FabSwingers.com forum: Women/couples looking for single guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are a lot of profiles that exclude single guys from messaging.

So who is either a women or a couple and are looking for a single guy?

Make yourself known, what your looking for and where

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

I'd imagine this is because a high percentage of single guys are either annoying or really odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine this is because a high percentage of single guys are either annoying or really odd

This is why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a difficult thing no doubt to be a single man on here

To get my attention your message must be good or forget it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles that exclude single guys from messaging.

So who is either a women or a couple and are looking for a single guy?

Make yourself known, what your looking for and where "

yes we look for single guys when dogging, but so many 1 liners, degrading messages, those who havent read the profile to see if its a match, and thats before you get to the couples offering their fella out and the time wasters

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Yes.. we look for single guys.

But that’s the thing..

WE LOOK.. when we want a single guy we’ll look and choose the sensible good guys.

We don’t need constant bombardment with messages. It distracts from the good guys.

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By *auraAndyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We also look for single guys, but honestly if your profile doesn't contain anything, your message is just "how are you guys", "we're in your area this one day", "I have a 9" cock so you should meet with me" or doesn't include a face pic, we just delete them

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By *amJPMan
over a year ago

London

As a single guy. I agreed with the comments.

+ too many fake accounts. No verifications… only dick pics. Etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be honest.. I can see why that view is taken.

When there are so many single guys on here and single guys pretending to be couples I get it.

But there are genuine guys too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine this is because a high percentage of single guys are either annoying or really odd

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By *xJust4fun22Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

It is easier to find them based on what we want, not what they think we want. Too many single guys on here cannot meet due to their wife at home... But pretend they can. 1 guy told us last week, after not replying to a one liner, "I would have ruined you anyway!"

We have played with a few guys on here... they have all chatted on messages without it getting straight into sex or the size of their manhood! Too many think this is purely a pick up app

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See we usually block single men from messaging because we get copious amounts of messages flooding in so we only unblock and allow messages if we are planning ahead and want to invite a single male round

I can imagine it’s frustrating though trying to get into an inbox!

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By *avid_jones87Man
over a year ago

Ascot

I used to find it hard when I was new to fab, but lucky enough that I’ve met some really great people and don’t really message people anymore. It can be tough!

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

99% of guys make little or no effort and wonder why they get ignored.

There is 1% of guys that are great and often get to share our sex life with us.

But they are few and we don't sit here with panties on floor desperate for the next message.

Often only meet a very select few a year and then only if they stand out and are respectful, clean, good looking, can hold a conversation, don't text talk, have pictures and have read profile. Oh and that are not the other end of country or cheating on wives.

Girls on here are not dead certs they are humans and need stimulating..... X

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

We state in our profile that when we are looking to meet a single guy they must be fully bisexual. The amount of straight men and oral only guys who still message for a meet shows how little men actually do read profiles. It does get annoying that they still hope for a meet after clearly not reading what we are looking for

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of guys make little or no effort and wonder why they get ignored.

There is 1% of guys that are great and often get to share our sex life with us.

But they are few and we don't sit here with panties on floor desperate for the next message.

Girls on here are not dead certs they are humans and need stimulating..... X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a difficult thing no doubt to be a single man on here

To get my attention your message must be good or forget it "

It’s actually not though. In a way we find it more difficult as a couple and we both have has single profiles in the past. From experience lots men shoot themselves in the dick and then throw their toys out of the pram if they don’t get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is easier to find them based on what we want, not what they think we want. Too many single guys on here cannot meet due to their wife at home... But pretend they can. 1 guy told us last week, after not replying to a one liner, "I would have ruined you anyway!"

We have played with a few guys on here... they have all chatted on messages without it getting straight into sex or the size of their manhood! Too many think this is purely a pick up app

First part of the message resonates so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest.. I can see why that view is taken.

When there are so many single guys on here and single guys pretending to be couples I get it.

But there are genuine guys too.

Being genuine doesn’t mean people will want to meet you though. Death and taxes and that’s it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but like men to read our profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think it's a problem with a free site. If they made it members only most of the fakes and chancers will disappear, but also maybe most of the women and couples too?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

"I do think it's a problem with a free site. If they made it members only most of the fakes and chancers will disappear, but also maybe most of the women and couples too?"

Only the women and couples that are actually men pretending to be someone else…

Most genuine people would stay. It’s a lifestyle for us. Not Instashag..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for single guys, but as many have said before me it is tricky.

They shoot their shot with either a dick pic, no effort at all, not paying any attention to profiles, rude or abusive messages etc, or are lying about who/what they are.

I have met a few rare genuine singles on here, but that has probably been about 0.5% of the guys who have messaged me.

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By *lexis89Man
over a year ago

London

Couples and Ladies

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I'd imagine this is because a high percentage of single guys are either annoying or really odd

This is the answer

but the good ones make up for it

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By *rMrs27Couple
over a year ago

colchester

"There are a lot of profiles that exclude single guys from messaging.

So who is either a women or a couple and are looking for a single guy?

Make yourself known, what your looking for and where "

Always!

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I do think it's a problem with a free site. If they made it members only most of the fakes and chancers will disappear, but also maybe most of the women and couples too?"

Sadly that would just make the bad eggs feel more entitled to sex on demand

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By *ifeOnMarsCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"There are a lot of profiles that exclude single guys from messaging.

So who is either a women or a couple and are looking for a single guy?

Make yourself known, what your looking for and where "

We’re looking for single guys and our profile includes what we’re looking for. If a guy wants to know what we’re looking for it’s pretty simple, read the profile… it’s a simple concept that seems to escape most

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By *hris_LynnCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We have recently stopped single guys from messaging us for a number of reasons. First of all we was just getting ws one liners, then there profiles were the same or just a cock pic.

The we'd get guys wanting to meet, but then never show up or just disappear.

We've had abusive messages from guys who don't take lightly to us saying sorry your not for us which we have always been polite with when responding to all the messages we have received.

So at the moment we are looking for genuine guys, but eh hens teeth spring to mind !!!

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"As a single guy. I agreed with the comments.

+ too many fake accounts. No verifications… only dick pics. Etc "

And there we have the vicious circle.

As a single bloke, if you don't have any verifications ,no one will ever meet you .

And If no one will meet you ,you can't get any verifications.

And round and round it goes .

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

We like to meet single guys. But the vast majority that message us have clearly not read our profile and are not capable of putting together an intelligent, polite, and respectful message.

If we are prepared to share something precious and intimate the least we can expect in return is courtesy, honesty, and genuineness. But sadly this is lacking and results in instant delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles that exclude single guys from messaging.

So who is either a women or a couple and are looking for a single guy?

Make yourself known, what your looking for and where

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy. I agreed with the comments.

+ too many fake accounts. No verifications… only dick pics. Etc

And there we have the vicious circle.

As a single bloke, if you don't have any verifications ,no one will ever meet you .

And If no one will meet you ,you can't get any verifications.

And round and round it goes . "

There are many that will meet unverified people. I am one myself always for a social to make sure that they're who they say they're but it is all the other bollocks that makes it hard.

I try not to tar all with the same brush. Message context,how someone approaches me, if I think they have read my profile etc and then obviously if there is an initial spark. It is not easy at all.

I actually have a lot of empathy but I also feel that a lot of single guys create these problems themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy. I agreed with the comments.

+ too many fake accounts. No verifications… only dick pics. Etc

And there we have the vicious circle.

As a single bloke, if you don't have any verifications ,no one will ever meet you .

And If no one will meet you ,you can't get any verifications.

And round and round it goes . "

So how does all the other men do it then?

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By *ommy GentMan
over a year ago

Howden

"We have recently stopped single guys from messaging us for a number of reasons. First of all we was just getting ws one liners, then there profiles were the same or just a cock pic.

The we'd get guys wanting to meet, but then never show up or just disappear.

We've had abusive messages from guys who don't take lightly to us saying sorry your not for us which we have always been polite with when responding to all the messages we have received.

So at the moment we are looking for genuine guys, but eh hens teeth spring to mind !!!"
Hi i would love to chat about hens teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we was active we'd do the searching to find what we was looking for.. their are some great single guys on here but it's just a bit time consuming trying to find them so clubs became our place for fun in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy. I agreed with the comments.

+ too many fake accounts. No verifications… only dick pics. Etc

And there we have the vicious circle.

As a single bloke, if you don't have any verifications ,no one will ever meet you .

And If no one will meet you ,you can't get any verifications.

And round and round it goes . "

This is incorrect.

I can't speak to everyone's experience but it hasn't been mine.

Twice I've left and come back and not had that issue.

It does require communication. But isn't that to be expected anyway? And I'm not saying you don't either. I don't know what you are or are not doing. Just stating that's an incorrect generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do think it's a problem with a free site. If they made it members only most of the fakes and chancers will disappear, but also maybe most of the women and couples too?

Sadly that would just make the bad eggs feel more entitled to sex on demand"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been here a a couple and now single again there is a lot that resonates here.

Had so many guys cancel, or disappear or not show up after chatting for a while even guys with verifications it makes it a lot harder for guys that will show up, who are respectful and who are not cheating or on an ego trip.

There are some good guys out there but unfortunately a lot of time wasters which as a lot above have said ends up making it harder for decent guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like single guys but only in clubs, harder to no-show, ghost, photoshop yourself if we are staring you in the eye.

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By *e and him 2021Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

We did have a profile aimed just at find single guys, but some of the first messages sent were very crude, some rude and most aimed just at her not even the fact we are a couple. Don’t get me wrong we’ve found a few diamonds in the ruff and they are now on the hot list and we are keeping into with to plan some fun nights.

But some clearly didn’t even get passed the first line of our profile has it explained what we would like and what she likes, looks for in the guy to join in with us.

Yes it’s clear there is good ones but with had hotels book planned meets at club and then the guys not even turned up. Then a few days later they will send a message to say something happened and can we met again.

We’ve changed profile now has we’ve a few good ones in the pipeline but will change it back to find singles in the new year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy here heading to club play this evening if anyone ladies or couples are in attendance say hi..

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By *inkyAddamsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We differ, when we’re in the mood we set profile to looking, otherwise we stick to fem/couples

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