FabSwingers.com forum: Trying to get a meet HELP!

By *heelz69 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure if it's my disability, profile or its just almost impossible for a single guy to catch the interest of women or couples. Been here a while now and nothing really happening as far as meeting any women or couples.

Help needed! Positive and constructive replies only please

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Your not alone mate !most guys are finding it difficult !

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Maybe rewrite some of your bio as you've mentioned face pictures once you've got chatted but have public

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By *zBoy123Man
over a year ago

London.

It's a Seller's Market, and you/we are ridiculously highly available and disposable Buyers. It's the way it's always been and won't change, unless you look like Brad Pitt or similar. Just keep slogging away or give up and try elsewhere. Yes, I've had some VERY moderate success........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has it easy on fab...

Guys often assume ladies do because they're inundated with messages, if you've an any holes a goal that maybe so, in reality nope

Couples yeah try getting two that find all attractive.. needles haystacks.

Myself I wouldn't change being a single guy on here for another gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely hard to try and get a meet mate, your definitely not alone

I send quite a few polite messages but very rarely get a reply, when I do its a "no thanks"

Obviously I can understand everybody has a different taste, it's just really difficult

My advice is just keep try I'm sure you will have some success ,I'm hoping I do

But your definitely not on your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one has it easy on fab...

Guys often assume ladies do because they're inundated with messages, if you've an any holes a goal that maybe so, in reality nope

Couples yeah try getting two that find all attractive.. needles haystacks.

Myself I wouldn't change being a single guy on here for another gender"

I would absolutely not change being on here as a single guy.

OP - try putting some more in your bio. Let your personality / who you are come through. Interact on the forums as that helps people get to know you.

Patience and enjoy the journey.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Join the club. Nowadays I just look for the forums occasionally answer a profile but with o great expectations.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Spend less time on here.

Get out and meet people face to face.

That's how people did it before the internet

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By *heelz69 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks for the advice guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine if you asked every women you pass in a town center if they liked you based on a few photos and a short biography. Most will say no thanks, even Brad Pitt would get a no.

It's no different on here really. Alot of guys join thinking it's going to be easier only to find its just as hard.

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By *heelz69 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks mate

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Problem is so many guys on here. So from our side we get 100 plus messages a day some good some not.

We always try to reply thats manners but females can be very picky and we don't sit here with our legs open waiting for the next message.

Never send a dick pic introduce yourself and be polite and kind.

I always say you wouldn't approach a girl in a pub like some of the messages we get.

We are never gonna meet ASAP with a random guy in our home with no pics etc it is stupid to think anyone would.

We always chat if they are nice and decent and approach us nicely.

But the fact is many guys don't do it for us that's just taste.

If we put new pics up etc we get bombarded and the single women on here must get it worse. We often only meet a few guys in a year so we take our time.

But there is so many guys on here thinking we are gonna drop our drawers with a crap message.

Flirt don't be sleezy, don't want to see your dick... Yet, introduce polite and respect the lady and or couple or guy you like the look of and fingers crossed will work for you. But remember it's a sausage fest so to get our attention you have to stand out.

Hope this helps a bit xxxx Mnj x

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By *knot1Man
over a year ago

plymouth

OP- For females/couples need to start with the social side at clubs/meets using this site to get the info on when and where.

Go in with no expectations and just enjoy the ride with likeminded people, many a good night with no playing to be had - eventually you will form connections and can build from there.

Definitely chin up though as we are all fighting the good fight lol.

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By *eavenindevonMan
over a year ago

exeter

Takes a while to get a meet. Sadly disability sometimes intimidates people. I've mentioned my Bipolar in conversation before and it's stopped the conversation dead! Get to know folks through the forums, cams etc and you'll find some good folks.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Not sure if it's my disability, profile or its just almost impossible for a single guy to catch the interest of women or couples. Been here a while now and nothing really happening as far as meeting any women or couples.

Help needed! Positive and constructive replies only please "

Mate, the very best I can suggest is going to socials, There is one in Manchester and I hear its very popular.

See when its on via the forums put ya name down and when on the list. Just go and have a laugh.

that way you actually get seen and chatting and you will have more of a chance of arranging something.

and good luck

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