FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies how vocal are you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have always struggled been vocal when it comes to sex to many bad experiences in my past. However my man loves it. I will try and say things during sex but honestly I always feel like it sounds stupid. Anyone else struggle with this. Any ladies that have overcome this that can give me some pointers.

I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I'm pretty vocal...my buddy used to throw cushions on my face to shut me if we stayed somewhere

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm pretty vocal...my buddy used to throw cushions on my face to shut me if we stayed somewhere

You see vocal as in moaning that is very natural to me and comes easy but using actual words saying things I know he wished I would say that's the part I struggle with

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Although my husband told me I was vocal during sex I always thought I was quiet while fucking, but some of the movies we've made of me fucking another guy (or guys) since we started swinging proves that he was right and I was wrong.!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

[Removed by poster at 15/10/23 12:35:01]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Vocal yes, verbal not so much.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Vocal yes, verbal not so much."

Yeah sounds like me the verbal doesn't seem to come out

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I have always struggled been vocal when it comes to sex to many bad experiences in my past. However my man loves it. I will try and say things during sex but honestly I always feel like it sounds stupid. Anyone else struggle with this. Any ladies that have overcome this that can give me some pointers.

I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.

Mrs "

If the man does his part I scream the place down.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.

Mrs

If the man does his part I scream the place down."

Oh I scream and moan not a problem but the verbal that he wants that is what is a problem

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It absolutely depends on the partner & how relaxed I am also how much I'm enjoying it.

I won't fake it so sometimes I'm quiet others very loud

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nsatiableFunCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I absolutely love Mrs making noises when she's enjoying herself, from moans while shes sucking cock to an screaming when she's getting fucked.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I absolutely love Mrs making noises when she's enjoying herself, from moans while shes sucking cock to an screaming when she's getting fucked. "

Yes but what about actually been verbal saying words.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty vocal unless I'm gagged, I think start by when he does something you really like tell him your enjoying it, it doesn't have to sound forced or cheesy, maybes start be simple words like "I love when you touch me like that"! Then see how it progresses

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm pretty vocal unless I'm gagged, I think start by when he does something you really like tell him your enjoying it, it doesn't have to sound forced or cheesy, maybes start be simple words like "I love when you touch me like that"! Then see how it progresses "

Thanks

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Whisper in his ear, you dont need volume to get his attention..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’ve met a few that told me fuck off quite loudly

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm very noisy not necessarily vocal, although I do have a potty mouth on me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Do you know what you would like to say, or your partner would like to hear?

There’s nothing stopping you practicing saying these things when you are alone…and the more you practice saying them, the less stupid they will sound as you become more used to it, and the more comfortable you’ll feel saying them in the heat of the moment.

Of course, if you don’t want to say anything then don’t!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Our video posted 2nd October 2020 is an example of Willow being vocal

can only do this when we have the house to ourselves. Just lose inhibitions in the moment.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been told I moan and I’m very vocal during sex. I don’t even notice that I’m doing it Just comes naturally. I wouldn’t try and force anything just enjoy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Fairly vocal I think, usually moans, oh god/yes/fuck and sometimes verbal - that feels good don't stop etc. In terms of actual dirty talk less so. I find it hard, usually say something very cringy and then end up with the giggles.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

My wife is very quite, very really moans let alone says sexy things like fuck me etc, even when I fuck her really hard she doesn’t moan!! Even thou she does cum, everyone is different. I wash she made more noise!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but how do i tell my man or any guy what i want because other than general noise and moans im basically mute and cant express what i want?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"but how do i tell my man or any guy what i want because other than general noise and moans im basically mute and cant express what i want?"

If he's going down on you, you could grip his hair and hold him in place if it was something you liked

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but how do i tell my man or any guy what i want because other than general noise and moans im basically mute and cant express what i want?

If he's going down on you, you could grip his hair and hold him in place if it was something you liked"

Yeah I do that any way but he wants me to express verbally what I want

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sxxxWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Vocal if it's amazing sex and turned on. I'm not vocal if it's not that good and I can't get in the mood ( think corpse like lol)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife is very vocal , especially when more than 1 guy giving her attention

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh the sex is great, but he has to guess what i'm wanting as i struggle to say

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Absolutely love Women being vocal/dirty talking either with me or solo play and I won't watch porn without audio, But as much as I love it, Its my Achilles heel and can at times send me over the edge before I want to finish

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"but how do i tell my man or any guy what i want because other than general noise and moans im basically mute and cant express what i want?"

Are you vocal when playing alone ?

You could practice when no one is around, Shut your eyes imagine he is fucking you and start by saying things in your head, keep describing it until you're saying it out loud, Don't know what your partner wants to hear but keep it simple,

Fuck me harder, I want you to make me cum etc

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unnybunsWoman
over a year ago

Between here and over there

"but how do i tell my man or any guy what i want because other than general noise and moans im basically mute and cant express what i want?"

Tell them how they feel inside you, tell them how you feel about them at that very moment and it usually just goes from there for me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.

Mrs "

I'm not vocal at all during sex. Trained myself so parents didn't hear lol. Unfortunately some guys think I'm not enjoying myself because I'm so quiet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh the sex is great, but he has to guess what i'm wanting as i struggle to say"

Try not to put yourself under pressure.

Start in a small way, tell him it feels good, that you want it faster, harder, slower.

Ask him to go down on you.

Small steps and it will get easier x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in moans? Very.

I’m getting better at being a talker!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've to bite down on something or I'll scream the house down

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends but can be very....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aloo42Couple
over a year ago

preston

Very

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well last night i was able to get out little bits last night about what i wanted in between orgasms and moans, and what a reaction. lets just say its a good job we have waterproof sheets!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no idea how noisy I was until Iv been filmed

Completely losing control and will I think explain why I’m a bit of a squirter

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

"It absolutely depends on the partner & how relaxed I am also how much I'm enjoying it.

I won't fake it so sometimes I'm quiet others very loud

Mrs"

Fake verbal and moaning is the awful and so obvious. “yeah yeahhhh yeahhhhhhh.” Ohhhhh go and get us a drink!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It absolutely depends on the partner & how relaxed I am also how much I'm enjoying it.

I won't fake it so sometimes I'm quiet others very loud

Mrs

Fake verbal and moaning is the awful and so obvious. “yeah yeahhhh yeahhhhhhh.” Ohhhhh go and get us a drink!"

no point faking things, otherwise you just repeat bad experiences. luckily not had this problem, more just a mental block on saying what i want rather than my fella having to judge from my body

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Mrs A is very loud. We are wandering how much our neighbours can hear and it's probably quite a lot

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very. Had hotel complaints lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nsatiableFunCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.

Mrs "

As Mr said I can be very noisy when lost in the moment but also vocal too. Sometime very dirty talk and sometimes just a "mmmm that feels great". I'd suggested starting with something like words of appreciation to get used to talking during sex, like "that feels amazing" it may not be what your partner is after but then you can slowly build "fuck your cock feels incredible stretching my pussy" or whatever the activity, to then build to real filth or instructions like "fuck me harder" etc or whatever turns him on. Work on eye contact as well maybe as that always helps me, if I can have eye contact with someone I can be more vocal without it feeling awkward. Hope some of that helps. Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"well last night i was able to get out little bits last night about what i wanted in between orgasms and moans, and what a reaction. lets just say its a good job we have waterproof sheets!"

That’s great!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

"I'm pretty vocal...my buddy used to throw cushions on my face to shut me if we stayed somewhere

That’s what I have to do with Mrs K

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mrs A is very loud. We are wandering how much our neighbours can hear and it's probably quite a lot

To be fair we have had our neighbours banging on the wall because we were been to loud before.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jess is extremely loud and ‘descriptive’

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Fairly vocal I think, usually moans, oh god/yes/fuck and sometimes verbal - that feels good don't stop etc. In terms of actual dirty talk less so. I find it hard, usually say something very cringy and then end up with the giggles. "

Can confirm that there is a sweet spot at a specific angle that makes Mrs get very vocal

Words, not as much, sometimes she will direct me to 'stay there, keep doing that' so I know not to change up.

Occasionally she will talk about meets if we have come home from a club, or have a meet planned to try and rile me up

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread