FabSwingers.com forum: Yes its hard as a single guy here but...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ask yourself how many other parts of your daily lives could it be remotely argued as men we are dealt a shitty hand.

Hard luck stories and self pity are not the way. It might sound brutal but again ask yourself, roles reversed would you be attracted to someone wallowing in self pity. Probably not...

Regardless of whether youre getting meets or replies straight away engage in this community which for the most part is rewarding and welcoming; full of so many different types of interesting people.

When messaging take the time to write a considered response. Its usually readily apparent when youre looking to engage with someone who a will be receiving a tonne of messages and b might be looking for conversation on a 'hi how are you?, level.

I can almost write some of the replies I might get to this already but I have written this in good faith. As someone with adhd I do know how brutal rejection can feel so please dont make lazy assumptions based on what you might assume I am.

Stay positive and be patient.

As a random aside, I find this place far easier to make meaningful connections with decent people than in the big bad world of vanilla online dating.