FabSwingers.com forum: Sexuality classification? Help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello, I'm looking for advice from those who may have experience this before...

So I am married to my beautiful wife, we are happy, strong, trusting but her approach to sex and pleasure is confusing to me .... it's this.. she says she gets pleasure from making me happy sexually and giving me what I want.. and not from her getting physical pleasure.. so much so that she is happy to do anything to fulfill my fantasies because it would make me happy and that she'd be happy ....I know it sound to good to be true..

Is this such a thing /kink

Others similar?

I'll never abuse the situation but am confused about whether it's correct or not...

We've been together 32 years and she's happy attending clubs and we aren't jealous type..

Thanks

By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

Sounds pretty reasonable.

I’m much the same in many ways; there are lots of things which aren’t hard limits but about which I’m fairly ambivalent - if I had a partner who LOVED them then I’d more than happily do it in order to indirectly get pleasure from their pleasure.

Just make sure to balance it reciprocally, unless there’s a real desire there for an unbalanced relationship (presumably as some sort of sub-dom thing).

By *teve691000Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

I totally get that. Your wife sounds like she is madly in love with you. Your pleasure is her pleasure. She sounds like the perfect partner