FabSwingers.com forum: Rude judging people.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, is it just me but I dont find many nice genuine people on here who would like to chat and then meet,

and as a Married Bi guy there seems to be to many out there making judgements on my life,

I am genuine and just want fun without hurting anyone?

thanks for reading.

Steve in Luton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Except your wife should she find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nice to see people making judgments about someone they know bugger all about.

How do you know his wife is aware of his bi sexuality.

How do you know he has not got her full consent to seek others on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, is it just me but I dont find many nice genuine people on here who would like to chat and then meet,

and as a Married Bi guy there seems to be to many out there making judgements on my life,

I am genuine and just want fun without hurting anyone?

thanks for reading.

Steve in Luton

hi Steve ...read your profile - only comment id make (not a judgement just observation), i think you should be more open and honest about your personal/home circumstances --- putting "can accommodate some afternoons" could come across that you don't give a toss about your wife's feelings if you was caught ...etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things is you have to accept noones for everyone on here

We all get turned down its just part of doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So nice to see people making judgments about someone they know bugger all about.

How do you know his wife is aware of his bi sexuality.

How do you know he has not got her full consent to seek others on here."

i guess that the point im trying to make...Steve need to be more honest ...if that's correct grammar lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if people think because you are bisexual and/or married and that should exclude you from a swinging site... that is their opinion and they are entitled to it.... however.... it does not exclude you so why let their opinion spoil your time here. Just be upfront about your situation and allow an informed choice to be made by others. There are people for all on here.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess that the point im trying to make...Steve need to be more honest ...if that's correct grammar lol

Your spot on mate.

People read a profile and then assume they know them.

My profile is a single bi male also.

The wife knows all about it because we have a joint profile as well as both having single profiles..

Just because the profile is a single married guy dont always mean "cheating guy"

Judge others as you would like them to judge you.

Single fem isnt a slut that cant get enough cock, in fact it very rarely is.................

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ps... I judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can feel another one of those threads again..........

I would advise being honest and upfront about your situation in your profile and then people are able to make informed decisions on whether they would like to chat to you and potentially meet up.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Married Bi??? No problem at all. that is your choice....

But it is also someone choice to judge...

And some of us are real judge in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ps... I judge "

we all do if we are honest

we all judge for different reasons but we all do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess that the point im trying to make...Steve need to be more honest ...if that's correct grammar lol

Your spot on mate.

People read a profile and then assume they know them.

My profile is a single bi male also.

The wife knows all about it because we have a joint profile as well as both having single profiles..

Just because the profile is a single married guy dont always mean "cheating guy"

Judge others as you would like them to judge you.

Single fem isnt a slut that cant get enough cock, in fact it very rarely is................."

Yes but OP has not metioned being married or even attached in profile, I would still make a personal judgement that his wife knows nothing of his activities on this site.

I have no issue meeting married or bi guys but it does state on my profile that I'll only play with attached folk with their partners present...keeps me from meeting cheats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ps... I judge

we all do if we are honest

we all judge for different reasons but we all do it"

yes, you might not say it but you are thinking it.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

everyone judges people, whether you like it or not...

you will judge people on how they look, for example, bet you have never said something about how someone looks on a saturday night in any given city centre...

heck... I even bet some of you are judging me of what I have written just now....

lets not kid ourselves here....

I think some people mistake judgements for how people live within their own moral structure......

for example... do i look upon those married and playing without the consent of the person they profess to love more than any other in a favourable manner....

na... not really.... but thats not a judgement... that the way my moral compass guides me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ps... I judge "

what competitons you judging ???

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What is it with married bi guys called Steve?

I might form a select little club....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"ps... I judge "

But do you have a Lawmaster and a funny helmet? Because you're not a proper judge if you don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So nice to see people making judgments about someone they know bugger all about.

How do you know his wife is aware of his bi sexuality.

How do you know he has not got her full consent to seek others on here."

Cos if she knew then why would he not mention this and cos it wouldn't be a problem then would it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wot bout if ur wife found u on this site trawling 4 sex HURTING nice hubby u r lol there,s a song bout u sung by country western singer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess that the point im trying to make...Steve need to be more honest ...if that's correct grammar lol

Your spot on mate.

People read a profile and then assume they know them.

My profile is a single bi male also.

The wife knows all about it because we have a joint profile as well as both having single profiles..

Just because the profile is a single married guy dont always mean "cheating guy"

Judge others as you would like them to judge you.

Single fem isnt a slut that cant get enough cock, in fact it very rarely is................."

It doesn't mention ur married. If u have a joint profile then why not put something about this on ur single profile so people can see veri's and see thew trutrh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a rude judgey type, but honesty speaks out.

We have played with a married bi guy, but he was hot as you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also a thread killer....I have many talents now realised as I am out of the giraffe care game

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