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By *outsaras OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Lets take the things from the beginning.

We start searching for women in our area. We find say one hot girl. We click on her profile. We read all the profile and we see that we meet the basic requirements (same town, age range, sexual identity etc etc). We then decide to send her a message. Neither cock pics are attached in the message (if it's highlighted on her profile) nor insutling words like "Do you wanna a fuck today" etc. Clear body and face pictures are attached instead.

As it becomes annoyoing when the status of our sent message is either "Been Read" or "Deleted" I would like to ask all the ladies here what do you expect to read in the first message ?

Since there is no face to face contact the factor of positive body language is eliminated. Therefore how can we express our confidence in a text of few lines? What do we need to say ? Tell us an example.

Ladies please discuss.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It may just be that she has looked at your profile and not been attracted in the way she feels she needs to be.

I personally like to see that he has read my profile, and something friendly is enough to spark my interest

I do find that even when I reply that 'he' is not what I am looking for, a fair proportion of guys see this as a way of initiating further contact. That defies what she has said and often leads to the messages being deleted and perhaps even blocked...

Only my perspective..

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

You are probably going about it the right way from what you have just written, checking profile, meeting requirement, sending decent message with face pic no cock etc.

What you need to remember is that even tho I have 'white, 25-30, etc etc' on my profile that doesn't mean that I'm going to be attracted to every chap that messages me that fits those criteria. So maybe they just read the message, look at your profile and decide your not for them.

Don't take it personally and move on. There's plenty more fish... Oh hang on that's another website but you get my meaning xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that sometimes no matter what u do some messages will get deleted without even being read. I would say if ur a genuine guy then u need to try and get to clubs and socials and start to meet people face to face. Party nights at clubs are good for this when the place is buzzing and lots of people to choose to talk to.

Women get so many messages a day sometimes a bulk delete on a bad day is necessary.

Keep trying

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The message I had from the first guy I met on here went along the lines of 'hi I'm *****, age, that he was looking for single girls in my age group and lived fairly local and would happily travel or meet in a hotel as he couldn't accom because blah blah. He said a couple if things pertinent to my profile and then said he'd love to hear back from me if I would like us to get to know one another and that he hoped he wasn't too hairy (again referring to my profile).

He seemed like a genuine, down to earth guy so after 2 weeks of messages and then texts I invited him to a party I was attending. The rest is history lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, ur a good looking guy. If I saw u in a club id be like yeah! Lol

Good luck xx

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By *outsaras OP   Man
over a year ago

London

LittleMissHottie thanks for your help.

only 51 minutes after your post it works(arranged a meeting).

Cheers

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By *outsaras OP   Man
over a year ago

London

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By *outsaras OP   Man
over a year ago

London

mrs nico thanks for the compliment.

You can always come to Bath Swingers Club.

I usually go there.

Lol . Joking xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit out the way for me hon but thanks

Hope ur meet goes well! Xx

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