FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get into swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me it were a club years ago. The old boardroom in Salford if anyone remembers it. Went in, had a great time and never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Split with a ex and a guy at work was a swinger who I use to talk to if he was on break at the same time

Give me the old get yourself on fab you be drowning in pussy by the weeks end so went home joined to find it was far from that seen tv/ts were here before meeting ex I had dabble a bit in my younger days

Though while I am single i experiment so closed man profile down went a bit off shopping and started a tv/ts profile

And just snowballed from there in to what it is to day

God that was close to 14 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone asked me !

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

When I came across the little black book 80s

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

i just new i wood enjoy seeing the wife with other men

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By *eachrunner1Man
over a year ago

Farnham

Short answer - Naturism.

I was a naturist first but on my travels did encounter some people having swinging fun in sand dunes on various beaches etc.

Then went to the old Kestrel Spa at Heathrow one hot Sumer day just to do some naked sunbathing and the rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old friend introduced me .

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

From webcamming with a friend that was on swinging heaven

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

For Mr's 40th and both got hooked,we definitely both enjoyed it and the social side too

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

We were talking about it for long time and started as a present to ourselves for our 15th wedding anniversary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started with my ex wife in 2010 was hooked !

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Still bloody trying to here !!!

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"For me it were a club years ago. The old boardroom in Salford if anyone remembers it. Went in, had a great time and never looked back "

Bones was modelling a two girl shoot for well known mens mag, enjoyed it so much she said we should do stuff together, then signed up to an old site that is no longer about

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Bedroom fantasy turned into reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it were a club years ago. The old boardroom in Salford if anyone remembers it. Went in, had a great time and never looked back "

I was promoting dating sites and found couples on them. So I set one up for the couples. Then I told wife and she was interested so we watched a few documnetaries on ch4/5 and decided to give it a go.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Same for me and my first wife, stimulated by Danish porn mags and readers stories in Forum and Penthouse. Suddenly we met the right people and off we went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started with a dream ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst lying in hospital, not expecting to get out I made a vow that I would live a more fun life if I survived.

Pleasures in Kent did the rest.

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By *M60Couple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

We were out out and the wife said we'd been invited back to a party only it wasnt the kind of party i expected so its her fault lol .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Went to a club with friends and been enjoying it ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Split from long term relationship..

Wanted to see what I’d been missing out on

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

Via kink I guess, been in the kink community since I was 18, though swing is something not always welcome on that side, same as kink is often not so welcomed here.

Longterm friends who dabbled in both showed me the fun side to swing. I didn't have alot of fun as a single fem though, more kinda passed around swing groups as entertainment.

We got into as a couple, just earlier this year actually after I suggested we started going to clubs. Mr had zero experience of swing or kink begore me though do I guessed I held the door open for him

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

Always been very open about what turned us on etc, led to us talking during sex to turn each other on even more. Soon developed certain specific fantasies about involving others.

Talked about it in the cold light of day, and found the idea a huge turn on, especially when Jayne confessed to being curious about playing with a woman.

One day during chat she just came out and said maybe we should try it....and the rest is history.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Someone I used to meet showed me the site,so I joined up.

I met my partner here 8 years ago and we decided we wanted to stay in the lifestyle.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

We met as 2 singles in a swinging club, been together over 5 years now.

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By *cepuncMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Back in 1999, found a couple online who were into bi mmf exchanged photos and met up in London for a social. Seemed to be so much easier back then.

Anyway the social turned into a session back at their place that lasted about 6 hours, missed my train but didn't care one bit had a fantastic first introduction to this wonderful lifestyle

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I listened to some early jazz, then voila.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"For me it were a club years ago. The old boardroom in Salford if anyone remembers it. Went in, had a great time and never looked back "

My buddy & I helped my neighbor gang bang his wife after that I was hooked

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Me and an ex wanted to try bi mmf, went from there

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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago

Northern England

2001. I was going through my divorce at the time, not in a particularly good place, and alone at my Chairman's retirement party down in Sussex.

At my table was one of our suppliers, and his lovely wife. They were from the same town as me, so we at least had something to talk about, besides my matrimonial woes!

..Well, as we talked, drank and the evening progressed; I found that my mood had lifted, and I was really enjoying their company.

Louise and I danced, and flirted, and as the three of us sat round the table at the end of the evening, she asked me if I'd like to go back to their room "for a nightcap" - accompanied by a broad smile and a theatrical wink of approval from John....

You can read the rest of the story here:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1117225

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

Was looking for a 3sum, a male friend showed me the site

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By *uriousBeastMan
over a year ago

London

Approached directly by a lovely couple who were staying at the same hotel as me when I was on vacation.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

A lovely woman.

We met on another site, she is on here.

She gave me times I will never forget

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Talking to each other…….when you both equally like a mutual female friend…..you know there is something in the water!

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Decided to spice things up and thought we would give it a try

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"For me it were a club years ago. The old boardroom in Salford if anyone remembers it. Went in, had a great time and never looked back "

Who could ever forget the Boardroom? Probably the tackiest club ever but had some great fun in there. The second club I ever visited.

How did we get into swinging?

For me (Mr) it was a very long time ago, late 80's.

It was towards the end of my first, pretty sexless, marriage and I was getting the occasional one night stand from the Loot ads (remember them?)

I got a reply from a couple who wanted to meet. To be honest I was a bit shocked, I'd never had sex with a woman while hubby watched, but hey, it was fun.

They then told me about a swinger club. WTF is a swinger club I thought. As far as I knew then, swingers were people who lived in California and chucked car keys in a bowl. But a swinger club in MANCHESTER!

They told me about the Adam & Eve in Eccles so next time I got a free night I gave it a go. It opened up a whole new world for me.

After that I was in and out of the scene for years in the UK. Both as a single guy and with a couple of G/F's and even did a little when I moved to Spain.

When I met the now Mrs H I told her very early on about what I'd done in the past. She was quite cool about it but made it clear that she could "NEVER do anything like that"

Around 3 years later we watched a program on German TV about swinger clubs. She actually told me about it and said she wanted to watch it. Needless to say, I didn't argue.

After we'd watched it she went very quiet for about half an hour. I tried to get some conversation but just got one word answers.

Then completely out of the blue she said "I want to go to one.......pause......Just for a look.

OK but then I had to think which one? I didn't really know any German ones then. However I had been to Fun4two in Holland with an ex G/F and figured out that it was around a 2 hour drive for us.

A couple of weeks later, off we went and although neither of us did any real playing she loved it and was hooked.

14 years on and we are still going to clubs although not as often as we used to.

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I found out about dogging at 17.

And here I am

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By *xile down SouthMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Years ago my ex wife and I were on holiday, on the nudist beach, ended up chatting to a really nice couple.

Arranged to meet up with them that evening for a drink, they invited us back to their villa for a nightcap and it went from there.

Been divorced for years now, only found out about FAB from a couple I met in Greece on holiday this summer.

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By *ay_bee500Man
over a year ago

Dover

Runs in the family lol

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I was reading an autobiography of a call girl. She mentioned a swinging website and spoke about the lifestyle

I put the book down, typed in the web address she mentioned and the rest is history. That was about 10 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some late night internet browsing 3 years ago and Here I am totally indulged still

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I was out with a few friends and after a few drinks a good friend told me about this place and that maybe I should look at it, she said it it was good and a safe place to be. The rest is history and yes she knows anm here and no she is a friend but not that sort lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby wanted to see me with another guy. We attended a club a few years ago and fulfilled that fantasy. From then on we have enjoyed club nites and social events and some meets.

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