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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let's be honest we all have our type, so why can't we make things a little easier for us and add them ? Is the anything else you'd add yourself?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A filter to exclude people who focus their searches on such things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A good one for your girls I bet being able to search for baldies or full length hair on a man might be handy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A filter to exclude people who focus their searches on such things "

We've all used the age one before how is this any different we all have a preference.

Even if you don't use it!! It's a nice option to have ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"A filter to exclude people who focus their searches on such things

We've all used the age one before how is this any different we all have a preference.

Even if you don't use it!! It's a nice option to have ?"

Dress size is fairly irrelevant without context. A size 10 on a 5ft girl can look bigger and infer more jiggle than a size 16 on a 6ft one.

And, like age, people will lie to get around filters, so why even bother

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just like the age one make it only possible to change it once!

Problem solved!

A height one would be good as well as you suggested.

And if you have broader searches in what you look for just don't use the extra searches ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

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Only change your dress size once? Dress sizes change all the time. I was a size 20 2 years ago. Now I'm a size 10. Should I be stuck at an 18 because I changed it when I first started losing weight? Make a new account after more than one weight change?

I wouldn't mind a minimum word count on a profile filter. Or an exclude anyone with a dick pic for their profile picture so I don't have to see it without ever actively choosing to look.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I’d love to be able to filter based on what I’m looking for. I’d love to be one of those people who seem to find everyone attractive, but unfortunately I’m not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well maybe set the limit to 4 tines a year like the name change ?

The word count for profile is actually a really good one!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d love to be able to filter based on what I’m looking for. I’d love to be one of those people who seem to find everyone attractive, but unfortunately I’m not. "

Exactly realistically you'll have to filter through 100s of people you aren't interested in to find a few you are ... Options are good even if you don't use them

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Well maybe set the limit to 4 tines a year like the name change ?

The word count for profile is actually a really good one!! "

Again, that's not even close to how much someone's body can change in a year. And people would still lie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If it's obvious someone is lying they are probably lying about more so I'd just block them job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob with dress size, I can go between 3 label sizes depending where I buy from. Unfortunately, a size 12 isnt the same in every shop so...theres that too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok but you'd put the size you wear most often. Dress size will be like she though you'd put on the range you're happy with.

Like with dicks you'd put in the range you'd be happy with not just one exact size.

Or with height of you wanted a 6ft man plus you could put on 6ft-6ft5 kinda deal

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Prob with dress size, I can go between 3 label sizes depending where I buy from. Unfortunately, a size 12 isnt the same in every shop so...theres that too."

This so true! Bought 3 items the other day and all different sizes. A 10, 12 and a 16!

Ridiculous

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shame with shoe size I order a size up in walking boots but I still now what size I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe set a option if you aren't happy sharing your dress size don't put it

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By *oneybee1001Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

What would you add op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok but you'd put the size you wear most often. Dress size will be like she though you'd put on the range you're happy with.

Like with dicks you'd put in the range you'd be happy with not just one exact size.

Or with height of you wanted a 6ft man plus you could put on 6ft-6ft5 kinda deal "

So what's the point lol if you told me you were 6'5 and you turned up at 6' I'd be looking for the other 5 inches. I do get what you're trying to say but you're as well just having a video chat before meeting then you see each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But it would help you find people who were 6ft5 is my point. Obviously a video chat and stuff is a good idea regardless.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"But it would help you find people who were 6ft5 is my point. Obviously a video chat and stuff is a good idea regardless.

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But what if they're standing on a box in front of their height chart when you call them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then you've been Catfished hahaha

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Men always seem to place far more importance on dick size than women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People lie having these options doesn't make lairs more truthful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it would help you find people who were 6ft5 is my point. Obviously a video chat and stuff is a good idea regardless.

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Of course but sometimes it feels like people want every detail accounted for in prefs, we're never going to get that are we? Just use your own diligence I mean, I wouldnt meet/not meet solely based on one thing. See a profile you like, chat, take it to video chat if planning to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men always seem to place far more importance on dick size than women."

I've met plenty of women who prefer larger men.

If it's not important to you then don't use the option simple as that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you didn't want to add such details to your profile then don't.

Put if you wanted to narrow your searches then this would be handy

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"If you didn't want to add such details to your profile then don't.

Put if you wanted to narrow your searches then this would be handy "

Except, of course, people still lie.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands


"Let's be honest we all have our type, so why can't we make things a little easier for us and add them ? Is the anything else you'd add yourself?"

Ethnicity, as the amount of profiles ive read thinking, yea, im what theyre after, then at the end it says black guys only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People already lie already this isn't going to change that haha

I'm literally just saying it might be handy to narrow your searches for what you actually want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Let's be honest we all have our type, so why can't we make things a little easier for us and add them ? Is the anything else you'd add yourself?

Ethnicity, as the amount of profiles ive read thinking, yea, im what theyre after, then at the end it says black guys only.

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You can already search for Asian/black and so on .. which i think is handy

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Having all these ways to narrow down options just seems so transactional, we don’t want finding someone we might want to have sex with to be like ordering a pizza.

There’s a lot to be said for just chatting with people to see if you’re attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having all these ways to narrow down options just seems so transactional, we don’t want finding someone we might want to have sex with to be like ordering a pizza.

There’s a lot to be said for just chatting with people to see if you’re attracted to them."

Which is great so for you not using those options wouldn't affect you in the slightest.

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By *ukrya1Man
over a year ago

loughborough

How would you narrow down a search for a compatible personality?

Would be like the self serve tills in Morrisons constantly shouting unexpected item in the bagging area haha

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"I’d love to be able to filter based on what I’m looking for. I’d love to be one of those people who seem to find everyone attractive, but unfortunately I’m not.

Exactly realistically you'll have to filter through 100s of people you aren't interested in to find a few you are ... Options are good even if you don't use them"

Well that’s what currently happens, which is annoying. I want the options that let me tailor my view and who can contact me based on what I like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d love to be able to filter based on what I’m looking for. I’d love to be one of those people who seem to find everyone attractive, but unfortunately I’m not.

Exactly realistically you'll have to filter through 100s of people you aren't interested in to find a few you are ... Options are good even if you don't use them

Well that’s what currently happens, which is annoying. I want the options that let me tailor my view and who can contact me based on what I like "

Maybe additional options for message filters?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Facial hair... I'm not really a fan of beards, but I love a moustache. If I could search for clean shaven that would be amazing. Also maybe hair colour, I quite like a cute ginger, and they're rare on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Facial hair... I'm not really a fan of beards, but I love a moustache. If I could search for clean shaven that would be amazing. Also maybe hair colour, I quite like a cute ginger, and they're rare on here! "

Really good idea if you can pick skin colour why not hair colour

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By *bcinkentMan
over a year ago

Gillingham

Comment like this when you clearly state a lost of what you want in your profile? So what's the harm?

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands


"Let's be honest we all have our type, so why can't we make things a little easier for us and add them ? Is the anything else you'd add yourself?

Ethnicity, as the amount of profiles ive read thinking, yea, im what theyre after, then at the end it says black guys only.

You can already search for Asian/black and so on .. which i think is handy "

Ive never noticed that. How do you do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t imagine anything worse tbh! I’d hate that someone could search for me based on my dress size!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this topic, you are right @bigbullbbc

There are too many clowns & timewasters on this site which causes frustration & disappointment.

Having this option will only be a positive moving forward.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"Shame with shoe size I order a size up in walking boots but I still now what size I am "

I'm the same, my shoe size can vary from 10 to 11.5 depending on who makes them.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"A good one for your girls I bet being able to search for baldies or full length hair on a man might be handy "

Handy how? I'd rather search not a prick.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Personal opinion.

There are endless search criteria that could be added.

Why not start a thread asking for anyone who's comfortable doing so to post their dress or cock size or both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be interested in posting my cock size and dress size is irrelevant for me.

Clearly, some wouldn't mind but there are countless possibilities of search options and not practical to include all.

Always worth thinking about and challenging things though.

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool

Blank profiles should not be posted.

I hate it when it says " fill in later " and they have been on 12 months.

If you can't accommodate and can't travel, I mean WTF

Profile without any pictures should not be posted, minimum 1 viewable picture.

If you can't travel and live 200 miles away, I mean WTF

I have a 5 min snap shot to view the person's profile, if it tells me nothing then usually I just block to save myself e mail ping pong.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Dress size means absolutely nothing - I have clothing ranging from a size 10 to a size 14 it depends on the fit/shop - a size is not the same in every shop you go into.

You could stand two size 10 woman next to each other and they will never look the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A filter to exclude people who focus their searches on such things

We've all used the age one before how is this any different we all have a preference.

Even if you don't use it!! It's a nice option to have ?"

People still lie so what's the point, some don't even use their real age so cock size, body shape, hairline would still be subject to seeing them in person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are we allowed to apply the SMIM (standard man inch measurement)system when stating dress size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You can already search for Asian/black and so on .. which i think is handy "

Is this really a thing

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

A filter for those who aren't seeking just chat, to gain knowledge and never meet someone face to face.

I had to delete someone because well...he knew I would never meet him.Pointless chatting for 2 years.

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By *ne4morefunMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

We would love a dress size option. As a slim couple we are always searching for couples the same weight and build as us.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon


"A filter to exclude people who focus their searches on such things

We've all used the age one before how is this any different we all have a preference.

Even if you don't use it!! It's a nice option to have ?

Dress size is fairly irrelevant without context. A size 10 on a 5ft girl can look bigger and infer more jiggle than a size 16 on a 6ft one.

And, like age, people will lie to get around filters, so why even bother "

This, I mean I can squeeze myself into a size 8. I'm not one (by any stretch) and it would look shit if I did. But I can get it on so that's good enough for a fab criteria search?

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