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By *archel OP   Couple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Are we rarer than rocking horse shit or unicorns? Are we the square pegs in round holes in the world of swinging?

18 months into our swinging adventure, all we seem to have encountered is attempted wife snatching on a regular basis for the bi ladies...to the point Mrs M will no longer entertain playing around bi couples as she's sick of being hit on by the ladies despite telling them she's straight, and Mr M being left out like a loose goose.

We do love the social side of the club scene and are out most weekends. We've met some fantastic new friends and had some great laughs...but since we changed our profile bio to straight couples only for play it's like a ghost town lol

Any other straight couples encounter the same issues?

Fab could do with putting a filter on search preferences to straight only for us dull swingers

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Tbh although I'm bi it doesn't mean I want to play with every woman I meet in a couples situation of rather play straight.

Some people see bi and think we want to fuck every women we lay our eyes on, strangely enough I can resist the urge to grope boobs I'm not one for being watched so the whole women play men watch to start just puts me off.

With a single woman it's different obviously.

Just saying don't rule out all bi couples we don't fancy every woman.

Mrs

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think there is a real problem on the scene where women are assumed at least bi-curious until proven otherwise.

Totally straight women are fairly rare, especially as part of a couple for some reason. Now it's one thing assuming wrong and having to be politely told. However it's another thing when people know your boundaries and push their luck anyway or chose to ignore your wishes. Sometimes we've found on the scene that people will knowingly override other people's wishes in the pursuit of their own selfish gratification unfortunately.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

We have not had this challenge - we are a straight couple and are candid about it - we respect others and have found plenty of men and some women to play with ... the best policy is candour and courtesy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had this. Penny doesn't mind a little bit play with the right woman hence we have bi-curious but originally she was down as straight, we always told people we only play straight and literally every single play the woman would go straight for her pussy. If a bloke did that to another straight bloke fists would fly but as its a woman breaching the boundaries it seems to be acceptable.

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By *archel OP   Couple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"I think there is a real problem on the scene where women are assumed at least bi-curious until proven otherwise.

Totally straight women are fairly rare, especially as part of a couple for some reason. Now it's one thing assuming wrong and having to be politely told. However it's another thing when people know your boundaries and push their luck anyway or chose to ignore your wishes. Sometimes we've found on the scene that people will knowingly override other people's wishes in the pursuit of their own selfish gratification unfortunately. "

This is exactly the experiences we've had. One couple I told the lady three times I won't play with women at all, for her to then say 'I don't mind you being straight as long as I can play with your tits'. At that point I said...you touch me, I'll break your fucking fingers

Mrs M

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By *archel OP   Couple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"We have had this. Penny doesn't mind a little bit play with the right woman hence we have bi-curious but originally she was down as straight, we always told people we only play straight and literally every single play the woman would go straight for her pussy. If a bloke did that to another straight bloke fists would fly but as its a woman breaching the boundaries it seems to be acceptable. "

Yep if men did this there would be hell on. Seems to be acceptable coming from women...it's not!

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We are both straight but only want to watch and be watched so even more rare. Not many of us. Sometimes people obviously only see the pictures and don't read the profile. Hence last minute cancelled meets which are very frustrating.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think there is a real problem on the scene where women are assumed at least bi-curious until proven otherwise.

Totally straight women are fairly rare, especially as part of a couple for some reason. Now it's one thing assuming wrong and having to be politely told. However it's another thing when people know your boundaries and push their luck anyway or chose to ignore your wishes. Sometimes we've found on the scene that people will knowingly override other people's wishes in the pursuit of their own selfish gratification unfortunately.

This is exactly the experiences we've had. One couple I told the lady three times I won't play with women at all, for her to then say 'I don't mind you being straight as long as I can play with your tits'. At that point I said...you touch me, I'll break your fucking fingers

Mrs M "

I'm actually shocked, I mean how desperate must someone be to try it on with the same sex knowing their straight and how bloody rude & just embarrassing as you say if this was a man it would be a totally different conversation.

Mrs

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By *archel OP   Couple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"I think there is a real problem on the scene where women are assumed at least bi-curious until proven otherwise.

Totally straight women are fairly rare, especially as part of a couple for some reason. Now it's one thing assuming wrong and having to be politely told. However it's another thing when people know your boundaries and push their luck anyway or chose to ignore your wishes. Sometimes we've found on the scene that people will knowingly override other people's wishes in the pursuit of their own selfish gratification unfortunately.

This is exactly the experiences we've had. One couple I told the lady three times I won't play with women at all, for her to then say 'I don't mind you being straight as long as I can play with your tits'. At that point I said...you touch me, I'll break your fucking fingers

Mrs M

I'm actually shocked, I mean how desperate must someone be to try it on with the same sex knowing their straight and how bloody rude & just embarrassing as you say if this was a man it would be a totally different conversation.

Mrs "

This

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By *ot_so_newbiesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs


"Are we rarer than rocking horse shit or unicorns? Are we the square pegs in round holes in the world of swinging?

18 months into our swinging adventure, all we seem to have encountered is attempted wife snatching on a regular basis for the bi ladies...to the point Mrs M will no longer entertain playing around bi couples as she's sick of being hit on by the ladies despite telling them she's straight, and Mr M being left out like a loose goose.

We do love the social side of the club scene and are out most weekends. We've met some fantastic new friends and had some great laughs...but since we changed our profile bio to straight couples only for play it's like a ghost town lol

Any other straight couples encounter the same issues?

Fab could do with putting a filter on search preferences to straight only for us dull swingers "

Main reason we solely look to play with single guys. Miss is fully straight and not interested in Bi so would hate meet a couple and the whole vibe killed if any ff play was initiated. Does help Mr isn't bothered about playing with other females either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve had this alot, to be fair both of us getting propositioned on here assuming that were only "fab straight".

we have no problem meeting bi couples or singles as long as they recognise those boundaries, although not had chance to meet a couple and play yet so dont know how it'll play out

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester

Echo all the above.

We are both straight and only looking to play with other straight couples.

Hubby isn't comfortable around bi men, curious or otherwise and I'm not into ladies at all.

HW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Echo all the above.

We are both straight and only looking to play with other straight couples.

Hubby isn't comfortable around bi men, curious or otherwise and I'm not into ladies at all.

HW

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we dont mind playing with bi people (have done so with bi guys) as long as they respect boundaries

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn

It sounds like some people don't understand what consent means. Trying to initiate bi play with a straight couple, is just the same as trying to full swap with a soft swing couple in our book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there is a real problem on the scene where women are assumed at least bi-curious until proven otherwise.

Totally straight women are fairly rare, especially as part of a couple for some reason. Now it's one thing assuming wrong and having to be politely told. However it's another thing when people know your boundaries and push their luck anyway or chose to ignore your wishes.

***Sometimes we've found on the scene that people will knowingly override other people's wishes in the pursuit of their own selfish gratification unfortunately. "

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

The amount of couples who the lady I have played with over the years have said simular comments, so no its not uncommon and one of the reasons a few couples have left fab. Boundaries need to always be accepted and respected.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We are a bi-curious couple as coming onto fab has given us a chance to explore our sexuality. However we have met people who are straight and respect that during play in the same way we would expect any boundaries we have to be respected. Just basic decency.

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By *ookiewithcreamCouple
over a year ago

London

We are a straight couple but from our limited experience there seems to be quite a few straight couples out there. I guess each to their own. For us it’s not a competition. We are happy to find the right couple for us.

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
over a year ago

london

We’re both straight. D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a straight couple but Alice will let another woman play with her. If the girls want to play then it's all good. If not, then it's also great.

Seems like majority of fab has couples with a bi woman or maybe that's just expected I guess?

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

We’re both straight and fine it hard to meet couples that are the same we ok with straight men but couples seems hard

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"It sounds like some people don't understand what consent means. Trying to initiate bi play with a straight couple, is just the same as trying to full swap with a soft swing couple in our book"

Exactly that, is no one talking? Appreciate the OP’s example of telling the other F no.

When playing in any scenario we ask the other party before doing anything and multiple times during play.

We expect the same in return. There has been a couple of occasions when a stray male hand has touched Mr in a deliberate way. They were met with a “No, not for me” and we’ve all carried on playing.

Mrs is more curious than a rug munching curious thing, and we are always double certain of what the other F wants before engaging.

Sorry to hear what some people are experiencing

xx

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Probably still in majority op in general.

People should just respect limits regardless gender / sexuality it’s a person issue

I get it with supposed straight couples I met where in messages it’s made clear there will be no male in me interaction other than Dvp / double blows in the Mrs.

Inevitably the moment we start it’s the guy trying to drill my asshole out like a dewalt hammer drill

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and straight & we've been told in the past the other lady can turn me bi .Err no she can't ,we've chatted and made it clear that I'm straight ,then couples have made reference to me and the Mrs snogging etc.

I know it's not all couples with a bi fem ,but some can't respect boundaries .

some men are the same ,so I think it's the person that has no respect ,rather than it being down to gender.

My partner can be orally bi with the right people ,but would never impose himself on anyone and is more than happy to play straight.

It can be hard to find couples that aren't looking for some form of girly play and it does seem you're assumed bi as a woman until proven otherwise (as said further up).

I think some people still try it on because there are men and women who claim to be straight (fab straight) then do same sex play.So it's assumed what people say and do aren't always the same thing.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Over the years, especially in clubs, we found women to be the worst offenders for this.

It pretty much stopped us visiting clubs as it just seemed a constant battle with them and maid the whole evening start to feel tiresome.

There are a few that claim that they are happy to play straight, but they really can’t.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Morning

Straight couple here.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

When we was new to swinging

We met a couple and never discussed play. The female half of the couple tricked my Mrs by started by one kiss. We thought it’s ok. But she went on like that for next 15 min. My wife looked at me and invited me to the play. As soon as I joined them, all of a sudden, the woman went to her wanking husband. That was it.

That put us off bifem play big time.

All this while, I didn’t enjoyed watching it.

We learnt few things that night.

Discuss play and no bifem

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Seen the same thing. These days seems everyone wants a bi female in a couple.

J is bi comfortable she will kiss and feels boobs etc but isn't into the full on face down there.

But every couple seems to think as we are swingers it's game on.

Happens often even after a social and messages and always up front that we are both straight.

Xxx

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

We get this everyday , despite mentioning 3 times on our profile , people still keep asking us.

Once a male half of a cpl was chatting. I told him she is straight.

Then again he asked the same question.

So I asked him “ can he suck my cock?”

He said “ No, I am straight “

Then I told him, exactly that’s what I am trying to tell him that my wife is straight too.

He got offended lol saying that I am rude.

I mean wtf.

He expects a straight woman to be bi but he being straight can’t even imagine sucking cock lol

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