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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Single men on here generally fall into 3 types -

1) Dick pic brigade - seen em all

2) Silhouette - summat to hide

3) Wannabes - never play

Would just love to meet someone genuinely interested in the lifestyle and who understands that women generally know what a penis looks like

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

There are the odd exceptions

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By *assiieneilxMan
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme


"Single men on here generally fall into 3 types -

1) Dick pic brigade - seen em all

2) Silhouette - summat to hide

3) Wannabes - never play

Would just love to meet someone genuinely interested in the lifestyle and who understands that women generally know what a penis looks like "

I don’t think I fall into these categories

Perhaps

4) no one replies to my msgs (not that I’m complaining)

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

99.99.9% = zero chance

00.00.1% = maybe

thats how i see men on this site

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

I guess I’m in category 3) although not playing isn’t by choice lol

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

1. We get pigeon holed as we're single

2. Most block single men

3. Very few reply

4. You have to be hung like a horse

5. You have to be a modle

6. 90% of the time you get let down or stood up

7. Clubs price us out

8. If you try to actually chat normally messages stop

9. Distance is usually an issue

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"99.99.9% = zero chance

00.00.1% = maybe

thats how i see men on this site"

Prime example right here.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

OP it seems to me that all three of your groups are actually just the same big group.

If you are struggling to find people in the other group that you haven’t mentioned then maybe you need to change the way you look for them?

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Oh and most think cause a man is bi he's a social leper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a bit over generalisation.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"That's a bit over generalisation. "

Not really

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"Single men on here generally fall into 3 types -

1) Dick pic brigade - seen em all

2) Silhouette - summat to hide

3) Wannabes - never play

Would just love to meet someone genuinely interested in the lifestyle and who understands that women generally know what a penis looks like "

Some big dick pics on your profile.

Kettle/pot springs to mind!

Try to play nice and perhaps you’ll meet the right single guys.

Gbat

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

For our point of view as a couple I think what most guys don’t understand is that we are a very happily married couple with a very healthy happy sex life. Fab for us is an extra boost and not a necessity. No point meeting someone who is not 100% what we are looking for. I’d jump at the chance to meet a guy who is exactly what I’m looking for or more but ain’t no way in hell I’m gonna settle for something less than ideal just for the hell of it. Hubby is very average in all aspects so if I want average I’ve got unlimited sitting right next to me. For us and many couples we are looking for the extra wow and wild side to give the extra spark. Just because there’s 1000 guys all desperate and would literally fuck the first person who says yes doesn’t mean we owe anyone a pitty shag and women on here can and rightfully so afford to be picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt agree tbh. Yeah the dick pic thing can get tiresome for some but others like them...no profile pic, not always something to hide I've chatted to a few with none and they're pretty decent men. As for wannabes, not everyone is going to want to be with me, that's normal isnt it? I'd not automatically assume they are wannabes, they might just not want to play with me.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i really dont see the problem with dick pics on profiles it thier profiles to do as they wish within the rules of the site dont like the profile/pics then walk on by ...

i wont meet a guy without seeing a body pic that includes his dick after all that along with himself is what ill be playing with ... and yes a dick pic can put me off a meet..

im bi married a bi guy so bi guys is never a problem after being on this scene 30 years i can say most swinging couples are bi i know many str8 couples on here who play 100% bi in clubs so being bi is not a problem for most however being attracted to a guy is...

men mwill moan about everything rather than the real problems and thats is the % and they dont seem to ever factor in that sexual attraction along with personality is key to getting meets not being a ''good'' guy or the rest ruin it if no one is attracted to you then your not going to get a meet unless its with others who will fuck anything

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"For our point of view …. women on here can and rightfully so afford to be picky"

Absolutely!

But the OP wasn’t talking about couples and their position, she was talking about single guys and how she sees them. I think she’s wrong.

Gbat

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Single men on here generally fall into 3 types -

1) Dick pic brigade - seen em all

2) Silhouette - summat to hide

3) Wannabes - never play

Would just love to meet someone genuinely interested in the lifestyle and who understands that women generally know what a penis looks like "

I don't think I'm any of those three, though I'm sure there are some. Hard to understand why you can't meet what you are looking for when there are so many guys on here who are genuine as well as those who aren't.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Single men on here generally fall into 3 types -

1) Dick pic brigade - seen em all

2) Silhouette - summat to hide

3) Wannabes - never play

Would just love to meet someone genuinely interested in the lifestyle and who understands that women generally know what a penis looks like

I don't think I'm any of those three, though I'm sure there are some. Hard to understand why you can't meet what you are looking for when there are so many guys on here who are genuine as well as those who aren't."

being genuine wont get you meets being sexually attractive to someone whos looking will get you to the chatting stage at least tho most will fail at the chatting stage

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"Single men on here generally fall into 3 types -

1) Dick pic brigade - seen em all

2) Silhouette - summat to hide

3) Wannabes - never play

Would just love to meet someone genuinely interested in the lifestyle and who understands that women generally know what a penis looks like

I don't think I'm any of those three, though I'm sure there are some. Hard to understand why you can't meet what you are looking for when there are so many guys on here who are genuine as well as those who aren't.

being genuine wont get you meets being sexually attractive to someone whos looking will get you to the chatting stage at least tho most will fail at the chatting stage "

That's if they can be bothered to chat to you in the first place.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Single men on here generally fall into 3 types -

1) Dick pic brigade - seen em all

2) Silhouette - summat to hide

3) Wannabes - never play

Would just love to meet someone genuinely interested in the lifestyle and who understands that women generally know what a penis looks like

I don't think I'm any of those three, though I'm sure there are some. Hard to understand why you can't meet what you are looking for when there are so many guys on here who are genuine as well as those who aren't.

being genuine wont get you meets being sexually attractive to someone whos looking will get you to the chatting stage at least tho most will fail at the chatting stage

That's if they can be bothered to chat to you in the first place. "

why would they chat if theres no attraction if ive not had a pic in the first or second message i wonyt bother but a quick look at a profile will tell me alot too people are not going to waste there time on people they know they wont meet most of us work full time so swinging time is limited ..not going to waste that time

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