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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

somerset

so question is how much of what people say via the forums do you believe.

how much is lies, fantasy i me we see fake profiles but how many are just fake people.

do they lie just to fit in or what?

how many times have you met someone because of what they have said only to realize that it was all bullshit.

me i find it a instant red flag when someone over sells themselves for me its a filter that serves me very well ... what about you does it bother you how do you feel about it ?

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By *Mids guyMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"so question is how much of what people say via the forums do you believe.

how much is lies, fantasy i me we see fake profiles but how many are just fake people.

do they lie just to fit in or what?

how many times have you met someone because of what they have said only to realize that it was all bullshit.

me i find it a instant red flag when someone over sells themselves for me its a filter that serves me very well ... what about you does it bother you how do you feel about it ?

"

I know where your coming from with this, a lot of fantasy I think

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

At a guess, about 90% of the comments on sexual experiences are fantasy.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I actually find that there are many naive people in the forums.

I will say what I think, truthfully unless it's likely to hurt someone then I would refrain.

I also take what I'm told or read with a very large pinch of salt. The forums I use mainly as entertainment. Profiles I tend to read aren't usually bragging about their prowess, probably because I only read couples or single female profiles. The demanding ones I avoid. My profile is honest and anything I have left out but people would like to know, they can always ask.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I take anyone that talks about meeting regularly with new people with a pinch of salt

And people whose voice doesnt sound authentic

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

The people on the forums are really just a tiny proportion of the people on Fab. It has never crossed my mind that I would ever meet someone from a forum post/s, so what anyone says I really just read from interest and for entertainment, and take with a pinch of salt the self praise or bragging ones, or just skim over them anyway.

Mind you, the green arrow often sheds light on the unbelievable ones...

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

We are new to Fab and it is quite intetesting.

We are here to make contact with people that we hope to meet at clubs and to keep in touch.

But its also fun here x

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

somerset


"The people on the forums are really just a tiny proportion of the people on Fab. It has never crossed my mind that I would ever meet someone from a forum post/s, so what anyone says I really just read from interest and for entertainment, and take with a pinch of salt the self praise or bragging ones, or just skim over them anyway.

Mind you, the green arrow often sheds light on the unbelievable ones... "

thats true these forums are tiny like 1% of the site ...

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester


"so question is how much of what people say via the forums do you believe.

how much is lies, fantasy i me we see fake profiles but how many are just fake people.

do they lie just to fit in or what?

how many times have you met someone because of what they have said only to realize that it was all bullshit.

me i find it a instant red flag when someone over sells themselves for me its a filter that serves me very well ... what about you does it bother you how do you feel about it ?

"

When a 19yr old girl contacts me on here and tells me all the things she wants me to do to her, I usually assume it is fake.

Sadly if any woman contacts directly it can usually be assumed to be fake.

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester


"The people on the forums are really just a tiny proportion of the people on Fab. It has never crossed my mind that I would ever meet someone from a forum post/s, so what anyone says I really just read from interest and for entertainment, and take with a pinch of salt the self praise or bragging ones, or just skim over them anyway.

Mind you, the green arrow often sheds light on the unbelievable ones... "

I find the forum is the place where you’re most likely to ‘meet’ genuine people. Although, I must be honest, I can’t think of a single person I’ve met as a result of interaction on the forums.

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By *ary 121Man
over a year ago

East Bergholt


"so question is how much of what people say via the forums do you believe.

how much is lies, fantasy i me we see fake profiles but how many are just fake people.

do they lie just to fit in or what?

how many times have you met someone because of what they have said only to realize that it was all bullshit.

me i find it a instant red flag when someone over sells themselves for me its a filter that serves me very well ... what about you does it bother you how do you feel about it ?

When a 19yr old girl contacts me on here and tells me all the things she wants me to do to her, I usually assume it is fake.

Sadly if any woman contacts directly it can usually be assumed to be fake."
. Sad,but 110% unfortunately true I’m afraid. Although there are some genuine swingers on here unfortunately site seem awash with gentlemen,some even portraying themselves as either a couple,or a female………………so bloody annoying

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
over a year ago

somerset


"The people on the forums are really just a tiny proportion of the people on Fab. It has never crossed my mind that I would ever meet someone from a forum post/s, so what anyone says I really just read from interest and for entertainment, and take with a pinch of salt the self praise or bragging ones, or just skim over them anyway.

Mind you, the green arrow often sheds light on the unbelievable ones...

I find the forum is the place where you’re most likely to ‘meet’ genuine people. Although, I must be honest, I can’t think of a single person I’ve met as a result of interaction on the forums."

been on fab since it started and other sites before hand i have found most of the men via these forums are fantastis / dreamers / or here to masturbate only

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester


"The people on the forums are really just a tiny proportion of the people on Fab. It has never crossed my mind that I would ever meet someone from a forum post/s, so what anyone says I really just read from interest and for entertainment, and take with a pinch of salt the self praise or bragging ones, or just skim over them anyway.

Mind you, the green arrow often sheds light on the unbelievable ones...

I find the forum is the place where you’re most likely to ‘meet’ genuine people. Although, I must be honest, I can’t think of a single person I’ve met as a result of interaction on the forums.

been on fab since it started and other sites before hand i have found most of the men via these forums are fantastis / dreamers / or here to masturbate only

"

Frustrating for us, the men on here that really do meet/want to meet, that are more hedonistic, more Bohemian.

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