FabSwingers.com forum: First introduction/experience

By *exyHotwifeCouple2021 OP Couple
over a year ago

Here

Hi,

Although we have been members of the site for a while now, we’ve yet to take the plunge so to speak. What do people think is the most gentle first step, obviously after joining here haha

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C and N

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

Having checked, chatted someone here - speak to them on the phone and then leave mrs alone on the phone. Then check if they followed your instructions, eg dont like rude words etc or cheeky types/clowns etc and then arrange a meet with no expectations.

As we too are a couple and very careful. Anyone we meet will ideally have a verification here and we read it and check if the verify is hiding their profile etc - if all still looks well, eg, the the guy/couple live where they stated in their ad and not changing from can accommodate at home then talk about hotels etc, as the person especially if a single male for them to send you a pic of their face holding your fab name next to it

We never share a face pic with anyone on here or the one of the many social sites as you never know where its going to end up and we get many, many contacts. We have made clear in our profile we wont do face pics and the contactor is fully aware

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Maybe look to go to an organised social. You can chat to other swingers and share experiences, maybe make some contacts. Look in the "Meet requests and parties" forum.

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Hi,

Although we have been members of the site for a while now, we’ve yet to take the plunge so to speak. What do people think is the most gentle first step, obviously after joining here haha

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C and N

Talking / socialising

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We have both been on for over a year and found that going to clubs and social meets is a good first step, we enjoy meeting people and not go with the expectations of play, but if it does happen then it's a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Although we have been members of the site for a while now, we’ve yet to take the plunge so to speak. What do people think is the most gentle first step, obviously after joining here haha

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C and N

As has been said a social of some kind. You maybe lucky and find an experienced couple that are happy to meet for a drink and then at a later date take you to a midweek club night such as a couples only night. Attending you then have the choice to just enjoy being in the bar area and environment, taking yourselves to a private room to play by yourselves, a room with windows to be watched or side by side play on a couples bed. The biggest lesson to learn before dipping a toe in is that you are in control of everything that you do and that you let others do to you. The first step is always the hardest and after that the fun can begin.

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

"Hi,

Although we have been members of the site for a while now, we’ve yet to take the plunge so to speak. What do people think is the most gentle first step, obviously after joining here haha

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C and N

Talking / socialising "

We became a lot bolder after sttending a club in Kent many, many years ago on a quiet Monday morning - after that we always went on a weekeday took time off work and chatted to guys, well guys chatted to mrs and we becmae friends with one of the people there

IMO and feel free to disagree - after enjoying sex with you wife etc for a few months, seeing her fucked by another man, touched, kissed, fonddled, fucked is better than having sex yourself as you get older

so try a club quiet day

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

"Hi,

Although we have been members of the site for a while now, we’ve yet to take the plunge so to speak. What do people think is the most gentle first step, obviously after joining here haha

Get to some socials or arrange to meet for socials get to know chosen people in friendly environments

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C and N

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