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"I always cover my arms up too And would never wear a crop top either xx" Urgh no i'd never wear a crop top-no one wants to see that...its a bit '90s too isnt it? :P I'm happy with my body the way it is though-even when i was much smaller (size 8/10 at smallest) i covered up! Perhaps swinging will change that over time and i'll get more daring | |||
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"I was out with my friends the other night and said i was warm and one of the girls i was with (who knows about my swinging life) said to just take off my cardi. I said that I wouldn't because i don't like showing off my arms and she laughed because she thought it strange that i could get naked in front of total strangers but not wear a sleeveless top in a pub! That got me thinking-i really have no problem wandering round a club in stockings and a corset and posting naked photos on fab, and yet i would never go into town in a short dress without opaque tights on and i feel uncomfortable in sleeveless tops because im a firm believer of "if you don't have it, don't flaunt it!". So does anyone else feel super sexy and confident, almost exhibitionist in the swingers world and yet like to cover up in day-to-day life? Mainly for the ladies i think Lucy x" Body confidence? I have none | |||
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"I was out with my friends the other night and said i was warm and one of the girls i was with (who knows about my swinging life) said to just take off my cardi. I said that I wouldn't because i don't like showing off my arms and she laughed because she thought it strange that i could get naked in front of total strangers but not wear a sleeveless top in a pub! That got me thinking-i really have no problem wandering round a club in stockings and a corset and posting naked photos on fab, and yet i would never go into town in a short dress without opaque tights on and i feel uncomfortable in sleeveless tops because im a firm believer of "if you don't have it, don't flaunt it!". So does anyone else feel super sexy and confident, almost exhibitionist in the swingers world and yet like to cover up in day-to-day life? Mainly for the ladies i think Lucy x" i HATE my stomach and boobs,i had my son 15 yrs and have a few stretch marks!no amount of excercise can flatten me belly but im comfortable with the rest of my body | |||
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"When it came down to Body confidence I would say I would never get naked as I have always been fat but now I have had a gastric band fitted last year and now lost 5st I would as I feel better but still got some lose bits that jiggle about now " First of all, well done you! Second point I find it a bit sad that so many people have a slightly or seriosuly tainted self esteem. We are on this planet for say 7 to 8 decades if we are lucky and we spend a disproportionate amount of time worrying about not being perfect.... when really we could be so much happier if we accepted ourselves and each other as "good enough" ? | |||
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"When it came down to Body confidence I would say I would never get naked as I have always been fat but now I have had a gastric band fitted last year and now lost 5st I would as I feel better but still got some lose bits that jiggle about now First of all, well done you! Second point I find it a bit sad that so many people have a slightly or seriosuly tainted self esteem. We are on this planet for say 7 to 8 decades if we are lucky and we spend a disproportionate amount of time worrying about not being perfect.... when really we could be so much happier if we accepted ourselves and each other as "good enough" ?" Here here and thank you | |||
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"When it came down to Body confidence I would say I would never get naked as I have always been fat but now I have had a gastric band fitted last year and now lost 5st I would as I feel better but still got some lose bits that jiggle about now First of all, well done you! Second point I find it a bit sad that so many people have a slightly or seriosuly tainted self esteem. We are on this planet for say 7 to 8 decades if we are lucky and we spend a disproportionate amount of time worrying about not being perfect.... when really we could be so much happier if we accepted ourselves and each other as "good enough" ?" i think 99% of women on the planet arent completely happy with their bodies doesnt mean they have low self esteem! | |||
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"I was out with my friends the other night and said i was warm and one of the girls i was with (who knows about my swinging life) said to just take off my cardi. I said that I wouldn't because i don't like showing off my arms and she laughed because she thought it strange that i could get naked in front of total strangers but not wear a sleeveless top in a pub! That got me thinking-i really have no problem wandering round a club in stockings and a corset and posting naked photos on fab, and yet i would never go into town in a short dress without opaque tights on and i feel uncomfortable in sleeveless tops because im a firm believer of "if you don't have it, don't flaunt it!". So does anyone else feel super sexy and confident, almost exhibitionist in the swingers world and yet like to cover up in day-to-day life? Mainly for the ladies i think Lucy x" Yes. Me. I think many people do. I've always been more confident naked than dressed. | |||
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"When it came down to Body confidence I would say I would never get naked as I have always been fat but now I have had a gastric band fitted last year and now lost 5st I would as I feel better but still got some lose bits that jiggle about now First of all, well done you! Second point I find it a bit sad that so many people have a slightly or seriosuly tainted self esteem. We are on this planet for say 7 to 8 decades if we are lucky and we spend a disproportionate amount of time worrying about not being perfect.... when really we could be so much happier if we accepted ourselves and each other as "good enough" ? i think 99% of women on the planet arent completely happy with their bodies doesnt mean they have low self esteem!" Just something I have come across a few times - when not liking one part of yourself becomes not liking yourself and it is sad to see. | |||
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"i love when i go to a club like kestrels and muffled up ladies undress in the cloakroom and blossom onto the sexual butterflies and assume more confident body aware and predatory personas " and would nit it be lovely if this continued beyond? And also for men? | |||
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" I think we all have some issues with our bodies! I blame Media and advertising! " Exactly... and so unnecessary. I am not perfect either, have a few extra pounds or in swinging terms "curves" but I am more than happy to be naked | |||
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"Not so much ashamed about the size of my body, but definitely lost a lot of confidence after countless operations. "/ " In my experience people dont "see" the scars - they do notice the confident smiling person. Well most people really do. Walk tall and smile broadly | |||
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"dear nobodys theres absolutely nothing wrong with the body on your profile . i would be so glad to hold it next to me and massage it all night xx" That is such a good positive message to anybody who feels a tad less than perfect | |||
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"Its weird. I feel sexier when i have my clothes on..more to do with the suspense of them unveiling me with their eyes.. But i couldnt do naked, just not me. Prefer my slim trousers, a nicely fitted tshirt and a nice leather jacket mmmm now that is sexy! (thats just me i suppose) " There is something to be said about people ebing sexier with a little bit of covering as it leaves things to the imagination - I totally get that, too. I was just thinking that it would be nice if everybody could embrace their body as beautiful | |||
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"This is a weird one for me because I hate my body, absolutely despise it and can't look at myself in a mirror, dressed or undressed. Yet I have no problem getting totally naked at a club or a meet. I think so much of it has to do with your surroundings; in a gym changing room where most people seem to be judgemental and in search of the 'perfect body' (whatever that might be!) it's hard to get wobbly bits out. In a club where everybody is naked or nearly naked, there are ALL kinds of body types being condifently paraded around, I think it's so much easier. " Perhaps you are right - in the scene everybody is out there, all sizes and shapes etc... maybe that is what makes it easier for epople even if they dont like themselves at other times? | |||
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"I must have some I have posted naked pictures of myelf... I have a bit of wobble that I could get rid of.. but it does not hinder me from attracting the oppisite sex... " Well said, my girl | |||
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"My body confidence has certainly increased, whether Thats to do with age, or through swinging, I don't know. But in everyday life I always used to cover up in baggy clothes, now I love to wear skirts and dresses, showing off my long legs. As for being in a club I absolutely love strutting my stuff in something sexy, and think nothing of stripping off completely. " | |||
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"Even when we meet I wont get totally naked I like to wear a basque or something similar. I hate my body. My big boobs draw lots of male attention my way and its been like that since I was young ( bout 7 or 8). Ive learnt to make the most of what I have and hide the bits I wish I didnt have.lol xxx" That is almost exactly me. I'm very, very uncomfortable about being naked. I much prefer wearing something sexy like a corset, in fact I have a bit of an addiction to them due to the confidence they have given me! As for what I wear when out and about I am always covered as I have been the subject of unwanted and coarse attention since I was 11 (and shy to start off with). It hasn't helped having had partners that I know for a fact I was not their type and have openly criticised me. | |||
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"I have come home a tad upset today! Two people have commented on my gaping shirt syndrome! Made me very self concious and not happy about my body image! I know I can but bigger shirts before any one says anything... " Awe big virtual hugs D x | |||
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"I know I am old, and ugly and my body is awful, but hey I still have fun xx " so do lots of other people on here too as its not all about looks although some people would think it is. | |||
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"Definitely feel the same way! I have no issue going around Chams fully naked but i do sometimes feel uncomfortable showing too much skin out and about! It's that fine line of people judging you too much that plays on my mind. I've worked hard the last few months and have got fitter and toned, with that my confidence has grown, but it definitely is a case of changing ones body to something i feel other people will more willingly accept in public. That's life!" Same here it feels fine going round a club half naked but in a pub I cover up. I might take steps to address this. | |||
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"I have come home a tad upset today! Two people have commented on my gaping shirt syndrome! Made me very self concious and not happy about my body image! I know I can but bigger shirts before any one says anything... " Just spent over £100 on New shirts for work... retail therapy hasn't helped and I'm pd off | |||
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