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"Flashing strangers isn't acceptable to be honest. If I was visiting a house for a non-sexual reason and somebody answered the door naked to get their kicks I would not be happy at all." I can understand your view on this | |||
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"Flashing strangers isn't acceptable to be honest. If I was visiting a house for a non-sexual reason and somebody answered the door naked to get their kicks I would not be happy at all." Exactly this. How fucking narcissistic do you have to be to assume that anybody else wants to see it while they’re just doing their job?  | |||
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"I can hear the stomping footsteps of the non consenting brigade all ready! Good luck x" It’s morally wrong not to have consent and probably illegal. It’s not hard to work out is it? | |||
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"I can hear the stomping footsteps of the non consenting brigade all ready! Good luck x It’s morally wrong not to have consent and probably illegal. It’s not hard to work out is it? " Not at all no! I was merely making a observation!  x | |||
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"Im guessing it all depends on your views about this but if i was a delivery guy i wouldnt be offended if a women answered the door naked and i doubt many men would be unless they prove me wrong on here "And what about me as a bi man? What if I answer to you naked? | |||
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"Im guessing it all depends on your views about this but if i was a delivery guy i wouldnt be offended if a women answered the door naked and i doubt many men would be unless they prove me wrong on here "Follow the link to the thread I posted above and you will see one man very offended. | |||
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"Im guessing it all depends on your views about this but if i was a delivery guy i wouldnt be offended if a women answered the door naked and i doubt many men would be unless they prove me wrong on here
And what about me as a bi man? What if I answer to you naked?"Same applies, im not offended by a naked body. | |||
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"Im guessing it all depends on your views about this but if i was a delivery guy i wouldnt be offended if a women answered the door naked and i doubt many men would be unless they prove me wrong on here
Follow the link to the thread I posted above and you will see one man very offended. "So why are you offended by someone being naked ? | |||
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"Im guessing it all depends on your views about this but if i was a delivery guy i wouldnt be offended if a women answered the door naked and i doubt many men would be unless they prove me wrong on here
And what about me as a bi man? What if I answer to you naked?
Same applies, im not offended by a naked body."Not offended is different to welcoming it. | |||
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"I'm not talking any form of sexual contact here, its just a dare opening the door naked to someone. If you tried to make a sexual gesture that would be different" What would be your rationale for doing it? What would you get from doing it? | |||
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"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1519003 The other side of the coin " Exaclty my thoughts | |||
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"Im guessing it all depends on your views about this but if i was a delivery guy i wouldnt be offended if a women answered the door naked and i doubt many men would be unless they prove me wrong on here
Follow the link to the thread I posted above and you will see one man very offended.
So why are you offended by someone being naked ?"Personally I wouldn’t mind but I can understand how some would not like. Read the thread. | |||
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"Flashing strangers isn't acceptable to be honest. If I was visiting a house for a non-sexual reason and somebody answered the door naked to get their kicks I would not be happy at all." This. | |||
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"Flashing strangers isn't acceptable to be honest. If I was visiting a house for a non-sexual reason and somebody answered the door naked to get their kicks I would not be happy at all. This. "  | |||
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"Wilma's done a couple of these, the guys loved it !!!!" Ooh, I'd like to deliver something to Wilma! | |||
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"I was browsing porn as you do while at work and saw a few of the pizza dare videos so thought id ask, has anyone on here ever done it or anything similar with any delivery guy etc ? "It's fine if you are being cheeky and flirty or suggestive but if it's awkward or predatory in a situation where fonrone us just earning their living then I'd say it's pretty wrong to do. Very different if the flirting happens naturally of course but don't make things awkward. | |||
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"Flashing strangers isn't acceptable to be honest. If I was visiting a house for a non-sexual reason and somebody answered the door naked to get their kicks I would not be happy at all. I can understand your view on this" __ Please do read the forum post that was mentioned above, written from the point of view of the delivery person and how that is having a negative impact on them as a couple. Roleplay with someone you know and it's agreed, that's fine. Doing it with a stranger, it's a big NO. There's no consent. What do you or your partner do for a living? What about your children or your family? Just think how would you feel about someone harassing and flashing any of them whilst they are at work? How about the boss flashing his cock in the office for a dare? Or would you think it acceptable to flash a random person in the street? If not, why you think a pizza delivery or Amazon delivery person is acceptable? | |||
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"Flashing strangers isn't acceptable to be honest. If I was visiting a house for a non-sexual reason and somebody answered the door naked to get their kicks I would not be happy at all." | |||
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"Im guessing it all depends on your views about this but if i was a delivery guy i wouldnt be offended if a women answered the door naked and i doubt many men would be unless they prove me wrong on here "I have created a forum post about delivery drivers being flashed, my husband is one and faces this weekly, and can confirm that no not every man feels comfortable with this as quite a few have also stated as delivery drivers. | |||
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"I was browsing porn as you do while at work and saw a few of the pizza dare videos so thought id ask, has anyone on here ever done it or anything similar with any delivery guy etc ? "Come on, surely you know that everyone in that porn video would have concented right? | |||
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"I was browsing porn as you do while at work and saw a few of the pizza dare videos so thought id ask, has anyone on here ever done it or anything similar with any delivery guy etc ? "I’m starting a delivery job soon for some extra cash on the side so I’ll come back and let you know if I get lucky lol | |||
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"very scummy to flash those who have given you no consent to be flashed and it would do good for people to read up on whats lawfull and whats not. i find it very strange that some swingers think no consent is ok when the whole swinging and kink scene is built on consent. flashing is unlawful and with all these new laws om sending pics and this includes flashing its now can carry a prison term but it ok cause its just funny aint it until it happens to someone you know like son/daughter /family yeah funny when its no one you know i also thought fab shut down threads that are unlawful ?? or is flashing ok cause well you know its funny cause we are swingers .... its gross simple as consenting people can do what they want but leave those who have not consented out of it what next its ok to grope" ___ Totally agree, same views here about consent. I think this kind of threads should not be shut down. People who do not care about consent will do it any way, so shutting down threads will hardly help. Instead, the threads are an opportunity to discuss what's legal or not legal (I have learnt a bit now in threads like this), and what is OK or wrong, even if it is legal. Also, to prove that not every man thinks the same, and many delivery people here saying that they do not like it. People like the OP here wont care, no matter what others say, and go ahead, and only would change his mind if someone flashes to his mother, wife or children. But others who may have thought initially that it was harmless fun may change their minds if they read from delivery people who clearly feel that they do not like it and it is not fun for them. | |||
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"What if ……. The pizza guys surprised you instead with their cock sticking out the pizza box as they open the lid "“It just got interesting!” | |||
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"I can hear the stomping footsteps of the non consenting brigade all ready! Good luck x" Yeah, imagine thinking consent is important.  | |||
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"I can hear the stomping footsteps of the non consenting brigade all ready! Good luck x Yeah, imagine thinking consent is important. "Exactly! | |||
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"very scummy to flash those who have given you no consent to be flashed and it would do good for people to read up on whats lawfull and whats not. i find it very strange that some swingers think no consent is ok when the whole swinging and kink scene is built on consent. flashing is unlawful and with all these new laws om sending pics and this includes flashing its now can carry a prison term but it ok cause its just funny aint it until it happens to someone you know like son/daughter /family yeah funny when its no one you know i also thought fab shut down threads that are unlawful ?? or is flashing ok cause well you know its funny cause we are swingers .... its gross simple as consenting people can do what they want but leave those who have not consented out of it what next its ok to grope" It is not unlawful per se to answer the door of your own house naked. It is a grey area. I think it is if you have a boner or if deliberately try to shock and intimidate and make it sexual. Can't remember the exact words now. But just being naked does not make it a crime. You can be naked in public as well and it not be a crime - naked bike rides for example. | |||
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"very scummy to flash those who have given you no consent to be flashed and it would do good for people to read up on whats lawfull and whats not. i find it very strange that some swingers think no consent is ok when the whole swinging and kink scene is built on consent. flashing is unlawful and with all these new laws om sending pics and this includes flashing its now can carry a prison term but it ok cause its just funny aint it until it happens to someone you know like son/daughter /family yeah funny when its no one you know i also thought fab shut down threads that are unlawful ?? or is flashing ok cause well you know its funny cause we are swingers .... its gross simple as consenting people can do what they want but leave those who have not consented out of it what next its ok to grope It is not unlawful per se to answer the door of your own house naked. It is a grey area. I think it is if you have a boner or if deliberately try to shock and intimidate and make it sexual. Can't remember the exact words now. But just being naked does not make it a crime. You can be naked in public as well and it not be a crime - naked bike rides for example. " if reported and taken to court you would have to prove that you did not answer the door naked to cause harm so youve clearly caused harm because it was reported there would be no excuse to answer the door to a stranger naked as that stranger would have not consented sp whiles i agree it can be grey in some areas its very black and white else where . if someone wants to chance that then fine but it does not deter its from a again fact that you are knowingly being scummy and creepy for a thrill that is non consental these who are flashing are the same couples and women who throw there toys out the pram when they get a unexpected grope but hey its ok to flash yet they call themselves swingers where consent is everything they are not swingers just creepy people who got no repect and have no idea what consent is until it afects them | |||
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"very scummy to flash those who have given you no consent to be flashed and it would do good for people to read up on whats lawfull and whats not. So your saying that if i had a grudge against someone then all i have to do is say that they opened the door to me naked and they would be in trouble ? i find it very strange that some swingers think no consent is ok when the whole swinging and kink scene is built on consent. flashing is unlawful and with all these new laws om sending pics and this includes flashing its now can carry a prison term but it ok cause its just funny aint it until it happens to someone you know like son/daughter /family yeah funny when its no one you know i also thought fab shut down threads that are unlawful ?? or is flashing ok cause well you know its funny cause we are swingers .... its gross simple as consenting people can do what they want but leave those who have not consented out of it what next its ok to grope It is not unlawful per se to answer the door of your own house naked. It is a grey area. I think it is if you have a boner or if deliberately try to shock and intimidate and make it sexual. Can't remember the exact words now. But just being naked does not make it a crime. You can be naked in public as well and it not be a crime - naked bike rides for example. if reported and taken to court you would have to prove that you did not answer the door naked to cause harm so youve clearly caused harm because it was reported there would be no excuse to answer the door to a stranger naked as that stranger would have not consented sp whiles i agree it can be grey in some areas its very black and white else where . if someone wants to chance that then fine but it does not deter its from a again fact that you are knowingly being scummy and creepy for a thrill that is non consental these who are flashing are the same couples and women who throw there toys out the pram when they get a unexpected grope but hey its ok to flash yet they call themselves swingers where consent is everything they are not swingers just creepy people who got no repect and have no idea what consent is until it afects them" | |||
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"very scummy to flash those who have given you no consent to be flashed and it would do good for people to read up on whats lawfull and whats not. So your saying that if i had a grudge against someone then all i have to do is say that they opened the door to me naked and they would be in trouble ? i find it very strange that some swingers think no consent is ok when the whole swinging and kink scene is built on consent. flashing is unlawful and with all these new laws om sending pics and this includes flashing its now can carry a prison term but it ok cause its just funny aint it until it happens to someone you know like son/daughter /family yeah funny when its no one you know i also thought fab shut down threads that are unlawful ?? or is flashing ok cause well you know its funny cause we are swingers .... its gross simple as consenting people can do what they want but leave those who have not consented out of it what next its ok to grope It is not unlawful per se to answer the door of your own house naked. It is a grey area. I think it is if you have a boner or if deliberately try to shock and intimidate and make it sexual. Can't remember the exact words now. But just being naked does not make it a crime. You can be naked in public as well and it not be a crime - naked bike rides for example. if reported and taken to court you would have to prove that you did not answer the door naked to cause harm so youve clearly caused harm because it was reported there would be no excuse to answer the door to a stranger naked as that stranger would have not consented sp whiles i agree it can be grey in some areas its very black and white else where . if someone wants to chance that then fine but it does not deter its from a again fact that you are knowingly being scummy and creepy for a thrill that is non consental these who are flashing are the same couples and women who throw there toys out the pram when they get a unexpected grope but hey its ok to flash yet they call themselves swingers where consent is everything they are not swingers just creepy people who got no repect and have no idea what consent is until it afects them" | |||
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"very scummy to flash those who have given you no consent to be flashed and it would do good for people to read up on whats lawfull and whats not. i find it very strange that some swingers think no consent is ok when the whole swinging and kink scene is built on consent. flashing is unlawful and with all these new laws om sending pics and this includes flashing its now can carry a prison term but it ok cause its just funny aint it until it happens to someone you know like son/daughter /family yeah funny when its no one you know i also thought fab shut down threads that are unlawful ?? or is flashing ok cause well you know its funny cause we are swingers .... its gross simple as consenting people can do what they want but leave those who have not consented out of it what next its ok to grope It is not unlawful per se to answer the door of your own house naked. It is a grey area. I think it is if you have a boner or if deliberately try to shock and intimidate and make it sexual. Can't remember the exact words now. But just being naked does not make it a crime. You can be naked in public as well and it not be a crime - naked bike rides for example. if reported and taken to court you would have to prove that you did not answer the door naked to cause harm so youve clearly caused harm because it was reported there would be no excuse to answer the door to a stranger naked as that stranger would have not consented sp whiles i agree it can be grey in some areas its very black and white else where . if someone wants to chance that then fine but it does not deter its from a again fact that you are knowingly being scummy and creepy for a thrill that is non consental these who are flashing are the same couples and women who throw there toys out the pram when they get a unexpected grope but hey its ok to flash yet they call themselves swingers where consent is everything they are not swingers just creepy people who got no repect and have no idea what consent is until it afects them" It’s not that you caused harm/offence it is that you intended to. That is hard to prove. Answering the door with a hard on or fingers playing with your clit would be different from just answering the door naked in that sense. Even that is hard to prove without video. Has something like this ever gone to court and somebody been convicted? Genuine question - I don’t know. | |||
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"NOT SURE WHY IT COPPIED ALL THAT ? So your saying that if i had a grudge against someone then all i have to do is say that they opened the door to me naked and they would be in trouble " There's a lot of grey areas in the law. But the point really is, the pizza delivery guy did not consent to seeing that or being a part of getting you off. And should not have to be exposed to such when they're just trying to do their job, which often isn't a job done out of passion but necessity. So don't do that shit  | |||
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"Ok how about having sex in a hotel window. I’m sure most of us have done this?" Is it a ground floor window facing a path or deliberate public area? Close the damn curtains and have some respect for the people who arent asking for that shit. You're somewhere people have to actively look up with the intention of seeing into hotel windows? You do you. | |||
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"I agree with both of you but also where’s the fun in that. It’s a fine line" Where's the fun in respecting other people's choice to consent you mean? | |||
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"How do we all feel about dirty old men in parks flashing passers by? It's pretty much the same thing isn't it?" It is, but remember, pizza delivery people are NPCs, they’re not real, they are just there to facilitate the main character’s fantasies. Mr DD | |||
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"I was browsing porn as you do while at work and saw a few of the pizza dare videos so thought id ask, has anyone on here ever done it or anything similar with any delivery guy etc ? ". A lot of the ones on porn sites are set ups anyway | |||
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"Being naked is not against the law in England." it’s not actually only if it’s done to cause offence the law says I done know how it stands if your in your own home but it’s not really acceptable | |||
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"Being naked is not against the law in England. it’s not actually only if it’s done to cause offence the law says I done know how it stands if your in your own home but it’s not really acceptable " Being naked is perfectly acceptable. Deliberately causing alarm or distress is not. Swinging your door open while buck naked to a visitor would probably cause anyone a bit of alarm. Some might experience distress. Some might love it. Problem is, you don’t know who will and who won’t. If it’s a visitor who’s been before, you might have some history or idea if they’re for or against the idea but even then you could be wrong. | |||
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"Being naked is not against the law in England. it’s not actually only if it’s done to cause offence the law says I done know how it stands if your in your own home but it’s not really acceptable Being naked is perfectly acceptable. Deliberately causing alarm or distress is not. Swinging your door open while buck naked to a visitor would probably cause anyone a bit of alarm. Some might experience distress. Some might love it. Problem is, you don’t know who will and who won’t. If it’s a visitor who’s been before, you might have some history or idea if they’re for or against the idea but even then you could be wrong. Well said " | |||
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"So I just changed channels on my tv and saw couples rambling naked…. I had no choice in seeing this, even if just for a few seconds… Im outraged at being forced to partake in their games " | |||
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"Too many replies here about what is legal or not legal, about the intentions to cause alarm or distress, about the right to be a nudist, whether in your own house or out, whether the person may like it or not. None of that should matter. Ultimately, no one should expose themselves on purpose to a random person without their consent to get a kick out of it, because doing it on purpose (e.g. as a dare) becomes a sexual act. Do it if you want to, but be prepared to be told by many here that you are defending sexual harassment. Sexual harassment is making others experience unwanted behaviour of a sexual nature. Since it is a random delivery person, you cannot know in advance if this will be wanted or not. Sexual harassment law does not apply here, since sexual harassment is not always protected by law. It is at the workplace or with minors, but not in the street. If you say to a lady that you cross in the street "what a lovely pair of boobs you have", it is sexual harassment and despicable but not criminal. If you are happy to flash the delivery person and take the chance to upset him or her, then go ahead but at least now you know that it is not just a laugh for all, and for the receiver it may be sexual harassment." | |||
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"I was browsing porn as you do while at work and saw a few of the pizza dare videos so thought id ask, has anyone on here ever done it or anything similar with any delivery guy etc ? . A lot of the ones on porn sites are set ups anyway "All the professional porn ones are staged and OF creators ones. Simply as visa / Mastercard won’t allow content to be processed that doesn’t have verified consent / 2257 / government id paperwork for all persons in the scene | |||
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