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By *unlunguy OP   Man
over a year ago

17510 FRANCE

How was it ladies. Were you the one leading it or did you have to be persuaded ?

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By *licia9090Woman
over a year ago

sussex

I brought it up during sex… and he went along with it

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"How was it ladies. Were you the one leading it or did you have to be persuaded ? "

I really hope that no one has been persuaded to fuck anyone….I realise that you’ve posted this for a cheap thrill but to imply that a husband could persuade his wife to have sex with another man is very wrong.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"How was it ladies. Were you the one leading it or did you have to be persuaded ?

I really hope that no one has been persuaded to fuck anyone….I realise that you’ve posted this for a cheap thrill but to imply that a husband could persuade his wife to have sex with another man is very wrong. "

Persuaded does not imply forced. Perhaps the wrong word but I get what the OP is saying. With some couples it is the lady taking the lead more keen and in others it the man. It is quite common for one half of a couple to be a bit more keen and taking the lead than the other.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Just to point out its me that would have to agree to fuck another man, not my partner.

He has his own profile so would always know who I'm chatting to or if I was planning to meet, but it would be my decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He brought it up during sex and planted the seed in my head. He knew from my reaction I found it exciting but I never intended for it to go any further. But the idea grew and sort of become a more acceptable option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I persuaded him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He brought it up during sex and planted the seed in my head. He knew from my reaction I found it exciting but I never intended for it to go any further. But the idea grew and sort of become a more acceptable option."

This is the exact path that we took. Fantasy talk during sex which eventually lead to us now having a TT FWB. We love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mentioned to the wife I'd love to watch her with another man, her first reaction was to think it was a way for me to fuck another women but she was miles off with that so when she was convinced I had no interest in fucking anyone else we started our swinging hobby..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggested it when we first got together. He made it happen and encouraged me (maybe better terminology that persuaded?) definitely didn’t force. (People need to calm down lol)

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

I wanted her to and kept saying why not. Took a while before she said ok lets do it. Now its her calling the shots lol. I never forced her just we spoke about it a lot during sex etc.

She was reserved as she didn't want to hurt our relationship and had visions of me not liking it chucking guy out and asking for a divorce lol

But now she knows it isn't like that it defiantly has brought us closer together and I trust her and she trusts me, We always talk together and no means no in any meet or potential meet.

If she doesn't like the idea of someone or i don't we just say no that's it move one.

We are selective and it works for us very well xxxx

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

We started our journey in this lifestyle as a couple because of ideas and fantasies we had been open about. Our first interactions were fairly tame with lots of rules and guidelines but those rules and limitations evolved with every experience because we discussed our feelings and what we were comfortable with each time leading us to where we are today in our relationship. We both enjoy seeing and sharing each other with others and there is still so much we have in our filthy minds that we want to try. So to answer the ops question there was no pressure or persuasion needed we just got to that point organically over time by finding out what we both enjoyed as a couple x

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By *imtoplease69Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

This is why I’m not going married

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Dirty pillow talk years ago lead to us both wanting to try (if you don't try you will never know) & fortunately for us fantasy lived up to reality and here we are.

Not easy tho is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think for many people it starts as fantasy and after so long it’s just a natural progression. And actually we can’t think of anyone who says they regretted it. Sure there is tho

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

With his best mate after a night out together. I didn't need much persuading, he was, and still is gorgeous

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport


"We started our journey in this lifestyle as a couple because of ideas and fantasies we had been open about. Our first interactions were fairly tame with lots of rules and guidelines but those rules and limitations evolved with every experience because we discussed our feelings and what we were comfortable with each time leading us to where we are today in our relationship. We both enjoy seeing and sharing each other with others and there is still so much we have in our filthy minds that we want to try. So to answer the ops question there was no pressure or persuasion needed we just got to that point organically over time by finding out what we both enjoyed as a couple x

"

Eloquently put. Mirrors our experiences x

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By *ust-for-fun-72Man
over a year ago

south shops

We are at the turning point .

Gone from pillow talk with a few glasses of red.

To what if .

Even a sober conversation if it would realy happen .

It still depends on day and mood if yes or no .

But it is now what to do I next .

She does not want just a guy to turn up.

Likes the spontaneous idear .

So poss a club and see what happens .

As still wants the easy way to say no .

We will see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you all for sharing your experiences. It's been eye opening.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

As youngsters Mr would get jealous when other guys paid me attention or if I was flirting but somewhere along the way he started to get turned on by the idea of sharing me and it started to become part of our fantasies.

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By *ust-for-fun-72Man
over a year ago

south shops

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By *ust-for-fun-72Man
over a year ago

south shops


"As youngsters Mr would get jealous when other guys paid me attention or if I was flirting but somewhere along the way he started to get turned on by the idea of sharing me and it started to become part of our fantasies."

That is so true from a hubby that felt the same .

Think it was down to thinking they are trying to get with her behind my back .

To now.

Wow they think she is attractive and she is with me ... I'm the lucky one .

If she wants a bit of fun it's with both of us to decide on .

Nothing belittling more confirming she is amazing and I'm with her

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

We started out as just horny chat but I (wifey) soon found the idea ever more interesting, we both agreed and set boundaries etc, never looked back lol x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

We agreed to meet a bi guy. He watched me playing before joining in.

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

It's absolutely amazing feeling for me as a male half watching her having fun with other man. I like being around but thinking about solo meet

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford


"I wanted her to and kept saying why not. Took a while before she said ok lets do it. Now its her calling the shots lol. I never forced her just we spoke about it a lot during sex etc.

She was reserved as she didn't want to hurt our relationship and had visions of me not liking it chucking guy out and asking for a divorce lol

But now she knows it isn't like that it defiantly has brought us closer together and I trust her and she trusts me, We always talk together and no means no

in any meet or potential meet.

If she doesn't like the idea of someone or i don't we just say no that's it move one.

We are selective and it works for us very well xxxx"

This is how we started, I encouraged her to be fair and she wanted to please me so we agreed to give it a go with the view if you don’t try you don’t know attitude, best thing ever was how Rane was pleasantly surprised how much she enjoys it, defo brought us closer as we talk more openly about sex then we did before. Communication is the key

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By *ust-for-fun-72Man
over a year ago

south shops

Oh no....

We are totally at the stage .

Gone from d*unken sex talk .

To sober would you try it ..

Very shy yes from her. But says don't know how it would affect us as a couple .

As years ago did have jealous issues.

That now has gone .

But still think she would not be happy if a girl walked past in a club and I looked too long lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirty pillow talk years ago lead to us both wanting to try (if you don't try you will never know) & fortunately for us fantasy lived up to reality and here we are.

Not easy tho is it "

Same for us too.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When hubby and I first agreed it would be ok for me to fuck another man, it took a year or so until it actually happened. Not going to just fuck anyone

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you


"When hubby and I first agreed it would be ok for me to fuck another man, it took a year or so until it actually happened. Not going to just fuck anyone "

There seems to be a misconception on here that attached women who fuck other men will fuck anybody lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When hubby and I first agreed it would be ok for me to fuck another man, it took a year or so until it actually happened. Not going to just fuck anyone

There seems to be a misconception on here that attached women who fuck other men will fuck anybody

lol"

Too right, there still has to be a connection of sort

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Started off as pillow talk and we then signed up for the site to see how it worked and that lead to our first meet.

Our rules have changed over time and we certainly don't just meet randoms at the drop of a hat.

Whilst we enjoy the swinging lifestyle it has to be the right fit or we don't meet. As much as it enhances our sex life it's an enhancement not a dependantcy for us.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne


"How was it ladies. Were you the one leading it or did you have to be persuaded ?

I really hope that no one has been persuaded to fuck anyone….I realise that you’ve posted this for a cheap thrill but to imply that a husband could persuade his wife to have sex with another man is very wrong.

Persuaded does not imply forced. Perhaps the wrong word but I get what the OP is saying. With some couples it is the lady taking the lead more keen and in others it the man. It is quite common for one half of a couple to be a bit more keen and taking the lead than the other. "
Exactly this !

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne


"We started our journey in this lifestyle as a couple because of ideas and fantasies we had been open about. Our first interactions were fairly tame with lots of rules and guidelines but those rules and limitations evolved with every experience because we discussed our feelings and what we were comfortable with each time leading us to where we are today in our relationship. We both enjoy seeing and sharing each other with others and there is still so much we have in our filthy minds that we want to try. So to answer the ops question there was no pressure or persuasion needed we just got to that point organically over time by finding out what we both enjoyed as a couple x "

This was how we started too. We were tentative at the start with many boundaries however as our experiences evolved we found ourselves going further on a meet. We have strong communication and always check how each other is feeling following a meet and so on.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield


"We started our journey in this lifestyle as a couple because of ideas and fantasies we had been open about. Our first interactions were fairly tame with lots of rules and guidelines but those rules and limitations evolved with every experience because we discussed our feelings and what we were comfortable with each time leading us to where we are today in our relationship. We both enjoy seeing and sharing each other with others and there is still so much we have in our filthy minds that we want to try. So to answer the ops question there was no pressure or persuasion needed we just got to that point organically over time by finding out what we both enjoyed as a couple x "

Filthygorgeous1 that's the hottest most arousing explanation in your forum post I've read to date on how why & the results and that you want to continue your journey taking off your wish list, encouraging eachother to explorer further how much harder longer,intence orgasms you could possibly achieve sharing each other wile loving all the pleasures you both are getting and giving

I bet the reclaim sex is even more intense than ever thought possible

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I was laying naked on our lounge floor. It was our first ever meet with a single guy. We had all previously agreed a blowjob only. Hubby was watching us. He could see I was desperate to be fucked. He said "do you want to fuck her" to the guy. Both me and the guy nodded frantically. Nature took its course and we fucked for ages on the floor. It waw so hot x

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By *ockerbeckMan
over a year ago

Northallerton

We used to use it as a fantasy when we were very young. She loved riding away on me and dropping her tits into my mouth, because of the size I could easily manoeuvre both nipples easily into my mouth, and that made her cum a lot. But I would only ever suck away at one and then switch nipples, and she got to the point where she was pleading for me to suck both. I would call her a greedy girl and make suggestions such as - pretend there is two people sucking a toy each etc. we then would talk and the conversation would go one step further what could you two with two sets of hands and two cocks to play with etc and then one day the opportunity appeared for us to to try it out.

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By *ockerbeckMan
over a year ago

Northallerton

We used to use it as a fantasy when we were very young. She loved riding away on me and dropping her tits into my mouth, because of the size I could easily manoeuvre both nipples easily into my mouth, and that made her cum a lot. But I would only ever suck away at one and then switch nipples, and she got to the point where she was pleading for me to suck both. I would call her a greedy girl and make suggestions such as - pretend there is two people sucking a toy each etc. we then would talk and the conversation would go one step further what could you two with two sets of hands and two cocks to play with etc and then one day the opportunity appeared for us to to try it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was laying naked on our lounge floor. It was our first ever meet with a single guy. We had all previously agreed a blowjob only. Hubby was watching us. He could see I was desperate to be fucked. He said "do you want to fuck her" to the guy. Both me and the guy nodded frantically. Nature took its course and we fucked for ages on the floor. It waw so hot x"

This sounds hot!!

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By *eckingHornedMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *ust-for-fun-72Man
over a year ago

south shops


"I was laying naked on our lounge floor. It was our first ever meet with a single guy. We had all previously agreed a blowjob only. Hubby was watching us. He could see I was desperate to be fucked. He said "do you want to fuck her" to the guy. Both me and the guy nodded frantically. Nature took its course and we fucked for ages on the floor. It waw so hot x"

Yep that does sound hot

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Love this my wife says if it's to happen be BJ only ..

But I know what she gets like when really turned on ...

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby


"I wanted her to and kept saying why not. Took a while before she said ok lets do it. Now its her calling the shots lol. I never forced her just we spoke about it a lot during sex etc.

She was reserved as she didn't want to hurt our relationship and had visions of me not liking it chucking guy out and asking for a divorce lol

But now she knows it isn't like that it defiantly has brought us closer together and I trust her and she trusts me, We always talk together and no means no

in any meet or potential meet.

If she doesn't like the idea of someone or i don't we just say no that's it move one.

We are selective and it works for us very well xxxx

This is how we started, I encouraged her to be fair and she wanted to please me so we agreed to give it a go with the view if you don’t try you don’t know attitude, best thing ever was how Rane was pleasantly surprised how much she enjoys it, defo brought us closer as we talk more openly about sex then we did before. Communication is the key"

100% talk talk and talk some more.

There is always jealousy and a backlash in the early days but talking resolved that for us. And even made it more exciting

If you wasn't a little fluttery in tummy then it wouldn't work, but as its your wife it's special.

But communication is 100% the most I portant thing for us and both having the ability to stop a meet at anytime with out pressure.

And the same applies to the couple or singles that meet us, if they feel uncomfortable just say and we all stop.

Have a cuppa and leave as friends.

Never do it if you don't want to for the other people or partner, that's a route to misery for sure. Xxx

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

For me it was wanting to fuck another woman.

I had told him I had this desire from a very young girl and the urge was now very strong.

I kissed a friend on a d*unk night out...felt guilty...told him...and thats where it started...

Trust me it's developed since then.

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By *uzySuzyCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

Lots of chats with hubby.. seems it turns us both on finding guys or girls to play with took a long time but well worth the wait

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

When I met my now hubby he told me that he was into the life style and showed me his profile before he deleted it.

It was me the fem that was intrigued and wanted to know more about it so I set up our profile as it was something I had never contemplated before.

He took me to a club and never looked back.

We enjoy the social side of meeting new people as much as the naughty fun and love going to private partys too.

My hubby baby loves to see me have fun with other men so who am I to complain was I get the best of both worlds. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He talked me in to it initially, took a year of persuading and roleplay. And then I persuaded us in to our first time and the rest is history.

The only regret, we didn’t do it sooner.

Now we both Want to push our boundaries further next time xx

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield


"When I met my now hubby he told me that he was into the life style and showed me his profile before he deleted it.

It was me the fem that was intrigued and wanted to know more about it so I set up our profile as it was something I had never contemplated before.

He took me to a club and never looked back.

We enjoy the social side of meeting new people as much as the naughty fun and love going to private partys too.

My hubby baby loves to see me have fun with other men so who am I to complain was I get the best of both worlds. Xxx"

The entire swing community is so grateful and quite lucky to have Doublethefun participating members in the orgasmically sharing lifestyle

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield


"Lots of chats with hubby.. seems it turns us both on finding guys or girls to play with took a long time but well worth the wait "

SuzySuzy were definitely worth the wait for all the lucky folks to get to play with them that's for sure

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By *edscpl33Couple
over a year ago

luton

We talk about it but hasnt happened yet x

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield


"We talk about it but hasnt happened yet x"

The super sexy _edscpl33's super desirable Heavenly fleshy bodies are well worth the wait when they finally go from soft swap to full swap couple look out there is going to be a lot of flowing orgasms shared by all involved

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By *yeSureMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Watching

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

She brought it up after she caught me fully dressed, returning home from work early one day. Within a week she'd bought a cage and had me in it. She swiftly made her mind up that I wasn't good enough to satisfy her, so it began.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are at the turning point .

Gone from pillow talk with a few glasses of red.

To what if .

Even a sober conversation if it would realy happen .

It still depends on day and mood if yes or no .

But it is now what to do I next .

She does not want just a guy to turn up.

Likes the spontaneous idear .

So poss a club and see what happens .

As still wants the easy way to say no .

We will see what happens "

We were at a similar point to, I brought it up a long time ago and for a long time it was a definite no but after talking about it properly and the idea behind it we were on the same page and A seemed interested. We joined here and had some fun, one spontaneous social but unfortunately never went further and it’s kind of just phased off now.

At the time though I think we were more of a spontaneous meet rather than planned socials and so on, I am happy trying a club or planning a head but ‘A’ wasn’t too fussed.

Hopefully you can go ahead with it and have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When hubby and I first agreed it would be ok for me to fuck another man, it took a year or so until it actually happened. Not going to just fuck anyone

There seems to be a misconception on here that attached women who fuck other men will fuck anybody

lol

Too right, there still has to be a connection of sort "

We both said that and agree 100%, ‘A’ made it clear that if it was going to happen we have to at least like and get on with the person and it’s not just a quick fuck and go!

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

She is free to fuck anyone , I am nobody to control her.

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By *aloo42Couple
over a year ago

preston

Enjoy watching guys perv at her in the pub, she can be a flirt in the right company. One thing led to another and here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He know what i was like when we got together. Long time later he brought it up while having fun and have not looked back. X

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