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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So were probably got our last night away tomorrow before christmas and were kinda struggling now.

Do we go for the quiet hotel time in scarborough or the usual club in blackpool.

Reason were stumped is when we go to a club we end up having sex in the voyeur room a few times with the door locked. Last visit we ended up on the gangbang bed with just us and about 5 zombie wankers not wanker in the bad term but no couples. We then had a nice play yet again together in the cinema only to be watched by the zombie wanker brigade. Now we can do all this for free in a hotel we just dont seem to be able to work out how to attract a couple lol. We sit and chat to some we go in a pool or hottub obv naked yet still only attract single wanking zombie males saying am i alright to join in er no thanks.

We have dabbled with a couple before we started on clubs or at least 1 club so its not that were unsure of doing it.

So do we call it a day and stop paying to have sex with people watching which i find a real turn on tbh or do we try one more time.

Last visit we met a nice couple then we all went our seperate ways lol regularly bumping into each other.

Sorry for the wanking zombie terminology but thats whatvthey look like.

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By *ickychef1Man
over a year ago

Greenford

Maybe try a club where's it's couples and females night only. Love your pics by the way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We tend to stick to just the one atm and theres no couples only bits. I do prefer that idea.

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By *ickychef1Man
over a year ago

Greenford


"We tend to stick to just the one atm and theres no couples only bits. I do prefer that idea."

Give it a try and see how it pans out. You may find another club that fulfills both your needs....

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

I was going to suggest the same thing. A different club. Especially one that had an event on tonight.

Alternatively what about going to your club and setting yourself the challenge of asking at least say two couples to play.

Doesn't have to be too overt. Chat somewhere public and then say oh we are heading to the so and so room do you want to come with us. Then they can either politely decline and stay where they are or join you.

Apologies if I have got wrong end of stick and you are already doing that.

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By *ickychef1Man
over a year ago

Greenford

It can be difficult sometimes asking. The way I would do it is to just say I'm off to such and such room, hope you guys come to and walk off x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was going to suggest the same thing. A different club. Especially one that had an event on tonight.

Alternatively what about going to your club and setting yourself the challenge of asking at least say two couples to play.

Doesn't have to be too overt. Chat somewhere public and then say oh we are heading to the so and so room do you want to come with us. Then they can either politely decline and stay where they are or join you.

Apologies if I have got wrong end of stick and you are already doing that. "

No were not doing anything we manage to chat then its just a wander around.

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By * -and- LCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Snap! This is one of our reasons for ditching clubs. We’ve had a few experiences now of the “zombie wankers”.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Snap! This is one of our reasons for ditching clubs. We’ve had a few experiences now of the “zombie wankers”.

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Terrible isnt it

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By *poolfunswingcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We’ve been visiting clubs for a number of years and have seen the best and worst that clubs have to offer. We have had many a night when we have called it a day and just gone back to the hotel for our own fun because nothing was happening. Admittedly it does make you question yourself if there is something wrong with you or are you doing something wrong; the simple answer to that is no.

It is likely that the blend of people on that particular night just didn’t quite work.

All clubs do their very best to ensure their customers have a great evening and we can state that the clubs in Blackpool are excellent at this. Perhaps you could ask them to introduce you to a couple of regulars on arrival? in Club Play, we like to sit by the pool table to strike up a conversation with folks. It’s kind of like dating again and you have to do the nerve-wracking self introduction. We’ve all been there and even now it can still be daunting at times.

Either way, don’t give up as it will work out and if you are chatting with a couple who are showing signs of attraction towards you, why not be brave and ask them if they would like to join you in a playroom.

We wish you well with whatever path you decide for the weekend x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Go to Leeds social then pandora afterwards tons of couples there.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat to couples on here and ask them to go the clubs with you, or look at event nights and see who’s going, message a few first and see if there’s interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to Leeds social then pandora afterwards tons of couples there.

Mrs "

Yeh saw that advertised

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So club play it is see you tomorrow

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By *ohnboy64Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

I've never felt so insulted in all my life. "Wanker Zombies". If that's what you think of us then you can suck my crumbly cock. Pffft!

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

Cupids

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never felt so insulted in all my life. "Wanker Zombies". If that's what you think of us then you can suck my crumbly cock. Pffft!"

Like I said wanker as in hands down budgie smugglers constantly pulling your cocks. If you then stop if not you then don't start.lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've never felt so insulted in all my life. "Wanker Zombies". If that's what you think of us then you can suck my crumbly cock. Pffft!"

If the shoe fits

Mrs

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By *ohnboy64Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Seriously though, I've pleasured myself while watching couples play in a club. Always keep my distance and tend to wank gently and slowly. Don't do the budgie smugglers lol, just find a spot where I'll undo my towel, take hold of my cock and slowly wank till fully erect. Cumming is not the aim, just enjoy watching the show if they're ok with it. I have seen some guys who I think overstep the mark, wanking away furiously while almost breathing down their necks. Would be interesting to hear others opinions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seriously though, I've pleasured myself while watching couples play in a club. Always keep my distance and tend to wank gently and slowly. Don't do the budgie smugglers lol, just find a spot where I'll undo my towel, take hold of my cock and slowly wank till fully erect. Cumming is not the aim, just enjoy watching the show if they're ok with it. I have seen some guys who I think overstep the mark, wanking away furiously while almost breathing down their necks. Would be interesting to hear others opinions."

We're not into stopping people masterbating whilst we have sex god no that's why we end up in the voyeurs room prob but it's the hands down pants brigade following couples all night that's sometimes a little tiresome. As I've never experienced being single in a club I wouldn't know the etiquette however I'm pretty sure I'm not walking n wanking all night long.

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By *ohnboy64Man
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Seriously though, I've pleasured myself while watching couples play in a club. Always keep my distance and tend to wank gently and slowly. Don't do the budgie smugglers lol, just find a spot where I'll undo my towel, take hold of my cock and slowly wank till fully erect. Cumming is not the aim, just enjoy watching the show if they're ok with it. I have seen some guys who I think overstep the mark, wanking away furiously while almost breathing down their necks. Would be interesting to hear others opinions.

We're not into stopping people masterbating whilst we have sex god no that's why we end up in the voyeurs room prob but it's the hands down pants brigade following couples all night that's sometimes a little tiresome. As I've never experienced being single in a club I wouldn't know the etiquette however I'm pretty sure I'm not walking n wanking all night long."

I've only been to clubs as a single and I have obviously noticed guys following couples and women, hands down the pants, playing with their cocks. Think I'd be quite embarrassed to do that but I'm more than comfortable to settle down and masturbate where they are aware of me and what I'm doing. Never had any adverse reactions yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seriously though, I've pleasured myself while watching couples play in a club. Always keep my distance and tend to wank gently and slowly. Don't do the budgie smugglers lol, just find a spot where I'll undo my towel, take hold of my cock and slowly wank till fully erect. Cumming is not the aim, just enjoy watching the show if they're ok with it. I have seen some guys who I think overstep the mark, wanking away furiously while almost breathing down their necks. Would be interesting to hear others opinions.

We're not into stopping people masterbating whilst we have sex god no that's why we end up in the voyeurs room prob but it's the hands down pants brigade following couples all night that's sometimes a little tiresome. As I've never experienced being single in a club I wouldn't know the etiquette however I'm pretty sure I'm not walking n wanking all night long.

I've only been to clubs as a single and I have obviously noticed guys following couples and women, hands down the pants, playing with their cocks. Think I'd be quite embarrassed to do that but I'm more than comfortable to settle down and masturbate where they are aware of me and what I'm doing. Never had any adverse reactions yet. "

That sounds fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well not impressed yet again the zombies strike but plenty last night. May prob be our last visit not sure.

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