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Cannot accom and cannot travel - wth?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wondering how one would reach out and what's others take on this.

Or are those sort of online only and best avoided?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it probably means can only travel locally. However if someone has that on their profile we tend not to get onto conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sometimes get message’s from people who have this on their profile. Have never understood it always a delete when we see this

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I have it on there because I'm not having strangers in my home nor am I interested in travelling to meet randoms.

I meet in clubs. If I like them enough they might be allowed at my home. But it's certainly not an accommodation offer for everyone

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

They're looking for people who can accom locally. So either they live nearby (walking distance or a short bus ride) or they have a nearby hotel room. Or its club meets only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont travel, would only meet locally and I'm not having strangers in my home.

Not sure why it's difficult to understand tbh. I've said previously, I think it should be 'wont' instead of 'cant'.

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

I used to have can accommodate one day a guy part of a couple messaged me beings i can accommodate is it ok if i bring another male so we can fuck his partner.I had had no contact the guy previously. You can guess my reply to him ended with off.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We won’t accommodate and as a rule wouldn’t have a first meet at someone’s house either.

We tend to just stick to clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have it on there because I'm not having strangers in my home nor am I interested in travelling to meet randoms.

I meet in clubs. If I like them enough they might be allowed at my home. But it's certainly not an accommodation offer for everyone "

I would assume meeting at the club means that you can travel.

I can accommodate and travel but that does not mean i will with just one line of message with a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can travel and accommodate. Doesn’t mean I’m going to travel to Glasgow 2am to give sone guy a bj, doesn’t mean guys can ‘pop by’ when they have an hour free. But that’s what I get in messages. So I’m tempted to say no to both and be done with it.

Everyone’s situation, and perspective, will be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have it on there because I'm not having strangers in my home nor am I interested in travelling to meet randoms.

I meet in clubs. If I like them enough they might be allowed at my home. But it's certainly not an accommodation offer for everyone

I would assume meeting at the club means that you can travel.

I can accommodate and travel but that does not mean i will with just one line of message with a stranger. "

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Can't travel can mean they don't have their own transport so meet locally or limited by public transport.

Most of people on this site can't accom

A lot that do have accom if you message them start making excuses why they can't just now.

family visting or having work done etc.

When i meet i can accom more or less anytime but in the past i have put i can't just to stop messages from people who can't that assume accom means its open invite to anyone rather than who i wanted to invite to my house.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It deters some of the proper thirsty guys from chapping your fab door

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I would assume meeting at the club means that you can travel.

I can accommodate and travel but that does not mean i will with just one line of message with a stranger. "

Travelling via public transport is time, planning and money. I don't drive, nor intend to travel to meet anyone from here. So choosing the can't travel option makes more sense to me. Because I won't. I am perfectly capable of accommodating, but I won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can travel and accommodate. Doesn’t mean I’m going to travel to Glasgow 2am to give sone guy a bj, doesn’t mean guys can ‘pop by’ when they have an hour free. But that’s what I get in messages. So I’m tempted to say no to both and be done with it.

Everyone’s situation, and perspective, will be different. "

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I presume they will club or hotel close to their area.

I don’t see it as online only- however, that’s absolutely fine if they wish to do that.

Fab is for everyone to enjoy as they wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely there should be a ‘won’t’ option or put it in the bio..?

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Wondering how one would reach out and what's others take on this.

Or are those sort of online only and best avoided? "

I think they just mean local meets, but it is confusing.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe can travel on public transport only or they meet in clubs /hotels.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I can travel and accommodate. Doesn’t mean I’m going to travel to Glasgow 2am to give sone guy a bj, doesn’t mean guys can ‘pop by’ when they have an hour free. But that’s what I get in messages. So I’m tempted to say no to both and be done with it.

Everyone’s situation, and perspective, will be different. "

Yes. People think "can travel" means "will go anywhere with no notice for a blank profile" and "can accommodate" means "anyone can show up"

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Wondering how one would reach out and what's others take on this.

Or are those sort of online only and best avoided? "

It simply means they will only fuck their neighbours or maybe someone this side of that new estate over the road, but not at their place, got to be yours.

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

if they are very tempting maybe pick them up from the end of their road very discrete

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

Need picking up and playing is what I read it as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate and travel too but I just dont want to.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think a few do those comments but hopefully cover why in their profile?

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

For some it means online fun only. Cams, chat or even phone sex.

Some actually clarify that in the profile while some don’t.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Yes had same experience a few times .when I question them they don’t respond ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can travel and accommodate. Doesn’t mean I’m going to travel to Glasgow 2am to give sone guy a bj, doesn’t mean guys can ‘pop by’ when they have an hour free. But that’s what I get in messages. So I’m tempted to say no to both and be done with it.

Everyone’s situation, and perspective, will be different.

Yes. People think "can travel" means "will go anywhere with no notice for a blank profile" and "can accommodate" means "anyone can show up""

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