left just after me, checking out, saying the room was unsuitable, asking for a cash refund...

Upto you though if you accept their demands x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are idiots and will actually fall for that crap.

Glad you declined,and serves them right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell them to jog on....there are plenty of couples who are willing to go 50/50. I can understand providing your own condoms as yours might fit you better etc but the rest? nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see the hotel in question did not give out cash refund when requested.

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By *ervySmurfMan
over a year ago

Deutchland

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

If I were you I would travel 8 mles in the oppersite direction lol

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By *ervySmurfMan
over a year ago

Deutchland

"Just replied sorry but no and removed from friends list"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sad thing is there probably are people who have been willing to jump through all those hoops just to have sex. Think you definitely made the right call.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I take my own as a safety rule but i dont mind going halves on things i just felt abit put out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all

Dont really wanna moan but just wondered if anyone else had come across this before unreasonable requests from meets.

So I'm chatting to a couple who send me an email list of demands for a meet.....

1 - i must pay for a hotel hubby doesnt want to pay half for his own wife

2 - i need to supply the condoms, lube and a bottle of wine

3 - they will have a chat first and if they like me i can join in if not i can watch if i want too (weve cammed and spoke on the phone several times)

4 - they are travelling around 8 miles so want me to cough up for petrol

5 - they will ring me an hour prior to a meet

I'm not one to moan but im thinking they reckon every single guy must be that desperate for a s##g they will do anything."

we expect guys to provide their own condoms and can supply wine if they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a chance -

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By *imal75Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Now thats taking this piss!!! Glad you told them to stick it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good to see the hotel in question did not give out cash refund when requested.

Put me off meeting though for a while. People can be devious little twats lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would have sent a Polite "no thanks" to that. They are clearly taking the piss and know they can get away with it due to the leagues of desperate men on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

They were asking you to pay in kind for sex and clearly don't mind being prostitute and pimp, you were wise to walk away. We provide our own condoms because I'm allergic to latex and we know our own are in date etc but apart from that we try to ensure that no one pays more than anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good to see the hotel in question did not give out cash refund when requested.

Put me off meeting though for a while. People can be devious little twats lol"

May be I should try that, as in ask for a refund when I leave the budget hotel after a few hours, citing it being not suitable, blah, blah, blah.

JOKE!!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Just replied sorry but no and removed from friends list"

Good on you!! They aren't travelling far and therefore should split room costs. I think some couples/singles on here think they can get away with anything so well don't for telling them no!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I've had those sorts of demands before. I politely declined their "offer", though on one occasion I paid for a hotel room. They asked if they could stay in the room after the meet, as they wanted a break from homelife etc . I said of course. The hotel called the next day asking if I got the refund ok. Apparently the couple left just after me, checking out, saying the room was unsuitable, asking for a cash refund...

Upto you though if you accept their demands x"

Wow... Sneaky feckers!! Glad they didn't get it. Did you?? X

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I agree some of these are unreasonable however:-

1. Are you using the hotel room for the rest of the night ? If so why not pay for it and have it as a night away. If you are not using the room after the meet i agree go 50/50. If they are staying in the room and you leaving (clearly not in this case), they should pay.

2. i prefer to bring my own condoms anyway, find some are better than others, as for wine.... bring a bottle each.

3. This i cant understand, surely the three of you know plenty about each other by now, but when you meet in person who knows, you may find you dont like them enough to play. As a single you (and I) dont need to chat to be sure, maybe they do !

4. This is just cheap, 8 miles ffs is nothing.

5. A call an hour before is useful to make sure there have been no last minute problems, better than them just not arriving.

I suppose we all have different ideas on what we will an wont do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we wanted to meet in a hotel we'd pay for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking the piss here i think.

Any arrangements should always be to everyones mutual agreement.

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

"Morning all

Dont really wanna moan but just wondered if anyone else had come across this before unreasonable requests from meets.

So I'm chatting to a couple who send me an email list of demands for a meet.....

1 - i must pay for a hotel hubby doesnt want to pay half for his own wife

2 - i need to supply the condoms, lube and a bottle of wine

3 - they will have a chat first and if they like me i can join in if not i can watch if i want too (weve cammed and spoke on the phone several times)

4 - they are travelling around 8 miles so want me to cough up for petrol

5 - they will ring me an hour prior to a meet

I'm not one to moan but im thinking they reckon every single guy must be that desperate for a s##g they will do anything."
I wouldn't even bother mate. I feel that if I am meeting people the cost of the hotel/room should be split 50/50. And always when I have boked a room it has actually been split both ways. It is only fair as you are all using the room for the exact same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad thing is there are enough people that will jump through all those hoops and more. And enough people that think it is acceptable to make those sort of demands.

You definately did the right thing in telling them where to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can demand all they like, its up to you whether you accept their demands, and many will. I just wouldn't reply to it.

I don't supply guys with condoms though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You could have taken a small bottle of petrol and given that to them for their 16 miles of effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been thinking some more about this - we would never make such demands but if we did and a guy succumbed id then be thinking what a fool or hes desperate - in turn making me feel pretty shit about myself - not sure ive worded that very well but i know what i mean

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If you're that desperate for sex you will jump through all those hoops then I cant really say anything to you.

Tell them to get bent, feel the joy of getting a big + to self respect and find a couple that arent a bunch of piss taking jokers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More instructions than a Ikea flat pack? Only one thing I say "No thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all

Dont really wanna moan but just wondered if anyone else had come across this before unreasonable requests from meets.

So I'm chatting to a couple who send me an email list of demands for a meet.....

1 - i must pay for a hotel hubby doesnt want to pay half for his own wife

2 - i need to supply the condoms, lube and a bottle of wine

3 - they will have a chat first and if they like me i can join in if not i can watch if i want too (weve cammed and spoke on the phone several times)

4 - they are travelling around 8 miles so want me to cough up for petrol

5 - they will ring me an hour prior to a meet

I'm not one to moan but im thinking they reckon every single guy must be that desperate for a s##g they will do anything."

Might as well buy an escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u think its worth it go for it, however we would not expect u to pay for all the costs, we did have one guy offered to travel to us and cover all costs, he was either desperate or had plenty of money?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if u think its worth it go for it, however we would not expect u to pay for all the costs, we did have one guy offered to travel to us and cover all costs, he was either desperate or had plenty of money?"

Maybe both lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh sounds like you got off lightly!

Me I demand a chauffeur drive limousine to collect me and take me to the hotel, I demand caviar when I arrive with champagne of course and then once I have enjoyed it I might talk to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gosh sounds like you got off lightly!

Me I demand a chauffeur drive limousine to collect me and take me to the hotel, I demand caviar when I arrive with champagne of course and then once I have enjoyed it I might talk to you

How about a diamond ring and a gold plated dildo lol

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I agree with most of the postings on here, the hotel one i find more difficult.

I have travelled to meets some distance from where i live and i always book a hotel.

i pay for the hotel room because i am using it, if the person / people i am meeting use their home then thats fine but if they want to come to my hotel room and play before going home and leaving me there thats cool.

what i wont do is book and pay for a hotel room for us to play and then me leave them there.

one of my best meets ever was a hotel between my place and theirs, i paid for my room, they paid for theirs and we spent a weekend with the bar pool steamroom etc etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow... Sneaky feckers!! Glad they didn't get it. Did you?? X "

I got my card refunded, and learnt a lesson lol

Now when I book a room, I stay in it!

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

"Morning all

Dont really wanna moan but just wondered if anyone else had come across this before unreasonable requests from meets.

So I'm chatting to a couple who send me an email list of demands for a meet.....

1 - i must pay for a hotel hubby doesnt want to pay half for his own wife

2 - i need to supply the condoms, lube and a bottle of wine

3 - they will have a chat first and if they like me i can join in if not i can watch if i want too (weve cammed and spoke on the phone several times)

4 - they are travelling around 8 miles so want me to cough up for petrol

5 - they will ring me an hour prior to a meet

I'm not one to moan but im thinking they reckon every single guy must be that desperate for a s##g they will do anything.

Think I'd have told them where they could shove it! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not invite peeps back to mine to play, and am prepared to cough up for a room at the local budget hotel to meet for fun and frolics, and do not expect the gent to share the cost, as I have budgeted for it in my monthly budget.

I do not expect the gent to stay the night, and I may head home myself for the night, and leave him to stay in the room should he decide to stay the night rather than to drive home when late and/or tired.

Having lived on my own for so long, I find it difficult to share a bed with anyone except for furry animals that are my pets.

All these are stipulated prior to the meet to avoid any mis-understanding.

As for condoms, I always carry and supply non latex ones, as I don't like the smell and taste of latex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point 1 - It depends on who wants to meet in an Hotel, it both parties than 50/50. If you said lets meet in an hotel you should pay 100% and visa versa

point 2 - yes you should supply your own condoms and all parties should bring drink

point 3 - sort of agree that there should never be any pressure for sex to take place, it does not matter how much you have chatted before - but it should be all or nothing saying you could watch is an insult. if your are paying for the hotel and they dont want to play then they should give you half of the cost.

Point 4 of course they should pay for their own petrol

Point 5 an hour is not long enough notice to cancel the meet unless for something urgent

S&S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually offer to bring drinks and some nibbles along to the hotel room.

Hence I normally take 2 trolley cases, one is my normal away day kit, and the other my play kit with food and drinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all

Dont really wanna moan but just wondered if anyone else had come across this before unreasonable requests from meets.

So I'm chatting to a couple who send me an email list of demands for a meet.....

1 - i must pay for a hotel hubby doesnt want to pay half for his own wife

2 - i need to supply the condoms, lube and a bottle of wine

3 - they will have a chat first and if they like me i can join in if not i can watch if i want too (weve cammed and spoke on the phone several times)

4 - they are travelling around 8 miles so want me to cough up for petrol

5 - they will ring me an hour prior to a meet

I'm not one to moan but im thinking they reckon every single guy must be that desperate for a s##g they will do anything."

they sound a bit stingy to me!asking u to pay for petrol is just being mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with most of the postings on here, the hotel one i find more difficult.

I have travelled to meets some distance from where i live and i always book a hotel.

what i wont do is book and pay for a hotel room for us to play and then me leave them there.

one of my best meets ever was a hotel between my place and theirs, i paid for my room, they paid for theirs and we spent a weekend with the bar pool steamroom etc etc....

This!

Although I must confess - most of the time I'm staying away on work so not really paying for it myself !

But if I'm ever doing the bulk of the travel I'm happy to pay - after all - I get to roll over and sleep while they've a late night/early morning drive home!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Sad thing is I'm sure there are people reading this who have jumped through more complex hoops for the promise of a shag.

Thing is people can ask for what they like, doesn't mean they're going to get it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id pay for the hotel if it was my asking, 50 50 on it being mutually convenient... but never expect the otger party to pay 100%

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

No. I'd have said no thanks and seriously considered a block.

I expect to pay my own fuel and will pay for half a hotel, maybe wine too, but that's it.

Sounds like they wanted a 'stunt cock' and not a single bloke

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Morning all

Dont really wanna moan but just wondered if anyone else had come across this before unreasonable requests from meets.

So I'm chatting to a couple who send me an email list of demands for a meet.....

1 - i must pay for a hotel hubby doesnt want to pay half for his own wife

2 - i need to supply the condoms, lube and a bottle of wine

3 - they will have a chat first and if they like me i can join in if not i can watch if i want too (weve cammed and spoke on the phone several times)

4 - they are travelling around 8 miles so want me to cough up for petrol

5 - they will ring me an hour prior to a meet

I'm not one to moan but im thinking they reckon every single guy must be that desperate for a s##g they will do anything."

They are taking the Michael. Anybody who bows down to those demands is a mug. I hope you told them to get stuffed.

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