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By *imandher3525 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Does it put you off talking/meeting someone on here that has been on for quite a while with no verifications?

Although we’ve been here a while we haven’t had many meets due to our ‘free nights’ being very few and far between, we don’t have any verifications and I think it’s starting to put people off talking to us haha!

What’s your opinions? Are verifications the be all and end all?

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think quantity of veris is not important... a well attended club night or social could generate loads of veris in one hit.

Just being verified is the import thing, maybe if there is a long time passed sunce the last veri, that mighr cause some to wonder.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No it doesn't put us off, we've met quite a few unverified people.

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By *irtydaddyreturnsMan
over a year ago

corby

It would not put me off, because you can get a feeling they are genuine with chatting before an arranged meeting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you looking to meet or just chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat tbh.

I guess from my perspective, even with my unverified status, if I see veris I feel that the other person is real.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Does it put you off talking/meeting someone on here that has been on for quite a while with no verifications?

Although we’ve been here a while we haven’t had many meets due to our ‘free nights’ being very few and far between, we don’t have any verifications and I think it’s starting to put people off talking to us haha!

What’s your opinions? Are verifications the be all and end all?

Her x"

No because either they are 1) Very fussy & just won't bonk anything? 2) Is it really that easy to meet unless you go to clubs?

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

What about some of the poor fellas been on a year & can't get anyone...

Very hurtful

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By *imandher3525 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Are you looking to meet or just chat?"

Looking to meet, the issue being we could start chatting and get along with them really well but because we can’t meet at the drop of a hat we end up being forgotten lol

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By *randmrs9888Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We only meet single males so will only meet verified accounts for our own personal safety I gives some reassurances that there not gonna turn creepy on us

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"We only meet single males so will only meet verified accounts for our own personal safety I gives some reassurances that there not gonna turn creepy on us"

That's very judgmental.

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london


"Are you looking to meet or just chat?

Looking to meet, the issue being we could start chatting and get along with them really well but because we can’t meet at the drop of a hat we end up being forgotten lol"
same

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By *tarting2exploreCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Verifications do come into our decision making, but will chat with people we like the look of.

Unfortunately we don't get to play as much as we'd like (work, life etc.) And that does mean we sometimes get left behind by couples we like!

Hey ho, their loss..

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By *randmrs9888Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It's judgemental to want assurance that the stranger were meeting is real and hasn't hurt someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While it won't necessarily put me off, I'd be wary of setting a meet as I would assume you're not interested in meeting.

Would probably also want voice or video call confirmation fairly soon due to the number of fake profiles and pic collectors.

I'm not big on veris but they are quite important here.

I wanted to upload a video a wee ago and couldn't. Then wanted to write a veri for someone I knew and had met and couldnt either.

At which point I decided maybe I needed verification after all. It's built into the system here. Just makes life easier on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are you looking to meet or just chat?

Looking to meet, the issue being we could start chatting and get along with them really well but because we can’t meet at the drop of a hat we end up being forgotten lol"

I see your dilemma.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Everything is relative so no problem if genuine...everything will rise eventually x

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"It's judgemental to want assurance that the stranger were meeting is real and hasn't hurt someone? "

Verifications won't stop that...

Just look on those dating sites, been serial daters then flick a switch....

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By *randmrs9888Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Even your own partner can do that we can be really picky with the people we meet because there is never going to be that assurance that someone is 100 % genuine with there personality so the second we have a vibe from someone we don't like we move on to the next it's not worth the risk in our opinion and it might sound horrible but we use verifications almost like reviews of someone to know if they are genuine in other people's eyes

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Even your own partner can do that we can be really picky with the people we meet because there is never going to be that assurance that someone is 100 % genuine with there personality so the second we have a vibe from someone we don't like we move on to the next it's not worth the risk in our opinion and it might sound horrible but we use verifications almost like reviews of someone to know if they are genuine in other people's eyes"

Must be why I don't meet anyone, don't fit my high standards

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Doesn't put me off but verification isn't everything because some don't want them like trying to keep their fab virginity

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By *randmrs9888Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It's OK to have standards you don't have to find every woman attractive or the type of person you want to have sex with

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"It's OK to have standards you don't have to find every woman attractive or the type of person you want to have sex with "

I'm a virgin.

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By *orties CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Does it put you off talking/meeting someone on here that has been on for quite a while with no verifications?

Although we’ve been here a while we haven’t had many meets due to our ‘free nights’ being very few and far between, we don’t have any verifications and I think it’s starting to put people off talking to us haha!

What’s your opinions? Are verifications the be all and end all?

Her x"

100%

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

If a woman or couple is unverified, it'll need to verify they're genuine by some method prior to meeting, whether that be a call or chat. Can't be doing with timewasters

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

It is hard to get verification unless your very active on here willing to meet most people.

So it won't put us off as we always do some sort of video chat first.

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By *alsam1Couple
over a year ago

Caister

We don't have non. Plenty could verify us from vid calls but as our work times are so varied it makes a meet so damn hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has been here over a year without any then that would put me off for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off talking/meeting someone on here that has been on for quite a while with no verifications?

Although we’ve been here a while we haven’t had many meets due to our ‘free nights’ being very few and far between, we don’t have any verifications and I think it’s starting to put people off talking to us haha!

What’s your opinions? Are verifications the be all and end all?

Her x"

I’m the same so doesn’t bother me at all. People need to remember, that people have life’s.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Are you looking to meet or just chat?

Looking to meet, the issue being we could start chatting and get along with them really well but because we can’t meet at the drop of a hat we end up being forgotten lol"

It's difficult we are the same we have to plan in advance and sometimes that can be a while, if people aren't willing to wait they aren't our people.

The verifications do play a part in us choosing, having none would just probably make us more wary but wouldn't be totally off-putting.

Mrs

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