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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My good deed for the day… *some details changed to protect the innocent*

I’ve been chatting to a couple on here, the conversation then moved off-site to another platform for a group chat.

After a couple of days of radio silence from them, the husband messaged me privately to say that they’d had a chat and the wife had said ‘thanks but no thanks’ to meeting. No worries, says me, and wish them both well.

The wife messages me separately the next day saying that husband had vetoed the meet but, if I promised discretion, she’d like to meet me solo.

Sensing trouble ahead, I politely decline.

I know I did the right thing and I have no intention of ever telling the husband about this. I think I’m owed a ‘basic human decency’ medal

What would you do in this situation?

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Have been in the same situation myself and also politely declined.

Out of interest. Are they a verified couple ? Is there even a chance that it's a guy fantasist using two numbers ? Because we've experienced that before too.

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By *JtheTomMan
over a year ago

London


"Have been in the same situation myself and also politely declined.

Out of interest. Are they a verified couple ? Is there even a chance that it's a guy fantasist using two numbers ? Because we've experienced that before too. "

Christ, really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have been in the same situation myself and also politely declined.

Out of interest. Are they a verified couple ? Is there even a chance that it's a guy fantasist using two numbers ? Because we've experienced that before too. "

Hard to tell. Verified but, on closer inspection, the verifications look shaky.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

And if they recognise themselves from this forum thread...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And if they recognise themselves from this forum thread...?"

Like I said… some details changed to protect identities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if they recognise themselves from this forum thread...?

Like I said… some details changed to protect identities. "

Like what your account and picture? Surely if they saw your thread they wouldn't exactly need to be detectives to figure it out.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham


"Have been in the same situation myself and also politely declined.

Out of interest. Are they a verified couple ? Is there even a chance that it's a guy fantasist using two numbers ? Because we've experienced that before too.

Christ, really? "

Yup when we (I/Mrs) was newer and more naive to the site

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By *teve691000Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Painful but you definitely did the right thing. You definitely deserve a gentleman badge.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham


"Have been in the same situation myself and also politely declined.

Out of interest. Are they a verified couple ? Is there even a chance that it's a guy fantasist using two numbers ? Because we've experienced that before too.

Hard to tell. Verified but, on closer inspection, the verifications look shaky. "

It's a tough one isn't it.

Whatever way I'm sure you've saved yourself some grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like you dodged a bullet.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"My good deed for the day… *some details changed to protect the innocent*

I’ve been chatting to a couple on here, the conversation then moved off-site to another platform for a group chat.

After a couple of days of radio silence from them, the husband messaged me privately to say that they’d had a chat and the wife had said ‘thanks but no thanks’ to meeting. No worries, says me, and wish them both well.

The wife messages me separately the next day saying that husband had vetoed the meet but, if I promised discretion, she’d like to meet me solo.

Sensing trouble ahead, I politely decline.

I know I did the right thing and I have no intention of ever telling the husband about this. I think I’m owed a ‘basic human decency’ medal

What would you do in this situation?"

Well sure won't take them long to work out from this thread... But that aside... Yes... A OBE or possibly next voucher for you. In the fantasy land where i was in a similar situation I would have done the same thing....minus the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My good deed for the day… *some details changed to protect the innocent*

I’ve been chatting to a couple on here, the conversation then moved off-site to another platform for a group chat.

After a couple of days of radio silence from them, the husband messaged me privately to say that they’d had a chat and the wife had said ‘thanks but no thanks’ to meeting. No worries, says me, and wish them both well.

The wife messages me separately the next day saying that husband had vetoed the meet but, if I promised discretion, she’d like to meet me solo.

Sensing trouble ahead, I politely decline.

I know I did the right thing and I have no intention of ever telling the husband about this. I think I’m owed a ‘basic human decency’ medal

What would you do in this situation?

Well sure won't take them long to work out from this thread... But that aside... Yes... A OBE or possibly next voucher for you. In the fantasy land where i was in a similar situation I would have done the same thing....minus the thread. "

That’s the spirit.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You should definitely get a basic human decency badge - it's one of those situations where it's nice to read people doing the erm "right" thing. I like when people don't think with their genitals; gives me a bit of hope for the future, you know?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"My good deed for the day… *some details changed to protect the innocent*

I’ve been chatting to a couple on here, the conversation then moved off-site to another platform for a group chat.

After a couple of days of radio silence from them, the husband messaged me privately to say that they’d had a chat and the wife had said ‘thanks but no thanks’ to meeting. No worries, says me, and wish them both well.

The wife messages me separately the next day saying that husband had vetoed the meet but, if I promised discretion, she’d like to meet me solo.

Sensing trouble ahead, I politely decline.

I know I did the right thing and I have no intention of ever telling the husband about this. I think I’m owed a ‘basic human decency’ medal

What would you do in this situation?

Well sure won't take them long to work out from this thread... But that aside... Yes... A OBE or possibly next voucher for you. In the fantasy land where i was in a similar situation I would have done the same thing....minus the thread.

That’s the spirit. "

Treat yourself to a can of full fat pepsi

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington

You have more self control than me, I’d have been all over that like a tramp on a sandwich

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

You definitely did the right thing OP, saved yourself a whole lot of grief in the long run.

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