FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters via contacts

By *randMrsLP OP Couple
over a year ago

london

Hello

About half the many cotnacts we get are wasting my times

EG - Even though the Ad clearly states read profile, we ofte get stuff like, "what are you looking for..... can you accommodate" even when the advert is crystal clear what we are looking for and the ad is "AT YOUR PLACE."

Most of the above and no just blocked

In the recent days I've started "deleteing messages" but now blocking them seems to cut down the messages.

Do you get the same

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We get one or two like that but mostly people read our profile. It can be difficult to know what to write in a message and asking what people are in to can get the ball rolling

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yep I'd say 90% of our messages are from people who haven't read our profile and aren't what we are looking for.

Mrs

By *randMrsLP OP Couple
over a year ago

london

Thanks to both of you.

as i said we even write in the advert, READ PROFILE and half of them cant tell if cna't accommodate at your place means

What really winds me up is those offering to get a hotel room - what, do they expect we will just like them

we've only really met verified people and that helps to a degree but i have noted some of the pics can be well out of date

Then we've had a few, come nearing when can you see/us/free etc at your place - they can back offering to book a room

it is frustrating but blocking those that do not even remotely meet our needs or cant be arsed to sau a "hello/hey/hi/good morning" etc etc are also getting the block as it shows lack of politness.