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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One suggests an equal interest in either gender. One says ‘ya just wanna find out’. What if you sit in the middle? Can we have ‘bi playful’ or ‘bi carried away’?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

You are either bi or You're not.

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By *our TV fantasyTV/TS
over a year ago

Waterloo, Liverpool


"You are either bi or You're not."

So a non-binary sexuality can only be binary?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are either bi or You're not."

I think that is the choice of the individual to define their sexuality, no? I describe myself as ‘straight’ because I much prefer men. But I am certainly not curious, because I already know I like it, sometimes.

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By *ove2watchMan
over a year ago

weymouth

In my opinion everyone's bi... Some people simply aren't lucky in live to meet same gender... In a right situation everyone would gave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my opinion everyone's bi... Some people simply aren't lucky in live to meet same gender... In a right situation everyone would gave"

Erm, what?

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

Re the "bi-curious"

We are straight and ideally prefer to know where people stand. I've never seen/read so many bi curisous profiles and often the response I get but not always is something like they are curious by not bi - that leaves me more confused - but its a free world, so their choice

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I’m bi-curious in our relationship

Curious at just how bi Mrs WW really is

(She’s enjoying the ladies)

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"You are either bi or You're not."

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Sure, anyone is either something or is not, according to any version of the definition of "something". Let's hear your universal, unequivocal and unabated definition of Bi (missed it when we completed our profile).

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"One suggests an equal interest in either gender. One says ‘ya just wanna find out’. What if you sit in the middle? Can we have ‘bi playful’ or ‘bi carried away’? "

You could put in your profile bi-playful, bi-selfish, or the best way to describe yourselves.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I've never been in a situation to find out

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

To bi or not to bi that is the question.....

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"In my opinion everyone's bi... Some people simply aren't lucky in live to meet same gender... In a right situation everyone would gave"

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In the 52 years of my life, I have never been attracted to a male. Never looked at any and thought " what if", or "how would it feel". Never had an erection looking at or thinking or fantasising about a male. And you are telling me that you know better than me about myself and no matter what I feel (and my cock feels) I must like men because you say so? And this based on what? Your own personal experiences of discovering your sexuality and assuming everyone must be like you because you are bi?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my opinion everyone's bi... Some people simply aren't lucky in live to meet same gender... In a right situation everyone would gave

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In the 52 years of my life, I have never been attracted to a male. Never looked at any and thought " what if", or "how would it feel". Never had an erection looking at or thinking or fantasising about a male. And you are telling me that you know better than me about myself and no matter what I feel (and my cock feels) I must like men because you say so? And this based on what? Your own personal experiences of discovering your sexuality and assuming everyone must be like you because you are bi?"

Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One suggests an equal interest in either gender. One says ‘ya just wanna find out’. What if you sit in the middle? Can we have ‘bi playful’ or ‘bi carried away’?

You could put in your profile bi-playful, bi-selfish, or the best way to describe yourselves."

‘Bi selfish’ for the win

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Fully bi.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"You are either bi or You're not."

Ok, but there's being equally 50:50 into both men and women, and there's, for example, a 95:5 ratio where you enjoy one sex the majority of the time but enjoy a little experiment now and again.

Don't think it's a bad idea being able to distinguish between the two.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fully bi. "

Not what I was asking though.

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"You are either bi or You're not."

Sexuality doesn’t work like that. By all means you can apply that thinking to yourself but you can’t define other people’s sexuality/sexual interests for them.

C x

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Some people are able to fully understand their sexuality, I’m Pansexual and I understand that and I’m open about it. For others, when it comes to swinging it’s more about what turns them on and what they enjoy in the moment - that doesn’t necessarily have to define their sexuality. As long as that person understands what they are and aren’t in to, it isn’t for anyone else to tell them what they are. Bi playful is absolutely something many people identify as. They aren’t bicurious because they’ve experienced it and they know they enjoy it but they don’t think of themselves as being bisexual. And that’s absolutely fine.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe I’m bi curious. I don’t fancy men, I have never seen a man and thought phwooar, I would love to kiss him, fuck him, cuddle him. I am attracted to playing with cocks, just can’t help it, it’s an urge, the man that it’s attached to isn’t the attraction to me, it’s more the act, than the person. Not sure if that makes sense, but it does to me.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Bi is bi... Sex is sex .. but a relationship is with the person .. i think xx

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought "

Exactly and go from there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people are able to fully understand their sexuality, I’m Pansexual and I understand that and I’m open about it. For others, when it comes to swinging it’s more about what turns them on and what they enjoy in the moment - that doesn’t necessarily have to define their sexuality. As long as that person understands what they are and aren’t in to, it isn’t for anyone else to tell them what they are. Bi playful is absolutely something many people identify as. They aren’t bicurious because they’ve experienced it and they know they enjoy it but they don’t think of themselves as being bisexual. And that’s absolutely fine.

C x"

Thank you for this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought "

Simply because Fab gives you the two options.

And I don’t enjoy sex in all its forms; 69, or in water- nah!

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought

Simply because Fab gives you the two options.

And I don’t enjoy sex in all its forms; 69, or in water- nah! "

And another comment from someone with no verifications..

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"One suggests an equal interest in either gender. One says ‘ya just wanna find out’. What if you sit in the middle? Can we have ‘bi playful’ or ‘bi carried away’? "

Of course you can. Being bi is about enjoying the sensual pleasure of both sexes, intimately, sensually, passionately, or playfully.

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By *azor-sharpMan
over a year ago

Teesside

I would live to play with both a man and a woman at the same time.

I class myself as curious as I’ve not had much experience but perhaps that is my fault lol

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By *ayboii2018_12Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

There's so much about sexuality we don't know. Everyone is different. Everyone likes what they like. I'm gay but I can look at woman and think she's beautiful but not in a sexual way. I can appreciate a woman's beauty in a different way.

But then ill have straight men message me? Whether it's pure frustration on here or they are curious but aren't open about it I'm not sure.

I just have an open, non judg attitude. Just play safe x

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By *ecretSilverlinkMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought "

Agreed

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought

Simply because Fab gives you the two options.

And I don’t enjoy sex in all its forms; 69, or in water- nah! "

Personally I like the term heteexible for those of us that are 'situationally bi'

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"You are either bi or You're not."

I don't think it's that simple.

If you try something once or twice, you are nothing more or less what you were before.

You might even like something you don't need a man to do it.

So technically you're not attracted to the same sex.

I set my profile to bi, but I like only one thing and I don't need a man for it.

Actually I would do that exclusively with women only, but...

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By *one swap cplCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *one swap cplCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Go with the flow

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

The difference between bisexual and bicurious is that bisexual people know that they are sexually attracted to both genders based on personal experience.

Bicurious people are still maneuvering their way through their sexuality and not made the leap to try it for whatever reason such not having the opportunity or afraid of trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe I’m bi curious. I don’t fancy men, I have never seen a man and thought phwooar, I would love to kiss him, fuck him, cuddle him. I am attracted to playing with cocks, just can’t help it, it’s an urge, the man that it’s attached to isn’t the attraction to me, it’s more the act, than the person. Not sure if that makes sense, but it does to me. "

Yes , that's me and a lot of guys I meet are married bi guys who enjoy cock but don't fancy men romantically at all. I've discussed this a lot and generally they would like sex with women but their wives aren't interested anymore and found it impossible to meet women on swinger sites. They realise they can get pleasure sucking cock or being sucked by another guy and fucking mens arses can be as pleasurable as fucking a pussy and other bi men are easier to hook up with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very bi curious of late and haven’t yet acted on it,but keen to explore

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"Some people are able to fully understand their sexuality, I’m Pansexual and I understand that and I’m open about it. For others, when it comes to swinging it’s more about what turns them on and what they enjoy in the moment - that doesn’t necessarily have to define their sexuality. As long as that person understands what they are and aren’t in to, it isn’t for anyone else to tell them what they are. Bi playful is absolutely something many people identify as. They aren’t bicurious because they’ve experienced it and they know they enjoy it but they don’t think of themselves as being bisexual. And that’s absolutely fine.

C x"

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Awesome reply. Totally agree. This is what Bi-playful means for Mr and Mrs Arpeggio: people who are at ease with playing with the same gender, without necessarily feeling an erotic attraction to them.

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought

Simply because Fab gives you the two options.

And I don’t enjoy sex in all its forms; 69, or in water- nah!

Personally I like the term heteexible for those of us that are 'situationally bi' "

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put bi-curious because if in a mmf situation I wanted any potential couple to know that I'm comfortable being around another guy, naked, and with the possibility there would be physical contact.

I guess I should change to bisexual seeing I've also joined fabguys and met a guy and he sucked me off.

But I don't like labels. Predominantly women are my choice of intimate partner, so don't consider I'm fully bi but still just curious.

Perhaps there needs to be a new category...bi-casual?

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

I'm not romantically attracted to men like I am with women. But I enjoy sucking cock and fucking guys during mmf 3sums. So I'm definitely bi and not just curious

But it's entirely up to you to describe where you sit on the spectrum

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By *outhboyMan
over a year ago

derry

Bi top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between bisexual and bicurious is that bisexual people know that they are sexually attracted to both genders based on personal experience.

Bicurious people are still maneuvering their way through their sexuality and not made the leap to try it for whatever reason such not having the opportunity or afraid of trying."

In honesty don’t think it’s that simple.

I’ve spent a couple of years trying to work out what I am only to conclude that labels don’t work.

I don’t find men attractive at all, but I have experienced and enjoyed time with transexuals.

I’d love to try mmf because the dynamic wouldn’t be fun.

I’d class myself as open and experimental, but there isn’t a box for that

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"I believe I’m bi curious. I don’t fancy men, I have never seen a man and thought phwooar, I would love to kiss him, fuck him, cuddle him. I am attracted to playing with cocks, just can’t help it, it’s an urge, the man that it’s attached to isn’t the attraction to me, it’s more the act, than the person. Not sure if that makes sense, but it does to me. "

Pretty much spot on for me. Can honestly say I've never fancied a man but quite happy to have my cock sucked and wanked by one and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought

Simply because Fab gives you the two options.

And I don’t enjoy sex in all its forms; 69, or in water- nah!

And another comment from someone with no verifications.. "

And this prohibits me from using the forums? Why do you feel it is and of your business how I choose to handle my verifications?

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By *our TV fantasyTV/TS
over a year ago

Waterloo, Liverpool


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought

Simply because Fab gives you the two options.

And I don’t enjoy sex in all its forms; 69, or in water- nah!

And another comment from someone with no verifications..

And this prohibits me from using the forums? Why do you feel it is and of your business how I choose to handle my verifications? "

If you use the forums and your freedom of speech to say how you think others should complete their profile don't be in the least surprised when someone else does exactly the same.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought

Simply because Fab gives you the two options.

And I don’t enjoy sex in all its forms; 69, or in water- nah!

And another comment from someone with no verifications.. "

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If anyone has a right to comment on a thread, it surely is the OP. I do not see a blue Moderator label next to your profile, so I found your disregard of the OP comment simply based on their verification status as cancelling and totally out of place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought

Simply because Fab gives you the two options.

And I don’t enjoy sex in all its forms; 69, or in water- nah!

And another comment from someone with no verifications..

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If anyone has a right to comment on a thread, it surely is the OP. I do not see a blue Moderator label next to your profile, so I found your disregard of the OP comment simply based on their verification status as cancelling and totally out of place."

It is hard to be on fab as an ‘inexperienced fabber’. Thanks to some lovely people who helped me to find my way around, and who we will meet up with and have lovely times. No thanks to the arseholes. I already have one of those in my knickers, I don’t need another.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"I put bi-curious because if in a mmf situation I wanted any potential couple to know that I'm comfortable being around another guy, naked, and with the possibility there would be physical contact.

I guess I should change to bisexual seeing I've also joined fabguys and met a guy and he sucked me off.

But I don't like labels. Predominantly women are my choice of intimate partner, so don't consider I'm fully bi but still just curious.

Perhaps there needs to be a new category...bi-casual? "

There is actually a better category.

Heteexible. More than bi curious, but not fully bi.

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By *harleyPMan
over a year ago

Bucks

My bi-side has developed over time

Considered myself 100% straight until first MMF encounter with a couple when husband started to play with my cock. I found the interaction so exciting and started to explore more after that meet. Watched gay porn and found myself getting really excited by the thought of sucking and being sucked. I am not interested in meeting men alone but in an MMF situation I can really let loose with another man. MMF is now my preferred meet and there is nothing more exciting than that in my opinion .!

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"I put bi-curious because if in a mmf situation I wanted any potential couple to know that I'm comfortable being around another guy, naked, and with the possibility there would be physical contact.

I guess I should change to bisexual seeing I've also joined fabguys and met a guy and he sucked me off.

But I don't like labels. Predominantly women are my choice of intimate partner, so don't consider I'm fully bi but still just curious.

Perhaps there needs to be a new category...bi-casual?

There is actually a better category.

Heteexible. More than bi curious, but not fully bi."

*Hetero-Flexible

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"One suggests an equal interest in either gender. One says ‘ya just wanna find out’. What if you sit in the middle? Can we have ‘bi playful’ or ‘bi carried away’? "

As a straight woman I agree that would be useful, I'm half a couple and even women in couples with claim to be straight, but then aren't always.

I think there's definitely a sexual spectrum from straight to curious to full bisexual or gay.

I get the impression some still find it shameful to admit they're bi though, so a Bi playful would be a good box to trick on a profile.

There is somewhat of an expectation that women aren't straight on here, until its proven otherwise. I feel some of it is down to people not always being upfront about their sexuality ie staying straight but then having pics of ladies playing with other ladies.

More options may mean a bit more transparency & I know people don't like labels, but they can be important and mean honest boundaries can be set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put bi-curious because if in a mmf situation I wanted any potential couple to know that I'm comfortable being around another guy, naked, and with the possibility there would be physical contact.

I guess I should change to bisexual seeing I've also joined fabguys and met a guy and he sucked me off.

But I don't like labels. Predominantly women are my choice of intimate partner, so don't consider I'm fully bi but still just curious.

Perhaps there needs to be a new category...bi-casual?

There is actually a better category.

Heteexible. More than bi curious, but not fully bi.

*Hetero-Flexible"

I did wonder what the smiley face meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between bisexual and bicurious is that bisexual people know that they are sexually attracted to both genders based on personal experience.

Bicurious people are still maneuvering their way through their sexuality and not made the leap to try it for whatever reason such not having the opportunity or afraid of trying."

I think this more or less describes me. I class myself as bi curious as I have played orally and love it just not gone further yet. I'm in the camp of not fancying men but do enjoy playing with a cock

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Some people are able to fully understand their sexuality, I’m Pansexual and I understand that and I’m open about it. For others, when it comes to swinging it’s more about what turns them on and what they enjoy in the moment - that doesn’t necessarily have to define their sexuality. As long as that person understands what they are and aren’t in to, it isn’t for anyone else to tell them what they are. Bi playful is absolutely something many people identify as. They aren’t bicurious because they’ve experienced it and they know they enjoy it but they don’t think of themselves as being bisexual. And that’s absolutely fine.

C x

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Awesome reply. Totally agree. This is what Bi-playful means for Mr and Mrs Arpeggio: people who are at ease with playing with the same gender, without necessarily feeling an erotic attraction to them."

I’m very fortunate in that I’ve always known I wasn’t straight, I understood it from a young age and had no issues or conflict about it. It isn’t that simple for everyone though. And some men just really like playing with a cock! I can’t say I blame them, they’re pretty damn awesome!

C x

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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"One suggests an equal interest in either gender. One says ‘ya just wanna find out’. What if you sit in the middle? Can we have ‘bi playful’ or ‘bi carried away’? "

I started out as bi-curious and would say I went to heteexible.

But after a couple of MMF I am definitely bisexual orally, and having been pegged by Ouizzi I'm intrigued by the thought of anal.

I suppose it's a sliding scale of sexuality.

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Sweet refers to me as bi-enthusiastic

Juicy x

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"Sweet refers to me as bi-enthusiastic

Juicy x"

I really like that term.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

I just enjoy sex and enjoy it especially if I find I have a great connection with someone.

I don't need a label for me or for anyone else.

I do what feels good and hope the other/ others will do the same and enjoy themselves.

I've lost people around me in life very young and very suddenly , so I know to just enjoy life and everything that you can when you can .

I find it very sad that people can be so judgemental over sex.

Just Enjoy.

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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I believe I’m bi curious. I don’t fancy men, I have never seen a man and thought phwooar, I would love to kiss him, fuck him, cuddle him. I am attracted to playing with cocks, just can’t help it, it’s an urge, the man that it’s attached to isn’t the attraction to me, it’s more the act, than the person. Not sure if that makes sense, but it does to me. "

Mr here, this is me. I'm exactly the same

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I'm attracted to whomever I'm attracted to, irrelevant of the gender. Hence the reason I ID as bi.

That doesn't necessarily mean that because I fuck one person, that I want to fuck everyone of that gender.

Im more attracted to women than men generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are either bi or You're not.

I think that is the choice of the individual to define their sexuality, no? I describe myself as ‘straight’ because I much prefer men. But I am certainly not curious, because I already know I like it, sometimes. "

That's not straight though is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One suggests an equal interest in either gender. One says ‘ya just wanna find out’. What if you sit in the middle? Can we have ‘bi playful’ or ‘bi carried away’? "

Should just delete the sexuality tick box. 'Looking for' covers it.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"You are either bi or You're not."

Except on fab, where you’re ‘straight’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are either bi or You're not.

Except on fab, where you’re ‘straight’."

Lol oh yes. I've played with a few str8.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be whatever you wanna be.

Rules are for squares

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"You are either bi or You're not.

Except on fab, where you’re ‘straight’."

Exactly.

You would not believe the amount of messages that I get from straight profiles or from men from their straight couples profile.

Or maybe you would actually.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

I really do not understand why anyone wants a label.

Just do what makes you feel good.

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By *w214Couple
over a year ago

Wirral


"Maybe stop putting labels on it , and say ….. it’s sex I enjoy it in all its forms . Whoever you are ……. Just a thought "

Spot on!

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I think as far as fab labels go then there's 3 options straight . Curious or bisexual

So if I receive a message from a male profile that defined as straight then I have no interest. Equally their loss in this instance if they are comfortable sucking and or fucking cock

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"I really do not understand why anyone wants a label.

Just do what makes you feel good."

Labels are useful. You use the label Man for yourself and Bi-curious, I guess to make others know who you are and roughly what you are looking for and can offer to others, allowing for filtering. OP perhaps find that the 2 labels available for bi people could be improved to allow better filtering by them off others and by others of them.

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By *onnyABCMan
over a year ago

tain

Bisexual

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By *elshyXOMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

After reading this post I think my stance on it remains unchanged - labels are useful in the sense they convey the basics of your sexual identity but they dont convey the complexity.

As for myself im more likely closer to being pansexual than anything else but due to my limited same sex experiences I couldnt definitively say. Some days im more “gay” than others, it just depends on a host of things. I think so long as people respect both the fluidity of sexuality as well as your wishes, its all good.

In short, for me, labels are just an easy way to avoid being offensive rathee than a tool to catagorise someone

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