FabSwingers.com forum: Not getting any interest !

By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Any advice ? Profile ? Language used ? Pics ? How do we gain more interest?

Tia x

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Definatly need pics of you buddy. Your girl is hot but your much older so you need to put yourself out there so couples can decide if you are too.

And maybe more sexy pics tham the full on toys in approach most of us like a good look at the sexy classy pics.

Keep the dirty ones for friends.

You both look good to us maybe showcase yourself better xx

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Maybe not so full on profile right up? Very much feels a bit ott if we are honest but that's just our opinion.

Kind of reads like an older guy, ex porn star pushing to see a young girlfriend destroyed lol.

No offence ment but maybe start with a more gentle approach and as you get chatting see where it goes with your potential meets xxx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Agree with above, to attract couples you should add more pics of the mr, it's v top heavy with the lady and not much of the male.

The age gap won't appeal to all, but there's not much you can do about that.

Stating your partner is a Bi slut who wants to be used as a fuck toy, is much more likely to appeal to men over women and couples too.

So think about who you're trying to attract and what they want to see.

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

"Agree with above, to attract couples you should add more pics of the mr, it's v top heavy with the lady and not much of the male.

The age gap won't appeal to all, but there's not much you can do about that.

Stating your partner is a Bi slut who wants to be used as a fuck toy, is much more likely to appeal to men over women and couples too.

So think about who you're trying to attract and what they want to see. "

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

''He is an older ex adult industry model''

Might discourage some guys.

More photos maybe?

I'd would go for it.

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"Definatly need pics of you buddy. Your girl is hot but your much older so you need to put yourself out there so couples can decide if you are too.

And maybe more sexy pics tham the full on toys in approach most of us like a good look at the sexy classy pics.

Keep the dirty ones for friends.

You both look good to us maybe showcase yourself better xx"

Thank you very much x

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"Agree with above, to attract couples you should add more pics of the mr, it's v top heavy with the lady and not much of the male.

The age gap won't appeal to all, but there's not much you can do about that.

Stating your partner is a Bi slut who wants to be used as a fuck toy, is much more likely to appeal to men over women and couples too.

So think about who you're trying to attract and what they want to see. "

Thank you will make changes .

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Pics much better now, massive improvement ease on the write up and I'm sure you'll get plenty of offers, both very good looking am sure be fine especially with new pics x

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By *unch XXXMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Same here not getting anything even a hello back

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Same here not getting anything even a hello back "

It's normal for the majority of single guys here.

Unusual for couples though.

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"Pics much better now, massive improvement ease on the write up and I'm sure you'll get plenty of offers, both very good looking am sure be fine especially with new pics x"

Thank you, nor sure how to change the blurb as its what we are both looking for !

Mrs here BTW.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Pics much better now, massive improvement ease on the write up and I'm sure you'll get plenty of offers, both very good looking am sure be fine especially with new pics x

Thank you, nor sure how to change the blurb as its what we are both looking for !

Mrs here BTW. "

The pics are a lot better, well done

Maybe you could try a club? You could meet couples there or arrange to meet more than one man too

Good luck

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

From taking a quick look, it appears that you're looking for a particular niche which, from numerous threads over the years, certainly seems harder to achieve than many might think.

It seems that a lot of men might initially show interest in group fun, but, from what I've read over the ten years I've been using fab, is that usually a lot of men bottle it and don't show up.

A bigger issue though, which is likely affecting you is that you're looking for groups of men, but have single men blocked.

So, what you're looking for might put off coupkes and women from contacting you and yet, those you're actually looking for can't message you.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The first thing I thought was you probably don't have pictures of the guy (our biggest Fab gripe) but I see they are there. The lady is hot as fook, so no issues there. As a straight male I can't comment much on the man but he looks good.

The only thing that would put us off is the bit about a slut being used, but that will appeal to some. It depends what sort of people you are trying to attract.

Being a couple on here has it's difficulties. Four people being attracted to each other is not easy. Hang in there. It took us a long time for us to find our ideal couple but it has been worth it.

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"The first thing I thought was you probably don't have pictures of the guy (our biggest Fab gripe) but I see they are there. The lady is hot as fook, so no issues there. As a straight male I can't comment much on the man but he looks good.

The only thing that would put us off is the bit about a slut being used, but that will appeal to some. It depends what sort of people you are trying to attract.

Being a couple on here has it's difficulties. Four people being attracted to each other is not easy. Hang in there. It took us a long time for us to find our ideal couple but it has been worth it. "

Thank you .

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Also probably worth trying some clubs or social nights, the bbw socials are always a great night, so try one of those. Always easier in person

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

While appricate that you want that extreme scenario but maybe go a bit easier on it. And once get talking chat to your potential meets and bring it into it a bit.

You can overdo it a bit hope that helps.

Like saying would love group fun as opposed to want guys to use her like a slut lol. X

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"While appricate that you want that extreme scenario but maybe go a bit easier on it. And once get talking chat to your potential meets and bring it into it a bit.

You can overdo it a bit hope that helps.

Like saying would love group fun as opposed to want guys to use her like a slut lol. X"

Changed .

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

That now is looking a much better profile!!. Hell we will be messaging you now!!

Glad have helped guys good luck and stay safe xxxx

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Nice couple. The industry bit could be intimidating. Trying to perform to those standards could be off-putting

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Any advice ? Profile ? Language used ? Pics ? How do we gain more interest?

Tia x "

Have you tried going on club nights?

You're one of many that don't get what they're looking for from Fab, clubs are a different story. We personally wouldn't bother with Fab if it wasn't for clubs.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Profile looks tidy now. We are an age gap cpl also,I'd not worry to much as those interested will definitely be in touch. We have done ok up to now so be patient.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

you can only be you no point in trying to be someone else as it wont work ... attraction and personality is everything so just be you (two)

the scene as a whole is way way bigger than just fab but fab as the online option is king ..

clubs are a very small part of the scene and its very hit n miss to if it for you or not when you look at how few clubs there are and then how many swingers there are simple maths will tell you thats alot who dont like them ...me/us we us clubs once a month just to keep intouch with people we know from clubs rare we play in clubs its all very ''falsey'' but getting to know is what its good for..

socials again are a very hit n miss thing alot of swinger dont do them i find them too nosey we havent done a social for years now yet cat rember the last let down or rubbish meet...

i guess what im saying is people will only recommend what works for them and just because it works for them dont mean it will for you .... the best way to swing is your way make your own rules and bounderies talk to each other do it your way make sure those you meet understand your way ...also bear in mind your asking the forums for help the forums are a tiny tiny part of fab like 1% or maybe 2% on a good day alot dont swing neither...

women looking for wommen is nearly impossible online

couples looking for couples is also very hard as its a 4 way attracction

couples and women looking for men you think would be easy but again its really not attraction personality attuite entitlement pushy and even begging / offering money will put 99.9% of men not what your looking for

just be you op let people decide no harm in trying a club you may like it or hate it but most of all do it your way and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks perfect to a fellow ddlg... Apart from not meeting single men that us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foxy J massive thumbs up! X

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We’re coming late to the party here and our only comment would be the age difference might put some people off.

One of you might be too old for some and the other too young. That probably doesn’t help 4 way attraction if you’re looking for a couple.

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"you can only be you no point in trying to be someone else as it wont work ... attraction and personality is everything so just be you (two)

the scene as a whole is way way bigger than just fab but fab as the online option is king ..

socials again are a very hit n miss thing alot of swinger dont do them i find them too nosey we havent done a social for years now yet cat rember the last let down or rubbish meet...

women looking for wommen is nearly impossible online

couples looking for couples is also very hard as its a 4 way attracction

just be you op let people decide no harm in trying a club you may like it or hate it but most of all do it your way and have fun "

Thank you x

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"We’re coming late to the party here and our only comment would be the age difference might put some people off.

One of you might be too old for some and the other too young. That probably doesn’t help 4 way attraction if you’re looking for a couple."

Yes this seems to be the main problem as her prefers younger women and I prefer older men ....its a ongoing paradox

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
over a year ago

goffs oak

Would suggest a few club visits to wider your network. But no issue with your profile now you have edited it.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

You look like a very sexy pair, so it’ll only be a matter of time!

We like to be able to see veris. Other than that, it’s only the ‘ex adult industry’ line that might put us off.

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"You look like a very sexy pair, so it’ll only be a matter of time!

We like to be able to see veris. Other than that, it’s only the ‘ex adult industry’ line that might put us off."

Thank you , it was just mentioned to underline that he is very easy going and knows what's what and no drama , but a few have mentioned it so will edit , thank you

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"Would suggest a few club visits to wider your network. But no issue with your profile now you have edited it."

Yes we are planning a trip to the playrooms dunstable seems the best option for regular meets .

Thank you x

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Looking at your profile I would say nothing looks the same as any other couple.

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By *uriousBeastMan
over a year ago

London

You.have filter on your profile

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By *inkyfuckery69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"You.have filter on your profile

Changed .

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