FabSwingers.com forum: Meets

By *become1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We struggle to get meets on here had a few but few and far between. Looking at our profile can you see any problems apart from our age maybe.we are a genuine normal couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just hard to connect with the right people. It's exhausting. You aren't alone op.

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

"We struggle to get meets on here had a few but few and far between. Looking at our profile can you see any problems apart from our age maybe.we are a genuine normal couple."

Sounds good to me I'd be interested , message if you like what you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We struggle to get meets on here had a few but few and far between. Looking at our profile can you see any problems apart from our age maybe.we are a genuine normal couple."

Your profile will attract men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's just hard to connect with the right people. It's exhausting. You aren't alone op."

We’re finding it hard to find a single man for a threesome to be honest too

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

"We struggle to get meets on here had a few but few and far between. Looking at our profile can you see any problems apart from our age maybe.we are a genuine normal couple."

If you weren't so far away I'd definitely meet you, either both of you or Mrs L solo.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"We struggle to get meets on here had a few but few and far between. Looking at our profile can you see any problems apart from our age maybe.we are a genuine normal couple."

From my experience of reading the many, many profile advice threads on here I’ve learned that the picture which is most likely to put people off is one of a dick hanging over a toilet….having a picture that’s a screen shot of a picture is also considered a red flag and puts people off. You’re the first I’ve seen that have combined the 2 by having a picture that’s a screen shot of a picture of a dick hanging over a toilet, I feel like i should congratulate you on managing to post a picture that will put people off for 2 reasons but instead I’ll recommend that you at least crop that picture to remove the phone screen border so people don’t know it’s a screen shot…. but i think the best option would be to just remove that picture altogether.

I didn’t bother reading past the first line of your bio because whenever someone states that they only reply to messages with face pictures attached but they haven’t shown their own face(s) on their profile I instantly lose all interest in reading any further because I can’t help but assume anyone who does that is completely self indulgent, hypocritical, inconsiderate and high maintenance. You have hidden your faces to keep your identity safe from strangers but you’re demanding other people reveal their identity to strangers (you) if they want to talk to you. We all want to know what the person we’re talking to looks like but the majority of us accept that showing your face to strangers on the internet is dangerous and people don’t want to do it so we don’t try to force them to. After chatting and getting to know each other eventually people will feel safe to show their face. I suggest you either show your faces on your profile so that it’s fair to ask others to show their faces to you or remove that line from your bio if you aren’t willing to do what you’re demanding other people do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be honest the toilet and spread bum hole pics would put us off. Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry but white only ...

this would be the main problem for me there just no need to write it on your profile just say no to those who dont fit your liking ..

getting meets with couples should be hard after all there has to be a 4 way attraction and thats super hard to find via fab or any internet site best way for couples to meet couples is clubs and build a network of friends for private meets ... im super picky with couples and other women hence i never look for this type of fun online my husband is way way more picky than me with bi men or women ... so it supose to be hard but the more time your on the scene the more friends you make the more opportunities and fun you get ... ive/ we've over 30 years on this scene our little black book is full of couples women and men

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

The graphic cock and pussy pics won't appeal to all, including the one over the toilet..

Maybe add some different pics of the male rather than just his cock.

They'd probably appeal more to men as another poster has said above.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Also you've written several times that Mr will read all messages, that may make some think Mrs isn't as into it as Mr.just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

male led couples will put alot of couples off for many reasons ... we always refused male led couples

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

"male led couples will put alot of couples off for many reasons ... we always refused male led couples"

That’s an interesting comment to us, Mrs SW and I have the common roles reversed. She has the high paid stressful job and I’m self employed, this gives me time to run the house and look after the children. However because I’m willing to do that gives her the opportunity to do the job she loves.

However that means I run our Fab account, because she doesn’t have the time. Why should people be put off because we decide to go against conventional roles.

That said if people are put off so be it, but isn’t swinging unconventional.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"We struggle to get meets on here had a few but few and far between. Looking at our profile can you see any problems apart from our age maybe.we are a genuine normal couple."

I'm not surprised the pictures are awful!.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I didn’t bother with looking at photos.

Whites only was enough to put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"male led couples will put alot of couples off for many reasons ... we always refused male led couples"

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By *llan58Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I think it's just hard to connect with the right people. It's exhausting. You aren't alone op.

We’re finding it hard to find a single man for a threesome to be honest too "

Hi, single men cant get in touch with you as you've requested no men, but i would live to get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said previously, it's a lovely profile but unfortunately the demographic on here is guys looking for females. I've been lucky enough to meet 2 couples off here, a few men and women and honestly ive had alot more luck on kink apps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly lovely profile.

Don't you feel you can simulate that loys of men are willing to join a couple but ultimately are interested in the female and maybe get a kick out of the power/masculinity of having your woman in front of you? This is genuinely a question as I've heard alot of men on the opposite side expressing that's their turn on

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By *become1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Thx guys a couple of changes made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The request for face pictures with first message when yours aren't displayed was enough for me to click away.

It's your page so you're free to set rules but I suspect a lot will not like that.

Pictures are also a little too anatomy focused for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's just hard to connect with the right people. It's exhausting. You aren't alone op.

We’re finding it hard to find a single man for a threesome to be honest too "

Your profile reads very much like you're looking for couples. I know there's lots of guys that disregard preferences but I tend to not so I would not contact you. If I wasn't sure I wouldn't contact either.

Have you tried making contact yourselves?

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By *layfullMan
over a year ago

wakefield

Anytime

Your profile pic looks gorgeous

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