FabSwingers.com forum: Couples with fake straight males

By *uni OP Couple
over a year ago

city center

I wonder what's the problem of bi men openly say that they are bi. We've seen couples where they say on their profile the man is straight but then message us saying he is actually bi. Why don't simply admit that from the get go? I mean, I don't feel attracted to men as I do to women, but am open play with a couple with a bi man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men don’t admit it because many women say they only want straight guys. Straight is seen as masculine. I think this also applies to married men.

Look at how many gay, or bi men saying they are looking for ‘straight’ guys. Erm. If they’re truly straight, well they won’t be rattling another blokes bones. What they mean is, they want a masculine man.

I get viewed quite a bit by ‘straight’ married couples. I assume it’s actually the man viewing me. It rarely goes anywhere as the guy struggles to tell the wife he wants to share me.

I do however manage to get to see bi couples more as I’m not someone who says they’re bi just to get access to the woman and isn’t interested in the man or the dynamics. Hey, I’m an equal opportunities bi guy!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Personally I think many on here "adjust" their sexuality depending on the "opportunity" of the moment and of course the isnt a "FAB Straight" option lol

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By *uni OP Couple
over a year ago

city center

I assume the bi-curious is the fab straight. As in, a guy that is into women but wouldn't mind adventure into the bi side in right setting.

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By *uni OP Couple
over a year ago

city center

"Single men don’t admit it because many women say they only want straight guys. Straight is seen as masculine. I think this also applies to married men.

I get viewed quite a bit by ‘straight’ married couples. I assume it’s actually the man viewing me. It rarely goes anywhere as the guy struggles to tell the wife he wants to share me.

Ahah yeah, I've seen those. Straight masculine guys that wouldn't mind suck some meaty sausage

Also got those, we are a couple but my wife doesn't know that I have bi tendencies. I just think, what the real f! what do you expect, to meet and then we have a 4some and all of the sudden your wife finds out when I have my d. in your a.s?

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By *ohemianBristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol

" Why don't simply admit that from the get go?"

I think Fab is a double edged sword for having Bi on your profile, if you have Bi, you might miss out on opportunities with straight and vice versa. Its a fickle place!

I've definitely hopped back and forth and noticed better success with having straight, but that's only my experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this a lot, and guys who claim to be bi but say.. don’t wanna get swamped by gay guys, yet their profile is terrible lol.. just be open and after all , if you don’t want a verification from a bi couple just say so.. it’s no big deal

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've noticed the same - straight guys in couples who want to suck your cock, and bi-curious ones who want to be fucked. It wouldn't matter except that by excluding straights and bi-curious in searches, one could be missing out on a lot of potential matches, but also avoid wasting time contacting those who really aren't interested in bi-play. If only everybody wrote full profiles and were honest about their wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are some people really that judgemental here?

Does that also mean some people might be suspecting men who say they're straight are actually bi or bi-curious?

I had to block single men because some kept trying to 'seduce' me. And it turns out most of my profile views were from men

I'm not a traditionally masculine guy but I'm totally straight. I guess I could understand why someone may think otherwise about me

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Our profile is both straight. We are each attracted to the opposite. If Lena (Mrs) likes the male and I like the female, we are in business. I do not care what the male looks like and she does not bother about the female. That has never stopped us from messaging, meeting or playing with a part-bi or both-bi couple. We always ask if they are ok with playing straight. That's the baseline because we guarantee to them our attraction to the opposite and become the rules agreed by the 4 of us. If, during the meeting, we all agree to change the rules and have some bi interaction, then that's also all right, but only as an add on because we would never agree to it beforehand. What we what is people respectful of our boundaries, without meaning that the boundaries cannot move if all 4 agree to move them

In summary, I think people should stop looking at labels and filters in Fab as if they are a contract or a set menu and more information to guide and inform the conversation with another couple into what the expectations would be for a play meet.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

If not happy move on.

Block if you wish, let people do or be what they want.

Today I'm batman. Yesterday I was the punisher

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

What would you do if a so called straight fella tried to get your winky?

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By *ure_heatMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It's been much more productive, I think, for me being honest about being bi. Particularly with couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you do if a so called straight fella tried to get your winky?

Winky…!!!!! Is that an actual adult word

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"What would you do if a so called straight fella tried to get your winky?

Winky…!!!!! Is that an actual adult word "

It is if I want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Why don't simply admit that from the get go?

I think Fab is a double edged sword for having Bi on your profile, if you have Bi, you might miss out on opportunities with straight and vice versa. Its a fickle place!

I've definitely hopped back and forth and noticed better success with having straight, but that's only my experience!"

Exactly this

We get single "straight" guys messaging us saying they are bi but don't have it on their profile as they feel is stops couples contacting them.

We've been on here about 10 years and have seen a change in the profiles who contact us since we both changed out profile to bi-curious.

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Im bi and I'm manly as fuck. Honest.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

On Fab, you're considered a prude if you're a straight woman and dirty if you're a bi man.

When Rob came out as bi on here, a straight couple who we'd met a few times blocked us. There's still a lot of prejudice and double standards towards bi men on here. I'm absolutely not surprised so many men hide their true sexuality.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I wonder what's the problem of bi men openly say that they are bi. We've seen couples where they say on their profile the man is straight but then message us saying he is actually bi. Why don't simply admit that from the get go? I mean, I don't feel attracted to men as I do to women, but am open play with a couple with a bi man."

Some people are bi curious and some people just kinky. It's not black and white. I set my profile to bi, but in reality I count as a really limited bi.

Some bi guys said straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just bi as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On Fab, you're considered a prude if you're a straight woman and dirty if you're a bi man.

100% This

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Love it or hate it I'm bi and won't hide that fact to please anyone.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"On Fab, you're considered a prude if you're a straight woman and dirty if you're a bi man.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"On Fab, you're considered a prude if you're a straight woman and dirty if you're a bi man.

100% This

You're 100% lucky with that lady in you.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

We won't meet bi male couples as it's just not our thing, it's easy to see from what they're looking for or previous meets if they're not telling the truth. Each to their own though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We won't meet bi male couples as it's just not our thing, it's easy to see from what they're looking for or previous meets if they're not telling the truth. Each to their own though. "

Why though? What puts you off?

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

I’m bi curious on profile as I’m wanting to explore and try. 0 experience so change between straight and curious.

I don’t understand why some straight couples don’t meet bi guys? Happily meet a couple and all attention will be on female; as I’m meeting a straight couple I wouldn’t just grab the guy… equally with 0 warning. It’s like the straight couple are worried something may happen.

Some won’t talk to me as I’m not set to straight and some won’t talk to me as I’m bi curious and 0 experience and potentially fake bi to meet female in couple.

So can’t really win! Ha

Let’s just forget about labels and be adults and discuss likes dislikes etc instead

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

"We won't meet bi male couples as it's just not our thing, it's easy to see from what they're looking for or previous meets if they're not telling the truth. Each to their own though.

Why though? What puts you off?"

The fella is straight and it's just personal preference for us, it's like anything we all have our own sexual preferences.

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